A guy asked you out the first time you said no.
Second time no too.
And you still want him close.

What exactly do you want from the guy?
The lady in question is financially okay. And never. Seek for financial assistance

Billing.

EmptyGarden:
Billing.

It's not about billing tho

Leeches don't leave you just like that.
Either you leave or they suck you dry.

Another pussy matter again.

Some guys are nice, we could be friends but not dating, the fact you asked me out and I humbly declined may not mean we shouldn't be friends if you possess the "my kind of friend" qualities...

alukstea:
Leeches don't leave you just like that.
Either you leave or they suck you dry.

And how is the lady a leech

TechNana:
Some guys are nice, we could be friends but not dating, the fact you asked me out and I humbly declined may not mean we shouldn't be friends if you possess the "my kind of friend" qualities...

What if that's not what I want

The reason for her action are ATTENTION, BACKUP PLAN & FINANCE....

1. It is a well known fact that most ladies are attention junkies and as such will do anything for some cheap attention, no wonder they expose their bodies for public consumption and make twerk videos online ...

2. She knowing that the guy likes her is something she knows she can use to her advantage... Just in case the guy she actually likes doesn't do the needful, the guy that likes her will be her back up plan and keeping him close by is the only way to ensure that his feelings for her never dies ....

3. Forget that financial stability cr.ap you're saying OP... No matter how much money women have, once there's a man in the picture, she expects him to spend on her ....

So yeah...
Those are the 3 likely reasons why she would want to keep the guy around, forget that whole "friendship" thingy she's using as a font ...

Fahvvy:
The reason for her action are ATTENTION, BACKUP PLAN & FINANCE....

1. It is a well known fact that most ladies are attention junkies and as such will do anything for some cheap attention, no wonder they expose their bodies for public consumption and make twerk videos online ...

2. She knowing that the guy likes her is something she knows she can use to her advantage... Just in case the guy she actually likes doesn't do the needful, the guy that likes her will be her back up plan and keeping him close by is the only way to ensure that his feelings for her never dies ....

3. Forget that financial stability cr.ap you're saying OP... No matter how much money women have, once there's a man in the picture, she expects him to spend on her ....

So yeah...
Those are the 3 likely reasons why she would want to keep the guy around, forget that whole "friendship" thingy she's using as a font ...

Okay yea I understand this.

But this particular case, the lady in question actually declined the second time because the guy doesn't profess his love for her.

Some ladies just want go be friends and to me, the friendship could even blossom into a beautiful relationship and marriage.

It's best to marry your friend but don't let the reason you agree to the friendship be because you're waiting for her to say yes to you.

Shey she's not billing you?

Rearealki:

Okay yea I understand this.

But this particular case, the lady in question actually declined the second time because the guy doesn't profess his love for her.

What do you mean by "the guy doesn't profess his love for her?" ...

I mean...
A guy asking you out and telling you he wants to start a relationship with you, isn't that "professing love?" Abi is there something else I'm missing ...

Did the guy just come and say "hey you, be my girlfriend"? Please throw more light ...

And also...
Please tell that guy to walk away...
'cause unless there are actually benefits(business deals, connections etc) to being friends with that lady, it's NOT WORTH IT AT ALL!!!!

Well, you can't blame them.
It's the guys that have to be smart.
Don't ever let her use your affection for her to suck you dry.
Guys may also need to take some time away to get over the rejection and return to be friends. But this time around, don't expect a nice guy

Rearealki:
A guy asked you out the first time you said no.
Second time no too.
And you still want him close.

What exactly do you want from the guy?
The lady in question is financially okay. And never. Seek for financial assistance

She probably likes him but not enough to have romantic affairs with him.

Even as we guy, we just have those ladies we want as just friends

Michelle70:
She probably likes him but not enough to have romantic affairs with him.

Even as we guy, we just have those ladies we want as just friends

So what should the guy do

Just wan keep u till the time wey she go chop breakfast...nothing more

KillSars:
Just wan keep u till the time wey she go chop breakfast...nothing more

Lol. It's always an option game

Rearealki:

It's not about billing tho

Its billing. Melinda Gates will bill her next guy. Young or Old. Just dat billings from Rich women is done with skills. Massive Skills.. They can afford things themselfs,. No doubt - But they like keepin someone by d side for emergencies. And lastly its ingrained in them.

Fahvvy:
The reason for her action are ATTENTION, BACKUP PLAN & FINANCE....

1. It is a well known fact that most ladies are attention junkies and as such will do anything for some cheap attention, no wonder they expose their bodies for public consumption and make twerk videos online ...

2. She knowing that the guy likes her is something she knows she can use to her advantage... Just in case the guy she actually likes doesn't do the needful, the guy that likes her will be her back up plan and keeping him close by is the only way to ensure that his feelings for her never dies ....

3. Forget that financial stability cr.ap you're saying OP... No matter how much money women have, once there's a man in the picture, she expects him to spend on her ....

So yeah...
Those are the 3 likely reasons why she would want to keep the guy around, forget that whole "friendship" thingy she's using as a font ...

exactly.. Baba u too much

Wotoporiously speaking

For future purposes, if you know you know

If the guy can not push for sexu@l relationship then he's a pure mumu. If the lady wants him close to her, then both should do adult things. There are more women than men, so I don't know why someone will be limitung he's choices?

Rearealki:


Lol. It's always an option game

I dey tell u.. diz barnies get plenty option for their hand

If I chyke u like twice and u no gree, na to block ur line come dey bone face for u, I go do as if I no even know u b4 sef, go zone ur brother for house...

If I ask you out once and you no gree,I go lock up but if you want me as a friend no issues but if you mistakenly ask me for financial help

The wah I go take talk to you
You go quit the relationship yourself

Rearealki:

It's not about billing tho

Don't worry the billing will come later

Guy, bounce and leave the bitch nau. Is that too hard to do?

Rearealki:

What if that's not what I want

then you act like a man,you will ghost her without looking back.All this kind matter no suppose dy reach here.

Why can't you remain as friends?

blaquebelle:
Why can't you remain as friends?

Lol you sef laugh

Fahvvy:
The reason for her action are ATTENTION, BACKUP PLAN & FINANCE....

1. It is a well known fact that most ladies are attention junkies and as such will do anything for some cheap attention, no wonder they expose their bodies for public consumption and make twerk videos online ...

2. She knowing that the guy likes her is something she knows she can use to her advantage... Just in case the guy she actually likes doesn't do the needful, the guy that likes her will be her back up plan and keeping him close by is the only way to ensure that his feelings for her never dies ....

3. Forget that financial stability cr.ap you're saying OP... No matter how much money women have, once there's a man in the picture, she expects him to spend on her ....

So yeah...
Those are the 3 likely reasons why she would want to keep the guy around, forget that whole "friendship" thingy she's using as a font ...

One babe is presently seeing me as a maga, she is stylishly avoiding any talk of me banging her, while expecting money and other gifts..

On the other hand am seeing her as FWB, and keep smarting my ways out of her small small billing which will mature into bigger billings once I run them...

Las las we go know who will give up between me and her, one person must chop each other or we end everything in a no score draw

Rearealki:
A guy asked you out the first time you said no.
Second time no too.
And you still want him close.

What exactly do you want from the guy?
The lady in question is financially okay. And never. Seek for financial assistance

Backup plan

Rearealki:
A guy asked you out the first time you said no.
Second time no too.
And you still want him close.

What exactly do you want from the guy?
The lady in question is financially okay. And never. Seek for financial assistance

Get yourself another lady na and keep this one by the side too. This is simple stuff na.