chatinent:
What of we who suffered from small ourselves?

chatinent:
What of we who suffered from small ourselves?

chatinent:
What of we who suffered from small ourselves?

HarunaWest:
Appreciate yourself then.

lavylilly:

HarunaWest:
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lavylilly:

Foodqueen:
Very true.

2Radii:
that one is different oga.

If u have a genuine father pls appreciate him, if he's not den relegate him.


In general, what op is saying is that the effort of the father deserve great appreciation.

I used to tell people, when mother dies, the children would miss the closeness of their mum to them but life continues. But when father dies, everytin in the family crumbles, the children start suffering, the ladies among them start doing coded oloshow.

Why?? They lack the father figure which they didn't realize when he was alive but are force to realise wen he dies.

There is one lady i met, she was ill and mommy refuse to send her money for hospital bill, i told her to call hus daddy she said daddy is no more, that if not he wouldn't have bn like this. Then i ask her to go back to mum, afterall mum are the best tins after oxygen, she went mute

Not discrediting mum in anyways, but bn a father mysef, i know how it drills.

luvyaself95:
In whatever and whatsoever father are the best they will surely teach you one thing about life whether bad or good.

wunmi590:


In my next life nah to just go and become a Rev. Fr sure pass

Nazgul:
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them.

They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping.
My dear your father could not help being absent as long as he is a hard working and responsible human being . Na waka waka to put food for table make am no dey too dey available.A responsible father will always make up for his absence whenever he has the chance .

I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family.

Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime.

Nazgul:
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them.

They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping.

I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family.

Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime.

Nazgul:
The major reason why most kids are closer to their moms is because a lot of dads out there don't bother to build working relationships with them.

They just settle the bills and move on. Whereras the mom is there all day with them, moulding or manipulating them to love her more. When I was growing up I hardly knew my dad, in fact he was almost like a stranger to me, cos by the time he comes back from work, it's very late and I'll already be in bed sleeping.

I began appreciating him when I started growing older, and saw the magnitude of sacrifice he was putting into the family.

Father's should learn to cultivate the habit of spending quality time with their kids as well. The quality time most men spend in bars, clubs, hotels...etc, if they devout it to building working relationships with their kids, believe me, those children would love and appreciate them till death. Take them out on weekends, talk to them, tell them stories, crack jokes, take pictures, play games...etc. If your impact and presence on your kids is only felt when you're dead, it means you failed them as a father during your lifetime.

bukatyne:


Well said.

A number of women are sole providers and still manage to build a relationship with their kids.

The excuse of daddy is working hence not available is so 20th Century.

lavylilly:
Have you worked on the Island and you stay on the mainland?

lavylilly:
Being a dad is a thankless job

Kobojunkie:
Dads who are involved in the lives of their kids receive the thanks they deserve.

lavylilly:
Really? how many dads in Nigeria work only Mon-Friday aside from Govt workers?

lavylilly:
Really? how many dads in Nigeria work only Mon-Friday aside from Govt workers?

bukatyne:


Won ti gbe baby yi ni handicap sha. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙈🙈🙈🙈🙈