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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by DJInfluence: 7:19am On Oct 02, 2022 |
This story is incomplete. How old were the boys before adoption? What were there living conditions living with their adopted family.e.g how many kids and adults were in the family they were adopted into? Where they loved, cared for and treated well by the family that they felt like part of the family? There are so many things that affects a child's life growing up, because even biological kids do beat up their parents and do some of the things you mentioned here. So what kind of training was given to these kids? Making a blanket statement like the OP is not correct but people should do their due diligence before adopting and ensure to treat the kids as their own too. 3 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Caseless: 7:25am On Oct 02, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Many were adopted and they made it in life. Being by a mad woman doesn't make any child automatically mad. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by shemysgad: 9:33am On Oct 02, 2022 |
* A child given birth to by good parents can still end up a bad child. * I've seen twins grow up with totally different characters. One really good, the other very bad. * Please next time you make such post, consider the fact that some of your audience are adopted and doing well with Thier families. * Try to add MY PERSONAL OPINION to sensitive posts such as this. Thanks 4 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by sexuential: 9:53am On Oct 02, 2022 |
PoliteActivist: Ur examples need to be looked at critically. 80% of them were adopted by people who are either relatives or who knew the child's parent rather than unknown parents. Also, the mother of the child followed suit to the new home by marriage. Which means the child is not with complete new family members. Nature Vs nurture "What is" still remains "what it is". Nuturing just helps it accomplish its nature conveniently. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by PoliteActivist: 10:28am On Oct 02, 2022 |
sexuential: Sooo, How do you explain siblings who turn out polar opposites though raised by SAME parents simply because one was SPOILT by the parents growing up?? 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by KristaPretty(f): 11:18am On Oct 02, 2022 |
Such is expected when you do not train a child the right way, adopted or blood! Your dad's friend did terrible parenting. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by GreyLaw(m): 1:48pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Useless post! There is a man called Derek Prince who adopted and raised 25 kids in his lifetime and they all turned out useful humans. Isn't it a pity that someone who doesn't know the difference between loving a child and spoiling a child is giving advice? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by truthhurts2: 9:57pm On Oct 02, 2022 |
Fahvvy:Pls watch ur back, I will find you and I will marry you because, I fuccking love you You've said it all 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by leonard002(m): 11:58am On Oct 03, 2022 |
The question is : Is there a genetic predisposition to bad behaviour? If there is, then that answers so many questions. Personally and from experience with people, I believe there is a genetic reason why people from similar places behave in a certain way. Genes that affect behaviour exist. So the OP has a point Though nurture plays a huge role. Nature's role should not be waved off |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by pointblank247(m): 7:47pm On Oct 03, 2022 |
Epositive:there are characters that one can inherite from parents |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Epositive(m): 8:11pm On Oct 03, 2022 |
pointblank247: Agreed. Environmental factors are very potent too when it comes character formation in children. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by FarmTech(m): 10:30pm On Oct 03, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:. If you adopt, also make sure you lead them to Christ and help them break any ancestral powers following them. "Love" is not enof. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by BeardedMeat(m): 1:52am On Nov 07, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:If all the girls say you are childish, you really maybe childish judging the outcome of one incident as a general rule. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by capnies: 1:48pm On Nov 07, 2022 |
FeliciaOja: THE ENVIRONMENT INFLUENCE IS HIGHER THAN GENETICS IF NOT WHY ARE WE NOT LIKE ADAM, WHY THE DIVIATION IN CHARACTER. THE BIBLE RECORDS THAT EVIL COMMUNICATION CORRUPTS GOOD MANNERS. WHICH IS ETERNAL HERE. IF YOU THINK THE GENE IS STRONGER GIVE BIRTH TO INTELLIGENT CHILDREN AND DON'T SEND THEM TO SCHOOL. WHICH IS EXTERNAL? WHY DO PARENTS BOTHER SENDING THEIR CHILDREN TO GOOD SCHOOLS. WHICH IS EXTERNAL THE EXTERNAL HAS MORE INFLUENCE ON US THAN WHAT YOU'RE BORN WITH IF YOU PAMPER A CHILD WHETHER FREE BORN OR ADOPTED; WAIT FOR THE CONSEQUENCES. TRAIN A CHILD IN THE WAY HE SHOULD GO AND WHEN HE IS GROWN HE WILL NOT DEPART FROM IT ....... EXTERNAL |
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