Hello everyone, I & my girlfriend welcomed a new baby yesterday, I feel really devastated & scared as to what the future holds for me and wonders if my life now will be way harder as my plans for this year didn't go as planned.

Also seeking assistance in offsetting the outstanding bills. Thank you all in anticipation

I live in Lagos and willing to take anyone who decides to help to the hospital as well for confirmation

NB: I'm 35 years of age and wanted this child as well, business didnt turn out fine reason I'm stucked

Bouncing baby boy or girl

Newbaby:


Girl

Sweet
Congratulations

That prescription was it given to you in the hospital?

Newbaby:

Also seeking assistance in offsetting the outstanding bills. Thank you all in anticipation

Congrats to you and your wife.

Devastated? Don't you have a job? I thought you two were married?

Why would you have unprotected sex when you ain't ready to father a kid? Why didn't you set your priority right and focus on financial stability instead of fruitless relationship? Why wait for 9 months before seeking for support?

This is how poverty, hunger, insecurity, infant mortality, crime etc keep increasing.

You deserve all that comes your way. Irresponsible boy/man.

Candidlady:


Bouncing baby boy or girl

Girl

MufasaLion:
Why would you have unprotected sex when you ain't ready to father a kid? Why didn't you set your priority right and focus on financial stability instead of fruitless relationship? Why wait for 9 months before seeking for support?

This is how poverty, hunger, insecurity, infant mortality, crime etc keep increasing.

You deserve all that comes your way. Irresponsible boy/man.

Ok thanks for your input

Olasyke:

Congrats to you and your wife.

Devastated? Don't you have a job? I thought you two were married?

Business not yielding much this season even though we still in it, wife stopped working due to the pregnancy

The only thing in the head of the average Nigerian man is sex sex and sex.

A Nigerian youth wouldn't have a job, he's still struggling, he can barely feed himself, the energy he should use to make his life meaningful, he'll use it to keep driving raw inside his girlfriend, when he eventually gets her pregnant, he'll start running from pillar to post looking for help.

Most Nigerian guys are addicted to poverty.

This I have seen.

Newbaby:


Business not yielding much this season even though we still in it, wife stopped working due to the pregnancy

New account? Why didn't you use your old account?

Olasyke:

New account? Why didn't you use your old account?

Due to the insults bro

FalseProphet1:
The only thing in the head of the average Nigerian man is sex sex and sex.

A Nigerian youth wouldn't have a job, he's still struggling, he can barely feed himself, the energy he should use to make his life meaningful, he'll use it to keep driving raw inside his girlfriend, when he eventually gets her pregnant, he'll start running from pillar to post looking for help.

Most Nigerian guys are addicted to poverty.

This I have seen.

Thank you for your input, I'm 35 years of age and wanted this child. She isn't a mistake please, business just didint turn out fine.

MufasaLion:
Why would you have unprotected sex when you ain't ready to father a kid? Why didn't you set your priority right and focus on financial stability instead of fruitless relationship? Why wait for 9 months before seeking for support?

This is how poverty, hunger, insecurity, infant mortality, crime etc keep increasing.

You deserve all that comes your way. Irresponsible boy/man.

Never hit hard on someone who's down already,he knew he did a mistake,if you can't assist him financially,at least,a word of encouragement could go a Long way.learn how to contribute positively to people's plights.

coputa:
Never hit hard on someone who's down already,he knew he did a mistake,if you can't assist him financially,at least,a word of encouragement could go a Long way.learn how to contribute positively to people's plights.

Thanks bro, people reigning insults are probably teenagers who don't understand life or who don't understand that one can go from rich to broke with the wrong investment especially in this Nigerian economy, let's all pray not to fine ourselves in difficult situations. Amen

FalseProphet1:
The only thing in the head of the average Nigerian man is sex sex and sex.

A Nigerian youth wouldn't have a job, he's still struggling, he can barely feed himself, the energy he should use to make his life meaningful, he'll use it to keep driving raw inside his girlfriend, when he eventually gets her pregnant, he'll start running from pillar to post looking for help.

Most Nigerian guys are addicted to poverty.

This I have seen.

Did you even read his post at all?
Omo... your faculty of reasoning seems faulty


Damn... nasty... I'm out of here

Newbaby:


Due to the insults bro

Drop link to your old account. With this your new account, I don't know who you are and if your claims are genuine.
I hope you understand.

Olasyke:

Drop link to your old account. With this your new account, I don't know who you are and if your claims are genuine.
I hope you understand.

Bro I'm genuine, we can do a video call with my wife and baby here in the hospital please

Candidlady:


Bouncing baby boy or girl



Sweet
Congratulations

That prescription was it given to you in the hospital?

Yes in the hospital

Olasyke:

Congrats to you and your wife.

Devastated? Don't you have a job? I thought you two were married?

I have a business, even people with jobs are crying in this economy

FalseProphet1:
The only thing in the head of the average Nigerian man is sex sex and sex.

A Nigerian youth wouldn't have a job, he's still struggling, he can barely feed himself, the energy he should use to make his life meaningful, he'll use it to keep driving raw inside his girlfriend, when he eventually gets her pregnant, he'll start running from pillar to post looking for help.

Most Nigerian guys are addicted to poverty.

This I have seen.

Widespread poverty is not as a result of getting a woman pregnant,what of a scenario where someone doing well financially suddenly lost his job,and hardship sets in, who do you blame, yourself, your wife, your children or the environment you finds yourself.Its not someone that wake's up early that makes it in life, They're adults, they know what is good for them.

This world is not fair.

Op drop link to your main account for genuineness so people can help you. Be bold to come out, no point disguising

PerfectStranger:
Op drop link to your main account for genuineness so people can help you. Be bold to come out, no point disguising

Is this to help or mock with this your emoji? