Toktee:
Your wife is fuccckin another gbola..
Your wife capitalized on your simplicity
She knows your weak point.
You love her more than she loves you.

SOLUTION.

Allow her to sleep.

Take phone and hid it.
When she start looking for it the following morning tell her she should not bother cos you want to know everything that's in there.
If she want fight give her.
Tell her to her face that she's cheating and failure to confess she will stop going to work.
If she deny you sex, rape her.


I am a violence comrade.

Any woman that cheat should be thrown out to street.

Useless species of human with brain in the azz.

Guy you no get joy I swear

ObamaMessi:
Yes!!!

Hahahahahaha keep searching

jessylaurel:


Hahahahahaha keep searching

You have successfully derail the flow of this communication. Keep playing intelligence. I'm a cute guy. Will you like to hang out with me? you will appreciate God.

SenecaTheYonger:


But you’re getting it outside though, right?

NOOOO! If I get it once outside, it means I will soon leave my wife. Because any lady I stay with for a week will not leave me till eternity. I have to keep myself pending the time my wife will be ready for me.

iLegendd:




The only money left in my account is money from the plagiarized books. When I get money from other means, I'll surely help you.

bros unah two just made me laugh so hard this afternoon

An ur response is epic

ObamaMessi:
Useless odugwu. I know a man is behind this monika and I'll soon decipher who you are bloody idiotic fool.

I'm a bloody idiotic fool just like your father, anything else?

UnknownQueen:

I'm a bloody idiotic fool just like your father, anything else?

The incoherence response by a child harasser. I will lock you up. Don't you know I'm a DSS agent?

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

Oga town crier. Keep crying.
This is the problem with you lily livered men as husbands.
How can your wife be living a cheating lifestyle and you be crying?

First where are you from? You didn't tell us if you are from the cultures where cheating is forbidden for ives, you are here complaining she stopped cooking and banging you. Maybe that is why she stopped.

Oga do your investigations well before she kills you with her chosen lifestyle.

Landowner101:
It's always good to marry someone you can control. E get why, and you as a man always keep your wife in check, by standing your ground, and stop taking nonsense from her no matter how little.
Women are always testing men!!
So don't be to simple for her to handle.
Know this and know peace.

Am not married though, just learnt from married people around.

You’re right on this.
For every nonsense she portrays is a test. When you ignore it, she has registers it. Be the man from dating. No need simping. For every nonsense they portray today, the signs have been there which you’ve ignored. Treat every Bleep with no laxity. Not abusive. Yes, she go tag say you quick vex, even tell her people and friends. Bro, e better like that. Helps keep them in check.
Na my wife dey carry say... other men dey check their wives phone, while me no send her parole.
I tell am say... you already know what’s up not to misbehave. No woman perfect, they get secret admirers everywhere. I tell you what, when she remembers you’re a no nonsense man, she no go like jeopardize her happiness and marriage for anything. BE A MAN AND BE IN CONTROL!!!

ObamaMessi:
You have successfully derail the flow of this communication. Keep playing intelligence. I'm a cute guy. Will you like to hang out with me? you will appreciate God.

I ALWAYS appreciate GOD WITHOUT you.

Gunboat127:



If you like spray all the perfume for supermarket,if she no wan knack you,she no go knack you,last last she fit give you pity sex

A man should know when a woman is cheating, for this life wey sex done dey as easy as saying "goodmorning"...I no see why any woman go think say she fit use that one as a weapon unless the man is SIMPle and doesn't know his worth...sex starved women looking for gbolas dey outside everywhere, start misbehaving in marriage and you go just give me an excuse to start sample the waiting Toto's outside

This is how you men spread disease.

Ereh

Slynation:
Just like goods has diminishing marginal utility, machine experiences wears and tears (depreciation) humans as well experiences something of this nature.

Perhaps it's high time we start practicing contract marriage in Nigeria because this current for better for worst doesn't and will no longer work due to see finish.

Everybody wants to experience love again, both parties stopped doing what made them fell in love because they now belongs to eachother which becomes a very big problem. After marriage, tolerance and forced captivity sets in.

Since I removed marriage from my to do list, there is this internal happiness and hefty self pressured burden taken away from my shoulders.

UnknownQueen:


Your tears have just begun..

Stupid entitled man, instead of you to have an heart to heart discussion with your wife, you decided to bring the woes of your family here...

By the way, you just said your wife works...it's very simple...

Your wife works, you work.
The domestic responsibilities of the home doesn't lie solely on your wife, if she's cooking, bend down and sweep, if she's bathing and cleaning up the children, wash their clothes....women are weaker vessels, physically , emotionally and mentally, so the burden of the home demands should be shared 70-30 btw the man and woman both financially and physically...

It's high time women woke up and smell the coffee...

Any man who wants his wife to work to contribute to the home front must himself be prepared to take charge of domestic responsibilities required in the home.....

