JackDaAlienz:
I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family.
Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys.
My uncle warned my dad not yo try it.
I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes.
For some reason he didn't adopt again.

Fast foward to 20 years later
That my father's friend is living in hell,
He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim.
They even beat him up and steal his money.

Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption.
Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling
It's a huge mess.
This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all

Divay22:
Adoption is not the cause but how they were raised..
A baby you adopted or a toddler you adopted doesn't know anything.. Blame it on your father's friend..

Divay22:
Adoption is not the cause but how they were raised..
A baby you adopted or a toddler you adopted doesn't know anything.. Blame it on your father's friend..

JackDaAlienz:
I remember early 2000, my dad was planning to adopt a kid Into our family.
Later I found out that my father's friend adopted 2 boys.
My uncle warned my dad not yo try it.
I even remember going to orphanage with him to see how it goes.
For some reason he didn't adopt again.

Fast foward to 20 years later
That my father's friend is living in hell,
He says those 2 boys he adopted turned out to be into yahoo, drugs, cultisim.
They even beat him up and steal his money.

Till today im forever grateful to my uncle for preventing my dad from adoption.
Because all the families I know that adopted kids back in the 2000. None of them have peace, they always fighting, quarreling
It's a huge mess.
This is why i think Adoption is not worth it at all

superCleanworks:
you are about to get lots of adopted kids here on nairaland very angry with this your post.

JackDaAlienz:

A snake will always be a snake
If you like feed it everyday and buy gifts for the snake for 40 years non stop
The snake will still bite you because
Blood is thicker than water
Genetics is stronger than everything..

If you adopt a child born by a Mad woman and dumped in orphanage.
If you like raise them in U.K or U.S.A
Take them to Harvard or Cambridge
He still has the genes of his mad mother
Madness is hereditary and transferred from mother to child
And when the madness start affect him
There is nothing u can do

JackDaAlienz:

how can a fish brain understand all the grammar I wrote.
It's like explaining photosynthesis to a 2 yrs old
They will never understand.
Until your brain develop then I can reply u.
Bye

JackDaAlienz:

My father's friend loved those 2 boys with all his heart.
Because his wife couldn't birth a boy for him.
He cherished them and pampered them
Bit look at how they treat him 20 years later.

Man had partial stroke after one of them beat him up for asking him where he is coming back from late at night.

Its not by raising them with perfect love
They will exhibit their ORIGINAL parents behavior
What if their father was a Hardcore killer who raped and pregnanted a Mad woman
Mad woman give birth and they put the baby in orphanage.

That baby has the genetics of his ruthless killer father. No matter how much love you show him that baby will still exhibit his original parents behaviour because he has his genes

JackDaAlienz:

That is what my girl says whenever she start losing argument..
When you have nothing intelligent to say
You begin to call people childish
I have dealt with many girls like you
Once they start losing argument they start calling you childish lmao
Una format don cast since

Kobicove:


You have some strong points but I don't think it applies in all situation

JackDaAlienz:
Adoption is like suicide.
You don't know what you are putting your hand in
Because 90% of kids in orphanage homes
Have no history or records of their father and mother
Do you know if the mother was a Mad woman?
Now you adopt a child who has genetics of a Mad woman.
When the boy grows up and start acting like his mother what are you gonna do??

Basically, you dont know anything about the history of the child you are adopting .
While there are some who turn out great.
Majority of adopted kids turn out to be a huge mistake

Fearyourcreator:

100...
Even a child raised by both parents sef dey turn nonsense...

PoliteActivist:


This is not true at all. There is a difference between showing kids love and spoiling them. It is quite easy to "show kids love". It is much harder to instill discipline in them (though it breaks your heart because you love them). They'd hate you for it at the moment, but when they grow they'd appreciate you for it

FeliciaOja:

I feel no amount of nuture can change your true nature.
If your father is tall his kids inherit tall genes
If you father had hot temper issues and you inherit it. No amount of love can change it.
That is why genetics is stronger

JackDaAlienz:
Adoption is like suicide.
You don't know what you are putting your hand in
Because 90% of kids in orphanage homes
Have no history or records of their father and mother
Do you know if the mother was a Mad woman?
Now you adopt a child who has genetics of a Mad woman.
When the boy grows up and start acting like his mother what are you gonna do??

Basically, you dont know anything about the history of the child you are adopting .
While there are some who turn out great.
Majority of adopted kids turn out to be a huge mistake

JackDaAlienz:

You are still a kid, until you have your own kids you will understand that it takes.
If you take an orphan, feed them, cloth them and care for them for life.
Which type of love is bigger than that
They are not your biological kids but you sacrifice and hurstle everyday to provide for them.
I ask again, which kind love is bigger than that??
This is what that man did for his 2 adopted boys yet they still torment him.

Do you know if the original parents of those those boys are rascal?
A lion doesn't gove birth to an elephant
A lion gives birth to A LION

So if you like treat the lion like a human
If you like dont spoil the lion
If you like discipline the lion
give it cloth. Give it shoes give it car
That lion will always be a wild animal

I know a nurse who her adopted son is in Malaysia doing yahoo. He fights and beats her before he travels.
He didn't even tell his mother he was traveling

Divay22:

No mind OP abeg..
He thinks buying toys and buying biscuit is all it takes to raise a child.

JackDaAlienz:

A snake will always be a snake
If you like feed it everyday and buy gifts for the snake for 40 years non stop
The snake will still bite you because
Blood is thicker than water
Genetics is stronger than everything..

If you adopt a child born by a Mad woman and dumped in orphanage.
If you like raise them in U.K or U.S.A
Take them to Harvard or Cambridge
He still has the genes of his mad mother
Madness is hereditary and transferred from mother to child
And when the madness start affect him
There is nothing u can do Is madness hereditary

JackDaAlienz:

My father's friend loved those 2 boys with all his heart.
He cherished them and pampered them

JackDaAlienz:

You are still a kid, until you have your own kids you will understand that it takes.
If you take an orphan, feed them, cloth them and care for them for life.
Which type of love is bigger than that
They are not your biological kids but you sacrifice and hurstle everyday to provide for them.
I ask again, which kind love is bigger than that??
This is what that man did for his 2 adopted boys yet they still torment him.

Do you know if the original parents of those those boys are rascal?
A lion doesn't gove birth to an elephant
A lion gives birth to A LION

So if you like treat the lion like a human
If you like dont spoil the lion
If you like discipline the lion
give it cloth. Give it shoes give it car
That lion will always be a wild animal

I know a nurse who her adopted son is in Malaysia doing yahoo. He fights and beats her before he travels.
He didn't even tell his mother he was traveling

JackDaAlienz:

how can a fish brain understand all the grammar I wrote.
It's like explaining photosynthesis to a 2 yrs old
They will never understand.
Until your brain develop then I can reply u.
Bye