purehustle101:


Men get married to belong to the class of he is responsible, not necessarily for kids, because kids can be gotten outside wedlock.
The only reason you should have a wife at home is only if she brings peace and companionship aside these your a mad man for depriving your self the comfort you deserve... Youngmen should forget love and emotions is a mental disorder and focus on there happiness .

richie240:
Says who?
I'm glad you mentioned God, bcus God has given us d manual, na mankind dey do over-sabi.



Na d 'operating manual'be that.
Theres no woman that will fully do away with pride and submit 100% to her husband and still have problem with the man; and there's no husband that will love his wife 100% that will still 'look outside'

There's no couple/marriage dt will follow it (God's instructions aka 'God's manual') to the fullest that will still have challenges.

God has given us d manual for a successful marriage; it's now our decision to either follow that manual'or not.

I can't give u food and still help u to eat it; whether u get filled with it or die of starvation is a function of whether you choose to either eat d food I provided for u or not. You can't blame me (again) for your own refusal to chopulate d food I provided for u.

Whether our marriages survive or not, na awa hand e dey; God don do hin own (tey-tey) and e don rest!

Kobojunkiee:
You have to be the right person yourself... that is all you can be sure of in marriage. No matter how long you search, you will never be sure of whether the other person is right enough or not, or if that person will not up and change the next day. So it is key that one at least is sure he/she is the right person for that particular union and goes from there.

Kobojunkiee:
Same goes for men who almost always expect too much from their womenfolk as well. These days, you have some even going as far as suggesting that the way to have it all is to marry more wives and/or have side chicks.

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

purehustle101:


Men get married to belong to the class of he is responsible, not necessarily for kids, because kids can be gotten outside wedlock.
The only reason you should have a wife at home is only if she brings peace and companionship aside these your a mad man for depriving your self the comfort you deserve... Youngmen should forget love and emotions is a mental disorder and focus on there happiness .

Kajaard:


Marriage should be enjoyed and not tolerated. Emphasis on tolerated. It's best to part ways peacefully once it becomes toxic.

nony43:
That’s why I love Oyibo, they understand themselves a lot of them don’t want to marry they have partners , they knack, have kids and still stay with each other. They want everything that marriages brings but they don’t want it to be legally binding. My friend has a partner and they have stayed together for 36 years. I told him to put a ring on it , he said he and his partner doesn’t want marriage. So many people are like that.

Believe me it is the best.

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

nony43:
That’s why I love Oyibo, they understand themselves a lot of them don’t want to marry they have partners , they knack, have kids and still stay with each other. They want everything that marriages brings but they don’t want it to be legally binding. My friend has a partner and they have stayed together for 36 years. I told him to put a ring on it , he said he and his partner doesn’t want marriage. So many people are like that.

Believe me it is the best.

SirJerrie:




Lol
which "oyibo" are you taking about?

You don't have to use the case of your friend to generalize!!

Jeezuzpick:


And you know this......how?

paradiseVirgin:

What is so special about housing a woman if not for just having kids

Kobojunkiee:
God told you over 2000 years ago that your marriages are of this world and not of the Kingdom of God - Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 - so where do you lot get this idea that it is God that keeps your marriages?

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

Angbakpa:
Chai....bro you're wrong oo
That's not the right interpretation of that scripture. It's saying that in that other world, no need for marriage coz if you're considered qualified and eventually entered into that world, you won't need go get married or be given out in marriage. You'll be like angels.

Know this and know peace ko. That's the true interpretation .

visijo:
Right now there's a poor guy working so hard to take care of his cheating girlfriend!

_2mins of silence_

Kobojunkiee:
You claim to be born-again, right - John 3 vs 1 - 8? Well, as Jesus Christ told you, over 2000 years ago, the moment you became born-again, you entered into the Kingdom of God, a Kingdom not of this world and He Jesus Christ commands you to then live your life in submission and obedience to His teachings and commandments, God's Law and Truth in the Kingdom of God - John 14 vs 20 - 25. So, when the same Jesus Christ then told you in Luke 20 vs 34 - 36 that your marriage, as one who is a citizen of the Kingdom of God by virtue of being born-again, is of this world the not of the Kingdom of God, He clearly means that the rules of the Kingdom of God do not cover you in your marriage...or do you still not see how Jesus Christ was only repeating that which God decreed in Genesis 3 vs 16 - 19 still stands?

Angbakpa:
You're gullible.

hartopher76:
Married people, have you ever come to a point were you feel that outside your children, you have no other business with your wife.

Kobojunkiee:
Gullible for processing what is written as is written, really?

Angbakpa:
I'm sure you're not a Christian nor are you a Muslim. You're an atheist maybe. But thread carefully is my advice.

Wande22:
As i dey so, the level Of toxicity wey dey my marriage, even if you wear 10 hazmat suits, you will Be "exposed"

mikkyjay:


Hahahaha brother, nobi small thing oo, marriage wahala no dey ever finish.
My own sef ee, in fact at times I feel like running away to were nobody will find me.
Like one of my old friend will always say 'this thing is not supposed to be for life"
Las Las, na because of children person still dey here o

mikkyjay:


Hahahaha brother, nobi small thing oo, marriage wahala no dey ever finish.
My own sef ee, in fact at times I feel like running away to were nobody will find me.
Like one of my old friend will always say 'this thing is not supposed to be for life"
Las Las, na because of children person still dey here o

Wande22:
hehehehehe i think Say na only Me o
Especially if she get small change for hand