Talk to her about this. She might not realize she is making you feel bad.

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Understand her love language ........

That's poor upbringing right there. The sense of gratitude is best instilled from childhood. There isn't much you can do at this stage.

psucc:

Let me answer you with this:

A woman complained about walking all the time while her class had bicycle, courtesy of their husbands. As a husband, the man struggled and bought one for her. As usual, she was very happy and had to celebrate it.

Her husband's friend came one day visiting, she told him of her husband's gesture. In act if gratitude for what the husband has done, the man gave her money to buy rope, so that anytime she has a load, she can use it to tie it. This was very much appreciated as the husband couldn't afford it.

One day the husband need to fetch straws for their goat and since the wife wasn't around and the rope on the bici was there, the man picked it and left. The wife came and wanted to go out with the bicycle, she went for the rope and it was not there, so she look for it until the husband arrived. She was so furious that her husband touched the rope.

One question from her was: if not for a stranger, did you know that they do buy rope for their wives?

Now imagine the cost of rope and the bicycle.

Please take your wife as she is. Do not try any harder to change her less you end up destroying your home.

Hmmm, very deep...
@ Rtk5, that shouldn't stop you from doing the bit you can do and also it does not mean you should go overboard to get her appreciations.

Slynation:
well, As for me, I'm not married, so I usually mind my business when marriage is involved, and can only contribute when the guy is single...

But I'm very sure the married men saw all the red flags but decided to tie the knot because of big breasts, big ass and possibly fine face...

This your comment made me laugh, because I am also single, you see those men and women who ended up with partner with small or plenty commas, some of them felt they are getting the best deal or at most with little baggage but life happens, you can't detect all of the red flags and that right there is my own concern no be say me sef no get my own comma but I detest person with hidden agenda.

dbestuncle:
There is a popular saying that women speak from the bedrock of their emotions especially when they are angry. They don't speak about fact or truth once they are angry but how they feel at the moment.
Even if you buy your wife a car now, in less than a week if you have a fight she can say it boldly that you have never bought her anything in life.
This is the way it plays out for most of them and it is not ingratitude na anger.
So if your wife matter na vex dey cause am just look away, discard the plenty talk and move on to better matter.
Sorry it hurts but they are again the most loving if we can make them happy.

Not at the expense of your happiness though.

All this bluepilled beta's self.

Women cannot appreciate the sacrifices men are expected to make.
Even the most independent woman you can think off operates in this feminine-centric way.

Women are incapable of loving a man in a way he expects to be loved, even our mothers, sisters and girlfriends are incapable of this idealized type of love.

Also, Genuine attraction cannot be negotiated.
The fact that you needs to please her proves you're in a negotiated relationship.

I hate to break this to you, but you're obviously the beta male in her hypergamous equation. She will (if she hasn't already) cheat on you the slightest moment she feels bored.

Get redpilled, save your future generations the stress. No single decision can make or break a man than who he decides to be the mother of his children.

Well, here is another version o. I have 70k on me last two weeks. I gave her 20k for food. The rest is spend in taking care of our new apartment that needs some repairs and that includes HER OWN clothes cabinet which alone consumed 15k ooo. She then started demanding demanding I give her 10k, despite I stated how I spent every penny and I didn't buy anything personally for myself or did anything in my own room,she said I just wasted 70k without benefiting her. 20k for our food, 15 alone for her cabinet and all other things like curtains rods etc . I'm taya o, and what can they offer other than kpekus? Nothing!!! And when you decide to face your girlfriend outside and leave their stupid kpekus for them, another problem begins, you will see your wife beating her own child for any little mistake. Just call them devils kawai

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

divorce her

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Didn't u see it wen dating each other.. y complaining nw....... medicine after death

Oga carry ur cross n accept it like dat

No b only ur wife naso those gender dey that is y u need to pray n fast b4 u marry so dat God can direct u to c a better one

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Hmmmmm. So why did you marry her?

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Mr op, Have you tried asking what she wants. Sometimes all a woman wants is attention, listening ear, lil help at home.... etc but out of ego, you do what pleases you and expect her to be over the moon.
She is an adult, acede her request,not what you think is appropriate especially when she voices it out. Take a step back, listen to her even in those implicit demure and see her transform .

Wish a blissful home.

Mr Rtk5, Have you tried asking what she wants. Sometimes all a woman wants is attention, listening ear, lil help at home.... etc but out of ego, you do what pleases you and expect her to be over the moon.
She is an adult, acede her request,not what you think is appropriate especially when she voices it out. Take a step back, listen to her even in those implicit demure and see her transform .

