A man married a choir mistress in same church insisted on no sex before marriage and divorced her three months after.
Reason: Borehole toto that smells like rotten wall-gekko.

In some cases too, you may discover too that most of these ladies were former runz girls with no womb.
A man in my area had been married to this beautiful lady for more than fourteen years now without any sign of pregnancy from the wife!

jogsman01:
Whatever works for you

Gbam! You nailed it.

Candidlady:


He should marry someone who has the fear of God but doesn't fear him as the husband ko

Ha!

I'm not interested in any, not available in Nigeria

You forgot to add FEMINISTS

Fuckyoumod:
Before our time, we had women of pride. They were reserved with dignity and some sense of responsibility for their husbands only.
Nobody count.

They were well groomed, virgins,respectful, caring, less dramatic, loyal to the core and hard working. They were Mentally, sexually, emotionally, psychologically and morally intact. At most 21 years they are married.

Back in the days you don't need to date them before marrying them. Because they were pure and undiluted it was the responsibility of any fortunate or lucky man that marries them to dilute them. So when they are married they are married.

But today, what we have are boreholes, loose girls, runs girls, sex tools, slay queens, drama queens, sex for money, very irresponsible set of things. No dignity, no value, heavily dependent on you, no respect, disloyal and poorly groomed.. what we have now are morally, psychologically, emotionally and sexually battered women littering everywhere... body count na no go area.

They don't need to be rewarded with marriage. But if you must reward them with marriage, you must date them for a very long time to be able to know them inside and outside. Else you go cry later!

No wonder at 25yr - 30yr they are still I'm their parents houses causing problem[/b]s.

[b]Don't let anybody deceive you to marry a stranger. Na you go regret, no be your pastor or your adviser.

Never make the mistake.

angelfallz:
Aren't dating and courting the same thing?

Not for RCCG, MFM, or Deeper Life members.

Cc: Bukatyne

God bless you.

Zonefree:
Marriage without dating is invitation to doom.



This is the most hilarious post I've read this year .
Where person wan see a Nigerian girl that has the fear of God? Na God dey fear our Nigerian girls now

Use Nairaland girls as a case study.

Lmao at God the fear them..

There’s no one rule to life. Date, marriage, arranged marriage, forced into marriage via pregnancy, partnership, mail order spouse, etc. Every form has benefits and demerits.

Anyhow

Candidlady:


He should marry someone who has the fear of God but doesn't fear him as the husband ko

Someone who has the fear of God is always ready to follow God's instructions.

I’d marry after 5-6 months. This get to know each other is a myth, you can spend a lifetime getting to know someone. The commitment and loyalty are what’s important. Those two things & good sex, let’s go!!!!

buygala:
I would prefer to date, have kids with who I am dating, but not marry.

After all said and done sha, nothing guarantees anything.

People can date for 15 years and break up weeks into a marriage..Some can just marry upon recommendation from friends and family without dating for even a day, and have a very enjoyable marriage..

For me, marriage these days is a gamble I am not willing to take, because I like to be solely responsible for my own happiness..

Presently, I am handsome, single, comfortable and very happy...and i would really like those set of circumstances to persist as long as I live..Nobody should use her reggae to come spoil my blues.

Are you the one on your dp?

Beautiful94:

Are you the one on your dp?

Yes Sir/Ma


Any problem?

buygala:


Yes Sir/Ma


Any problem?

You are truly handsome

Beautiful94:

You are truly handsome

Thank you

Wait o...before I start dey thank you..are you male or female please?

So that I know if I am to run as far as possible or not

Mayflowa:


Huh Intimacy alone is a huge decider whether to marry or not to.

Oh please all dose ones uve been sleepibg with how many do u later got married to? How does intimacy (am talking about sex here o) make relationship work nitori olohun

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

My preference is to just date someone first then if we're really in love, we can remain partners as in just live together but not get married. I don't like marriage much because I don't think I want to be committed to someone in that kind of way even if I really love the person.

zedegit:
Some people don't believe in dating. They believe you should just put the ring to it if you want them. I have met one of such girls. She's actually a wife material; 100 yards.

Remember some people broke up after dating for 7 Years and you can't fully know a woman even if you date her all your life, she fit still shock you.


What is your preference? Date or outright marriage?

Olohun there is no rule it depends on You guys Maturities and How una Hit Am !