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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by doggedfighter(f): 8:05am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Kobojunkie: Honestly, the way they reason is worrisome. 12 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by BigDawsNet: 8:09am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Not all adopted kids grow to turn to razz man or bad people... your uncle friend was just unlucky or probably they grew up in a bad environment 3 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by techWriter3: 8:11am On Oct 01, 2022 |
you not about to going lots of adopted kids here on nairaland very angry with this your post 1 Like |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Baronthecelebri: 8:23am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Yeah you're right,a woman adopt a son and when the boy later discover that he was adopted he plan kill her and take the property, but she sold the land to salvation ministries, in the condition that when she die the church will buried her. Don't adopt male children, adopt female. 3 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Epositive(m): 8:32am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Nazgul:'Bi a ba ka eru, inu eru a b'aje'. Keeping adoption a secret will only work with family who lives in diaspora and these kids must be very young when adopted, say 2 years at most. That way they are fully integrated into the family before they become of age. No one will know about it including the kids themselves provided one has an understanding partner. That's a big factor too. However, if you live closer to home (relatives), forget it. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Epositive(m): 8:40am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Baronthecelebri: Many biological children have murdered their parents as well, for inheritance, rituals and whatnot. I don't understand the unwarranted castigation of adopted children. 28 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by starpower(m): 8:56am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Quite a lot of them according to there biography still displays some character flaws. JackDaAlienz: |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by wiseone28: 10:05am On Oct 01, 2022 |
This is an eye opener |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by phoneport(m): 11:32am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Adoption or no adoption! hear me, even the children you give birth to by blood connection can turn on you, it takes proper upbringing and God's grace. TWO THINGS: First... Most parents treat adopted children like eggs and not really being firm in treating their 4ck up from childhood, they think that being too strict on them will look as if they are being too sensitive and hard on them. If you can carry you two legs to go adopting any child, then be ready to be their parent in every area, infact train them more than even the child you give birth to and you will most certainly get a positive feedback. Secondly... Some people treat adopted children like; "woris it self, he or she is not truly my child so why should I waste my time, money, and energy on them" Some become cynical and wicked because Dem nor fit kokoma born hence, begin to transfer frustration on the child; beating the child and maltreatment like animals. Some will just neglect the child after adoption, as if they are having a second thought like, "Why I even go carry this witch pikin self", especially when they later have children. NOR BE BY FORCE TO ADOPT AND WEN YOU DON ADOPT, O BOY BE READY FOR PROPER TRAINING ME I GO ADOPT JOIN MY CHILDREN BY THE GRACE OF GOD. 15 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by funkmrflexx(m): 11:32am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: I think it boils down to how you train the child. Even the child of a holy person can turn out to be a miscreant if not brought up well 15 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Mercury12(m): 11:32am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Hmmm |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by xevove2061: 11:33am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: This is the most wicked and insensitive post to make. It is apparent that your fathers friend did not train those children in the way they should have grown. The fault is on him for 2 kids of different parents to turn out the same way under his responsibility. Get out from here please. 18 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by OsuIgboIpob: 11:33am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Your uncle or father's friend is a failure. Children are like clay and parents are like potters. He failed in bringing them up well and now, he's ripping what he sow. 16 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by phemmyfour: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Nonsense You use your father's friend case to make a general statement. Some adopted children grow up to be great people in life e g Joke Silva 10 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by KanwuliaExtra: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2022 |
I guess the only consolation for your dad’s friend is that he was not the sperrrm-donatus. It makes no difference. A child destined to go sour, will do just that. I bet you never watched ID channel stories that touch. Just pray you do not encounter BIOLOGICAL DEMONS!!!! 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by waititi: 11:34am On Oct 01, 2022 |
op is just talking utter nonsense. Talking about madness, talking about how the children are evil and such bs. Your father's friend is to blame for the way the children turned out.YES! he did not raise them right. you say he loved and pampered them,I say he spoiled them. You don't know what was going on in that family while you were in yours so shut up. 14 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Kellie069(m): 11:35am On Oct 01, 2022 |
So legitimate children that stays with their parents and has these aforementioned issues as you have stated nko? Maybe the nurses changed the babies in the hospital abi!!! Una go just sleep n wake , come de cap shiiii because of una 1centimeter experience!!! 15 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Cutehector(m): 11:36am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Train a child in the way he should grow, and when he is old, he shall not depart from it. You uncle's friend failed as a father to train him correctly. One thing i have discovered about most humans is that they will never take responsibility for their short falls. 15 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by HBB1(m): 11:37am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: You realize Steve Jobs was adopted? So was Joke Silva The Shamrock brothers and many more like that. No dey cap rubbish abeg! 15 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by OsuIgboIpob: 11:37am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Nazgul:Your last paragraph is impossible. How can people not know you adopted? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Teecosmetics(f): 11:37am On Oct 01, 2022 |
so pastors children are not into armed robbery 10 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by lhordspy: 11:38am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Sheistoopretty: Kai.. Wetin i fit give this person ooo You said it all. So many gibberish and baseless talks without making a single point. 5 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by ElValiente(m): 11:39am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Something oyinbo dey do daily with no stress. D u have to tell them they were adopted mitcew 3 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by sihamey: 11:39am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:We have a lot of Yahoo’s boys , drugs and cultist in Nigeria does it mean all of them are adopted child Please take your independence dose you will be fine. Imagine generalizing it because your uncle failed to give the kids good parenting. 13 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Brunicekid(m): 11:39am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:How will you just say that madness is hereditary?? 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Mercury12(m): 11:39am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:jux shut up already... Raise a child right. Your kids or adopted kids or someone else kids. They will turn out good. That is the rule 11 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by INDUSTRIALFAN(m): 11:39am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:your reasoning is. Very frail. I have a childhood friend who I later got to find out was actually adopted as a baby by his family. He should be around 31/32 now and he is the coolest person I know. Still very much with his adopted family and you wouldn’t even know they aren’t actually blood related except for difference in looks. Pampering and spoiling kids with gifts is not a guarantee they will grow up to be sensible. Nurturing and parenting are totally different things. You think it is blood that makes kids to not misbehave? Lmao. 15 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by gassbee: 11:40am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Dat write up is crap, u adopted kids and could not train them up properly n u r expecting magic to happen 9 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by jrobbins: 11:40am On Oct 01, 2022 |
What's even the essence of adoption? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by judedwriter(m): 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Adoption isn't a bad thing.... You are showing love to the less privileged in the society. However, adopting a child isn't a guarantee that the child will be a Saint when grown up. We all got out choices in life, we aren't robots. You even choose to adopt a boy or girl against the odds_they too when grown up have their choices to make whether good or bad. No one can change an adult, we may pretend to change but really it's impossible to change a human being except by force or violence. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Sleekfingers: 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Lame reasoning. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by ChiefOloye(m): 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
I can relate to this |
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