Wish a blissful home.

psucc:

Let me answer you with this:

A woman complained about walking all the time while her class had bicycle, courtesy of their husbands. As a husband, the man struggled and bought one for her. As usual, she was very happy and had to celebrate it.

Her husband's friend came one day visiting, she told him of her husband's gesture. In act if gratitude for what the husband has done, the man gave her money to buy rope, so that anytime she has a load, she can use it to tie it. This was very much appreciated as the husband couldn't afford it.

One day the husband need to fetch straws for their goat and since the wife wasn't around and the rope on the bici was there, the man picked it and left. The wife came and wanted to go out with the bicycle, she went for the rope and it was not there, so she look for it until the husband arrived. She was so furious that her husband touched the rope.

One question from her was: if not for a stranger, did you know that they do buy rope for their wives?

Now imagine the cost of rope and the bicycle.

Please take your wife as she is. Do not try any harder to change her less you end up destroying your home.

TF

Do you best & leave the rest , it pays to show gratitude , some people own are inbuilt , no matter what you do them they will never appreciate your efforts .

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

I wish I could credit the NL poster of this pic.

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Again STFU

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

But you saw these attitudes and choose to go ahead to settle down with her.

Pls continue to carry your cross ✝️ �..

All Woman will be the death of a Man. While the good woman will use spoon to dig your grave, the bad ones will use shovel.

UyaiIncomparabl:


Must everything end in "sending your wives packing"? Can you not find better ways to resolve problems than sending people packing? I just hope your wife isn't dependent on you. I hope.

Dear, is really not a bad thing to send someone packing. If she is nagging, complaining, giving you all sorts of trouble. It could mean she was living a much better life, before you married her and condemned her to eternal misery. So when you send her packing, you are setting her free

zolajpower:

I really can't talk about it.

Is Ok bro. No problem

jeromestarks:

Which would you prefer. A nagging virgin woman or a woman who fvcks other men?

I know say I no go fit win this argument with you provided it concerns virginity

Una no date before you marry am abi you should have seen the signs

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

You must have seen this in her during the courtship period. You ignored it
Now you may have to live/leave with/without the consequences.

If you ever give your gf gift and she trashed it. It's because she felt she has given unsex so u are just paying back. Men pls for Ur own safety walk away. Walk away
Again don't listen to nay sayers
Walk your walk away


My then babe once told me that no matter what I do for her once I had sex with her she has paid me back. Yes I lend her 40k she was only able to pay 26k back. After two months I introduced her to pi network . She invested/bought pi from me though she didn't know the money is coming to my own aza. I chop her 100k. Till now pi has not rise.
I have also walk away. Yes men don't be emotional with this wicked does. Be it man or woman
Pls anyone reading this please don't be

jeromestarks:

Shut up!
No body lacks the spirit of gratitude. You don't worth appreciating because you're compared with the first man that fvcked her so she sees all the things you do as secondary.

This is just the beginning. Soon, she will begin to frustrate you in all areas of your life.

To have a peaceful marriage, marry a virgin woman.

You may sound harsh but you are actually very correct about marrying a virgin coz the virgin hasn't experienced other men as such she won't give you issues or make unnecessary comparison.

Typical Naija girls mentality,na so during my younger years I bought chocolate and flowers and made a compilation tape of RnB songs from the 90s, babe just look am fling go corner,fvck me, waka. Dem think it's all about fvck.

RomanGreen:


You may sound harsh but you are actually very correct about marrying a virgin coz the virgin hasn't experienced other men as such she won't give you issues or make unnecessary comparison.

You're liberated from amongst foolish men who thinks only love can hold a marriage.

bonnyhope:




I know say I no go fit win this argument with you provided it concerns virginity

.
Whenever we meet, I will give you two full grown rams.

My advice? Do NOT get this woman pregnant.

Rtk5:
I've been married to my wife for almost five years now. My major problem with her is that she lacks gratitude, she doesn't have the spirit and character of appreciation.

Infact even if you buy a private jet for her, she will be happy at the moment but after 5mins she will forget that you've ever done anything for her and if you don't do things for her, you will see her complaining more than the way Nigerians are complaining under buhari.

This her attitude is really becoming unbearable.

Didn't you notice this her behaviour before you married her?

Sounds like you would prefer life without her.