Can you listen to yourself,70-30 clap 4urself...

stevups:

The last time I had sex with my wife was Match, I cannot even tell anyone. I'm just enduring it secretly. No human being has ever heard it from me.

u no want m neh,abi una no dey sleep on thesame bed, didn't you pay her brigtprice?

Originalsly:
Get the man's number .... call him up .

Hello ... I'm just calling to make you aware that your life is in danger. I learned you are having a relationship with my wife .... but that's not the problem ... my days are numbered but I'm not the type to drag others down with me ... friend or foe. Did my wife let you know she is H.I.V positive? I guess she didn't... the same way she didn't tell me. If you didn't know... well... you know now. I suggest you take a test and hopefully ... you somehow test Negative. Thanks for hearing me out.



It doesn't matter the depth of the relationship .... that man will not believe a word she says and the relationship will crash.

lol... what if the man have so many women he is lashing

jessylaurel:



I ALWAYS appreciate GOD WITHOUT you.

But this time around it will be greater.

Creamypie:
Me, though I still get atom of likeness for woman, but deep down, d only role I believe they are expected play in man life na to give birth to Una 2 kids. Only the absence of it go break my heart. Nothing. I repeat nothing and no part of my life dey for woman hand. P...sy plenty around my work environment wey I dey choose at will. Thank you

find me one chick for your side make i ejaculate too

millionboi:
Can you listen to yourself,70-30 clap 4urself...

I'm clapping with all pride here... Next pls

ObamaMessi:
But this time around it will be greater.

Oga rest abeg

efelicity:
I noticed a drastic change in my wife's behaviours lately. She doesn't cook, doesn't prepare our two kids for school, always citing body pains. I took the responsibility of cooking and preparing our kids. That is just by the way, she stopped having sex with me always saying she doesn't have the feelings to have sex. I suspect her of cheating because few weeks ago i heard her listening to WhatsApp voice note, a chat between her and another man. I demanded to have the phone but she refused. My wife answers calls at odd hours of the night but if i query her she would claim it's a friend or her boss at her work place. It's morethan a month when last i had sex with my wife.


I'm not harsh and I provide for my family. But my wife's behaviour ir burning me deep in my heart. I sometimes cry when alone in office or at home. Please advse me on what to do as iam pained and confused.

If your wife works, bug your house with spy cameras or spy audio recorders when she is out. Don't bring in new clock or new whatever. Use what it's the house already to bug the house. If camera will be tough, use audio.
When you are done with that, inform her a week ahead that you will travel on Saturday to the village to come back on Sunday. Leave house and go handg out somewhere, come back Sunday morning and play your audio, you must hear something. When you do, don't cry or get emotional, just go out and get a divorce paper and serve her.

Slynation:
Just like goods has diminishing marginal utility, machine experiences wears and tears (depreciation) humans as well experiences something of this nature.

Perhaps it's high time we start practicing contract marriage in Nigeria because this current for better for worst doesn't and will no longer work due to see finish.

Everybody wants to experience love again, both parties stopped doing what made them fell in love because they now belongs to eachother which becomes a very big problem. After marriage, tolerance and forced captivity sets in.

Since I removed marriage from my to do list, there is this internal happiness and hefty self pressured burden taken away from my shoulders.

You have really spoken like a matured person... exactly o...

Me I'm staying away from that institution called marriage. The purity of love only lasts for a while. Some criticizing the OP here haven't experienced love from the heart before that's why they keep wondering why he is so pained. The only mistake the op made was to love his wife with all his heart. He is giving 80% and she is giving 20% . That's not going to work.
Best thing for him to do is properly investigate without her knowing. Then if it's true..leave her alone straight.

Obidient4life3:

If your wife works, bug your house with spy cameras or spy audio recorders when she is out. Don't bring in new clock or new whatever. Use what it's the house already to bug the house. If camera will be tough, use audio.
When you are done with that, inform her a week ahead that you will travel on Saturday to the village to come back on Sunday. Leave house and go handg out somewhere, come back Sunday morning and play your audio, you must hear something. When you do, don't cry or get emotional, just go out and get a divorce paper and serve her.

Exactly...or let him visit a spyware shop..he can order it on jumia to be delivered to his office or anyplace of his choosing
.it's his homework if he wants to have a peace of mind

mmyfarmsltd:
Guy calm down, I've not had sex with my wife for over a year and 5months yet our 5th years anniversary is around the corner.
If you suspect her of cheating please confirm red-handed before accusing her.
I think you're worrying too much, nothing is worth your tears. Move on if you must move on.

No prioritize woman oh, no carry Dem for head. Know this and know peace.

you cheat on her that's why.. you haven't sex her

jessylaurel:

Oga rest abeg

Apologise before I let you go.

ObamaMessi:
Apologise before I let you go.

Move......

You better learn to adapt before you kill urself with hypertension