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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Calibrator: 4:39pm On Sep 07, 2022
Only a fool privatise a public toilet and then turn around to wonder why everyone is violating the privacy of his home to take a dump.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Trilz(m): 4:46pm On Sep 07, 2022
Bro, you didn't do anything wrong and it's not your fault.
Henceforth stop taking her serious and play along until when you are tired of her you move on.

Trilz

Anyways I do data entry jobs
Check my signature for more info
Best regards

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Starz825(m): 4:56pm On Sep 07, 2022
Most ladies no dey, dey conscious when it comes to a guy they admire or secretly like....

You can have her once she likes/admire you ...at that point..she doesn't care if she is in a relationship or not.....to her: it's crazy but it's fun since she likes you

Ladies, how do you guys do it sef .....
I kind of find it hard to date two ladies at the same time..
I don't have that strength

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Savedday: 5:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
9ja girls don't love and dey will never love u.

They are nothing but useless. All of them...

Know this and know peace

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by UyaiIncomparabl(f): 5:59pm On Sep 07, 2022
Vinnie2000:


You are VERY WRONG on this!

Ladies Always have Love or Romantic Weakness for that Guy they Cheated with!

Particularly If the Guy fuccked dem Well!

They are Always Emotional Attached.

If a Marriage Breaks up, the Man looks for New Girls to Fucck.
BUT the Woman tries to hookup with her Ex Lovers or Boyfriends to Fucck!

You're just jonzing. A woman does not need to love you to have sex with you. If she finds you attractive enough, she plays the game with you and deletes/blocks your existence afterwards. Women are now getting more emotionally brutal and aloof.

The earlier you know, the better.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by LikeAking: 6:00pm On Sep 07, 2022
hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

Sorry!
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by duduade: 6:01pm On Sep 07, 2022
Carcholce:



This is the exact way I dated one lady while I was in school. She come to my place for drawing tutorial.

The tutorial session usually ends in 15 to 20min due to her lack of attention, the next 3 hours that follows is body massage and banging fellowship.

LOOOOL

Una try
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Craig24: 6:41pm On Sep 07, 2022
Does it mean that guys of today's age cannot stay alone and plan their lives in a positive light without keeping a sexual relationship with a woman?


Who says it is a must to have a girlfriend biko nu?

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Oturatetuala(m): 7:14pm On Sep 07, 2022
As God no fit commot toto for man matter, na so dick no fit commot for woman matter.
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Duchessree(f): 7:37pm On Sep 07, 2022
I wonder how your girl cheating on you relate with the statement you made "Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work."

By the way, we no longer put mouth in people relationship anymore, because after you guys settle, na for bed una go settle your advisors matter tongue tongue tongue

Do whatever is right and will make you have peace of mind.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 8:13am On Sep 08, 2022
Duchessree:
I wonder how your girl cheating on you relate with the statement you made "Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work."

By the way, we no longer put mouth in people relationship anymore, because after you guys settle, na for bed una go settle your advisors matter tongue tongue tongue

Do whatever is right and will make you have peace of mind.

I supported her to get a work, she used that opportunity fck.

How are they not same case?

Is that not why men don't want their wife to work?
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 8:15am On Sep 08, 2022
Craig24:
Does it mean that guys of today's age cannot stay alone and plan their lives in a positive light without keeping a sexual relationship with a woman?


Who says it is a must to have a girlfriend biko nu?

love happens..mr hardrock
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Tboymessiah(m): 8:28am On Sep 08, 2022
NasoLifeBe

Poor no need girl friend but needs money
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by emmaodet: 8:41am On Sep 08, 2022
pansophist:


Youre hearing for the horses mouth, and you're still doubting. grin

Women will nack you and forget about you, its not a male thing, but a human thing. Usually what you said works when a woman just started having sex, romeo and juliet things, youngies kinda love.

But as they grow older and receiving advances from all angles and of course, nacking some of these men, then their sexual elasticity reduces. They get less emotionally attached to sex.

