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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by djlyrics(m): 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Fallacy of Hasty generalization, I'm saying since you did not deliver your brother or your husband/wife, and you're doing quite well with them? With inclusiveness you can also do well with an adopted son or daughter. 1 Like 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Emmynwasmart: 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
I pray to God to provide for me financially because no matter the amount of children I have I will definitely adopt a child all the aforementioned characters can also be found in your biological children 14 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by twilliamx(m): 11:41am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Not all turn out like that.. Even kids from your own loins can turn out like that. Train your kids in the way they should and when they drow, they will never depart from it 6 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by sunnymighty(m): 11:42am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Divay22: Fixed! 2 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:43am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Divay22:100... Even a child raised by both parents sef dey turn nonsense... 9 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by kosiebe(m): 11:43am On Oct 01, 2022 |
You only wrot about the disadvantages, what about the advantages? 1 Like 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by safarigirl(f): 11:44am On Oct 01, 2022 |
There are so many wicked people on this thread. So, because your uncle's adopted kids turned out bad, all adopted kids will be bad? I know a family that has 4 children and all 4 of them are useless, they take drugs, they steal, they sell drugs, they smoke. All the vices known to man, they do it. Yet, all 4 are biological kids of their parents By your daft logic, nobody should give birth again. Adoption is not the reason kids turn out bad. Don't come here and spit on children who came to this world by no choice of theirs, and turn them to pariahs. They did not choose their lot snd should not suffer for it. I hope all of you speaking against adopting have no plans to go to heaven. For any human being to have such terrible thoughts of innocent children, na devilish behaviour be that. 17 Likes 6 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Slurity(m): 11:44am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Its not about the adopted children, it's about the heart their parents that adopted them has toward them know the children are not actually theirs. There is this level of tolerance you can go for things you know it's truly yours and things you know that you are just a custodian. Many house that did not adopt a child are in mess too. I mean very many 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Germi9: 11:44am On Oct 01, 2022 |
I read people say bad parenting LOL i have seen parents who were so bad In bringing up children yet non of the children were bad, am talking about marrying more than 5 different wives or women,beating them,not even providing,smoking and carrying small small girls to the house and lots of nasty things. What will be, will be ..as a child you chose whom you want to be cos no be your parents go follow you go school Even the children of pastors,police and professors are worse quote me 9 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by sylve11: 11:45am On Oct 01, 2022 |
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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:45am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:You just talking nonsense... Alaiye rest joor... So you have not seen news where child used their biological mother for ritual... Wetin you dey talk sef 10 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:45am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:You dont have sense 8 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by HelipsTech: 11:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Apologies OP, you have fish brain for this non sense post. I don't know what you tend to achieve, with this myopic views of yours. I pray you live and train your children. 13 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Dshocker(m): 11:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Oga all this you are saying has nothing to do from their genes, the blame should go to the parents that adopted them, because the upbringing with faulty from the beginning. You can't pamper a child and not expect the child to grow into a brat. If your father's friend had been disciplining them, they wouldn't have come out this bad. 8 Likes 2 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Thomhenry: 11:46am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: But I think she is correct. You have no logic. How can you just conclude that adopted kids are a menace. How many times in the news have we heard that adopted kids killed their parents. But how many other times have we heard that biological kids maimed their parents or had perilous quarrels with other family members. There are several factors that can contribute to delinquencies in grown ups. You can't just arrive at conclusions from just a single occurrence or two, from millions all over the country. I think you need to mature in thinking. Your girl has a point. You aren't reasoning at the level she expects. That's why she looses the argument. U draw her down to a lower reasoning level of a kid, and then jump in victory. I don't mean to sound bad, but that's just the truth. 17 Likes 9 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:47am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Kobicove:He was just being emotional |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by michlins(m): 11:47am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:next time, remember this place is for learned people not people like you with prejudice 11 Likes 4 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Divay22(f): 11:47am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Fearyourcreator:No mind OP abeg.. He thinks buying toys and buying biscuit is all it takes to raise a child. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Etosha: 11:47am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Some children will turn out bad no matter how good you are as a parent. 4 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:47am On Oct 01, 2022 |
PoliteActivist:This person just wan talk |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by LadyExcellency: 11:48am On Oct 01, 2022 |
FeliciaOja: But Jesus Christ can make the greatest difference in the life of any child. |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by FireUpNow(m): 11:48am On Oct 01, 2022 |
I want to ask the OP if his father's friend gave those adopted kids proper training? Why adopt kids if you as a man or woman have your own kids? Are well brought up kids not ending up doing yahoo and drugs? One of President Shehu Shahari's sons was caught as a drug dealer and a user and also imprisoned. There are some adopted kids that are better people today. The Op is myopic and parochial! Some of you here go to club houses and hotels owned by big yahoo boys and drug dealers. Some of you here your sisters and other female family members are married to drug dealers and fraudsters. Are there no fradulent and drug men running politics and big preachers in churches and other religious organizations.? 10 Likes 8 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by SyrusdeHansome(m): 11:49am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:Is madness a genetic condition? |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Joshuadavidodog(m): 11:49am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Don't let me ask you to keep shut. You're an outsider in that house, you don't know how your uncle spoilt those boys. It's not about feeding and clothing, it's about discipline. We adopted our last born 23 years ago, he is well behaved and does almost everything without complaining. Your uncle spoilt them; he lets them do what they liked while they were younger. Being a yahoo boy doesn't make anyone bad in heart, why do you guys always think you're holier than others? You don't have vices? You don't lie? 9 Likes 5 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Fearyourcreator: 11:51am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Divay22:Just throwing invalid points... |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by mystical109(m): 11:52am On Oct 01, 2022 |
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Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by lawrenzooo: 11:52am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz:At the bolded was the problem. My mum have this philosophy that kids are to be loved and not pampered.... She would love u and treat your fuckup at the same time. Many people in our neighbourhood didn't actually believe she gave birth to me. 4 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Joshuadavidodog(m): 11:53am On Oct 01, 2022 |
JackDaAlienz: Don't let me ask you to keep shut. You're an outsider in that house, you don't know how your uncle spoilt those boys. It's not about feeding and clothing, it's about discipline. We adopted our last born 23 years ago, he is well behaved and does almost everything without complaining. Your uncle spoilt them; he lets them do what they liked while they were younger. Being a yahoo boy doesn't make anyone bad in heart, why do you guys always think you're holier than others? You don't have vices? You don't lie? I see you stressing on those boys vices like you're heaven bound? 9 Likes 7 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Spectrum22: 11:53am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Only a very few people can treat someone else's child with the same love and patience they treat their own. 2 Likes |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by HIPROFILE(m): 11:53am On Oct 01, 2022 |
It all goes down to parenting! You should also tell us how your dads friend trained those kids were they trained under him as a single father? what kind of environment were they trained in. See, irrespective of inherent hereditary genetics, everyone is born with empty brain and memory it now becomes a first hand duty on the parents to put in what they wish to have them become as they grow even though peer pressure influence and other vices from externals can still play a role but most people tend to hold tight their basic home training than what they learnt from outside the home. Your narrative should not be generalizing. 8 Likes 3 Shares |
Re: Adoption Is Not Worth It At All by Midas01: 11:54am On Oct 01, 2022 |
Lmao... This your comment is goated JackDaAlienz: |
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