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Please Judge This Objectively by Meektunz: 12:03pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
I came back home yesterday after a stressful day and my wife served me food, after eating i relaxed and was watching TV then she went out and bought something to eat and she didn't offer me, then i went out much later as well and bought something to eat. Then next thing was she started grumbling that I will buy something and eat alone, this and that.... Then I replied saying but you just finished eating something which you bought, how am i suppose to know that you will still be interested in eating mine. For peace to reign, i said oya sit down and eat with me if you want to. She became so angry, since yesterday she has refused to eat anything in the house uptil now. Please guys did i do anything bad? Why are women so manipulative? |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:06pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
What you did was very bad, she bought something to eat because she didnt eat from what she prepared for you and a caring man will never eat alone.Go beg her for forgiveness and make up for it. |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by rtdCivilservant: 12:11pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
As the man of the house, u are not supposed to eat while others have not, anything u buy, ask ur wife if she cares for, if she is interested, give it to her let her eat, after all she is the bone of ur bone. If u are lucky she didn't finish it then u can eat the left over. It is wicked of u that ur wife went out to buy fried meat to eat, and u went out to buy suya and expect her longer throat not to long for ur suya. Everyone knows suya is sweeter than fried meat. So as a responsible man don't eat until all have had theirs (Including wife, children, in-laws, maids). 4 Likes |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Tickles001(m): 12:11pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz: You didn't do anything wrong at all, but I'd have done a different thing in that situation. You don't have to play the petty game with her. I wouldn't bother if she gave me or not since I didn't ask. If I'm so interested in what she's eating I'd simply ask, or send her to go buy for me instead of waiting to take revenge. Women are like overgrown kids. Petty, chaotic, and selfish. Don't always allow them free will believing they'll do what is right. Don't apologize. Treat her like you'd treat a child in this situation. Simply buy that same thing you ate and give her, then tell her to cheer up. Afterward, realize you're above your wife and act like it. Establish order and enforce it. That you had to react to such a trivial incident shows you're not acting like the boss in that marriage. 3 Likes |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by lanre9ja(m): 12:11pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Just beg her for peace to reign.... they are just like that u are not at fuilt at all..... 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Meektunz: 12:15pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:Who told you she didn't eat from what she served me? For your information, there is more than enough food. What she bought and what i bought that caused this were just snacks ooo. 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:18pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz:Learn to accept some petty habits in women same way women accepts and forgive their men for cheating. Stop buying snacks for yourself without buying for your wife, its not good. 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:22pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:Did you even read his post? Did you even read what you typed? Dey try digest things before you comment She bought something and didn't offer him, he didn't shout Now he bought something and didn't offer her, we no go hear word again Damn... nasty... I'm out of here 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:24pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:No good family man buys and eat alone. He was wrong, tit for tat treatment is not good between couples. |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:25pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz:Baba, don't waste your data replying this one, you'll never get a reasonable response from her Just beg your wife, for peace to reign If need be, get her enough snacks 3 Likes |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by MasterJayJay: 12:26pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
You didn't see magistrate court in your area? 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:27pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross: Omo..... mo foh oh But a good family woman can right? Kai......... You know what, bye 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:29pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:Petty man spotted lol |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:32pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:I pity who will marry you 2 Likes |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Ekejoestar(m): 12:34pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross: An advice for a SIMPle man |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:34pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Orgasmgiver123:Definitely not a petty small boy like you |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Psych412(f): 12:34pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz:leave her... let her fast |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Orgasmgiver123(m): 12:36pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:Yeah Small boys don't go for old hags, they go for fresh disease free babes 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by jogsman01(m): 12:37pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:Iyaebe the jury |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Demigod22: 12:43pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
If I find myself in this situation, if my wife like she should not eat anything in the house, those people fasting in church are not bigger than her. If she feels sharing is important in marriage then why didn't she share with you the one she bought? You see why I always say marriage is not for me? I hate what I don't like, I should foolishly allow myself to be manipulated by women simply because I want to keep a marriage. 1 Like |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by dawnomike(m): 12:44pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz:I suspect she is pregnant |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Demigod22: 12:46pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross: The distance between you and sense is like the distance between Akwa Ibom and Sokoto, veeerrryyy faaaaaaarrr. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 12:53pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
What you did was childish. Since she cooked for you, why would you try to get back at her for buying herself something to eat? Is she no longer allowed to spoil herself a bit? Had it been she did not cook for you, you'd still complain and don't you ever get full Meektunz: |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by AwesomeDuru(m): 1:02pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
See the replies from women on this thread! Omo family men are really suffering. Una dey try. 2 Likes |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by JasonScoolari: 1:59pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Rozross:You have started again Zzor. |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Fahvvy: 2:00pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
I think it's high time a section is created specially for females and children only, because the comments of those females above is proof that there is no difference between how most women think and how a child thinks ... Oga sir... You did ABSOLUTELY NOTHING wrong... However, in marriage the one who is right may have to apologize for being right for peace to reign ... It is obvious that being right in this won't bring peace to your home... And a home without peace is no home at all... I would suggest you do what you can for peace to reign (in this case apologizing to your wife and prolly getting her the same thing she longed for) ... |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Whois(m): 2:06pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
I learnt a lot from this comment. Thanks for the wisdom Tickles001: |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by halogate: 2:27pm On Oct 09, 2022 |
Meektunz:Making such trivialities a big deal naturally annoys me. Quarrel ontop "u didn't buy for me"...what happened to all the other days u'v be buying for her??.. Be like say ur wife na daddy's girl.. Anyway..just let it slide ok. Since u invited her, and she refused to join and decided to turn it into a full scale quarrel...handle it in a matured way such that u do not set urself up for more of this bullshit in the future. |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by Nobody: 9:18am On Oct 10, 2022 |
JasonScoolari:playmaker14 is that you? |
Re: Please Judge This Objectively by JasonScoolari: 10:38am On Oct 10, 2022 |
Rozross:How are you Lulu Briggs granddaughter? |
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