And I don't know which world you live in, but the one that I'm staying, this chicks will nack you and delete your number after they left the door. You think say women na your mate? grin


grin grin
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Regex: 10:13am On Sep 08, 2022
hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

Where you failed is you allowed her to fool you. There is YouTube and the Internet to teach her the practical. They planned this long before the interview. The interview was just a means to an end.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Sweetvie: 10:17am On Sep 08, 2022
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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by hotwax: 11:50am On Sep 08, 2022
Regex:


Where you failed is you allowed her to fool you. There is YouTube and the Internet to teach her the practical. They planned this long before the interview. The interview was just a means to an end.

wooow shocked shocked

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by tayewomi(m): 4:41pm On Sep 08, 2022
Aaaaarghmed:
dump her,this little opportunity she has already had sex..if you give her 1 week a porn she go act.dump her before she dumps you.i speak from experience as the experience master.if you like no hear o
abdg let's hear from your experience!
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by minexpo(m): 4:51pm On Sep 08, 2022
grin grin ;DSo what's your next plan? Dump her ?? I'm curious to know your next move..but I would love you confront her and act cool with ..her conscience go judge her die embarassed
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Regex: 5:09pm On Sep 08, 2022
hotwax:


wooow shocked shocked

No wow me oh... Na your girlfriend, you get two options. You sabi the one weh suit you run am
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Nonexisting1: 5:21pm On Sep 08, 2022
A hoe is a hoe. Stop blaming yourself nigga, she is for the streets. This one will sleep with your best man a day before wedding. Dump her sorry ass but first, turn her to your personal olosho for now.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Mr5050(m): 5:30pm On Sep 08, 2022
I don't take that gender serious, is it their crocodile tears when u catch them, abi their lying ability, abi their pretensious nature abi na their entitlement mentality abi their gulibility. Bro leave matter for Mathias, every female gender wey u see get her own price, na u wey de think say na virgin Mary senior ur babe.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Chamakh93: 6:10pm On Sep 08, 2022
if this story is true , pls don't confront her , just ghost her. he dey always sweet when u ghost pple like dat.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by CaveAdullam: 8:32am On Sep 09, 2022
1. Though the stories many of you share here are fictional, however, it reflects the true state of men when it comes to women and romantic relationship. Even fiction still encodes truth and reality.

2. Women are manipulative when it comes to sexual relationships. They are logical about it and will take proper steps before execution.

But men on the other hand, just want women for sex and reproduction. Women are practical about romance and relationships, men are oblivious to the facts that belie.

3. Your story is another credit to the fact that at the right time, right place, and right man, women will fvck regardless of their romantic engagement with their boyfriends, fiance, or husband. This is the alpha fvck side of women's nature termed hypergamy(alpha fvcks; beta bucks).

4. All women may not experience this but it is a tendency that is rooted in women's psychology. Women never want to miss that chance of getting a quality gene for their offspring. It is fvck now and thinks later.

5. Religion understands this hence, so much restriction is placed on women's sexuality. Raw data from social science and research carried out prof J.D Unwin came up with substantial facts that if women are allowed to be promiscuous, the rate of societal growth will decline.

6. Religious men from different parts of the world understood this early, especially middle eastern men, and for that reason, placed huge restrictions on women.

7. However, the world is now secular and liberal, with no codes and conducts to guide men and women and protect society, everyone has gone wild.

We are all victims of the mess we created and yet still complain about it. Cognitive dissonance? Oh yeah. Hypocrisy? You are right.

8. The true test of a woman's loyalty is when she has access to other men. If she doesn't succumb to their titillating carrots, then, she is someone worth committing to. However, this is true for the outliers amongst women. Women are first loyal to their feelings, to defy that feeling at that moment is to be raised and guided by strict adherence to principles and masculine leadership. Just a few women; the majority will soon succumb.

9. It is because women cannot be trusted to this extent when it comes to seduction and temptation that they must be constantly watched. You must hold their hands from infancy to death, else, any slight opportunity, they will leverage their sexuality, emotions, and beauty to cause emotional and psychological damage to themselves. And like it or not, any damage they cause, it returns to affect men and society both directly and indirectly. Refer to 5 above.

10. You don't place women in the face of temptation and expect them not to succumb. They will, even the religious among them. Women hardly walk through temptations and hell without coming out dàmaged. For this reason, once you decide to commit to women, just know that you are about to increase your work and make many sacrifices.

11. The telltale that a relationship is coming to an end is when she cheats on you or compares you to other men sexually, physically, or financially. Once you notice this, please don't bother looking for any marriage counselor to advise and help you, end the relationship and let her go.

12. There are many ways to identify these red flags, but if you are too point-focused on the satisfaction of your libido and bamboozled by her body and romance you will fail to see these red flags. Women are loyal to their feelings but with time as a result of physical contact and interactions, they will expose themselves.

13. Bro, from a humanity standpoint, you have done well for her. But don't be taken away that if you help a woman she will always be there for you. Help her out of charity and not romance, else, you will always meet with disappointments.

14. Women are loyal to their feelings and when it comes to their feelings no matter how tangible your good to them in the past, not even yesterday, they will never show sympathy. Refer to 8 and 13 above.

15. The most efficient way to even help a woman is to help her father, brothers, boyfriend, fiance, and husband. These are males that will in turn take care of her. Because once a woman's status is in a crescendo, she will never consider these men any longer or show them respect. Just look around and observe the behavior of so-called independent women - arrogance, contemptuousness, entitlement mentality, and the like.

16. A woman can only be loyal to one man, and if she is the type that distributes herself among different men, it means her pair bonding ability has fallen drastically. And you should leave her and let her go, she is for the street.

Avoid claiming a monopoly for a product that wants to be commercialized by the public.

Be a wise man.

Thanks.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Oyenike01(f): 8:40am On Sep 09, 2022
Omo. My gender Sha.

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Davytech(m): 8:49am On Sep 09, 2022
Baba forget her!!!

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Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by Michelle55: 9:13am On Sep 09, 2022
All I can say at this point is sorry, take heart smiley na thank you for the tutorial she give the guy.
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by NNTR: 9:05pm On Sep 09, 2022
hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

Rozross:
I have stopped chooking mouth in boyfriend and girlfriend matter. Please carry your cross, when you were enjoying and having your own sex with her you did not inform us.
Succinct response

Rozross:
Don’t stress yourself over a cheat, dust yourself up and move on
Over a cheat? shocked shocked shocked
Is he, himself, holy pass? Is holy pass Elijah sha. Hope he's holy pass the prophet sha
If he is holy pass, then, I concur with the view that he shouldn't stress himself, should dust himself up and move on. Well those aforementioned, all, after he has casted the first stone.

Personal text: Jesus is not a theologian. He is God who told stories.
Re: What Did I Do Wrong In Supporting Her Career? by kelspinall(m): 11:25pm On Sep 09, 2022
hotwax:
There is an urgent need for my Girlfriend to change her teaching job due to the way she is being treated and the pay was not enough. She was to attend an interview by Friday last week.

The new work place were going to give her practical test. She confided in me that she no longer remember the practical part since she left school. She needed to visit a close friend of her who was going to do a refresher for her.
Her friend is a guy. Going to visit a guy at home sounded somehow. But I didn’t want to be a blocker to her greatness at a crucial part of her life. I kept mute hoping nothing will happen. You know how women can demonize you at that stage of her life. She is desperately looking for Job and all I do is jealous?

Just this Monday, She came visiting me on her way from work to relax a bit while traffic subsides. She slept off. I noticed someone calling her on whatsapp video call. The person tried like 5 times. Out of curiousity, I tried to see who it was (I did not pick the call). I check the profile picture, then went to chat. It was my girl close friends. I went through their chat and saw how they had sex for the first time on this same tutorial day. It seems he has been trying to have sex with her for months but due to their inability to meet, he could not. But the tutorial gave him the opportunity to nail it.

I also know that my girl is aware he has is own girlfriend, she just did it anyways.
I didn’t confront her, and she obviously not aware. But I have been trying to forget her, limiting our interactions.
Now I know why some husband don’t want their wives to work. Just to go for interview, she don have sex. Its that bad for girls of nowadays. Sex every corner..

I just felt I didn’t do anything wrong. I am not at fault.

this guy don use em heart put for woman,lols,gals that loves exploring and having fun lolx..kpele

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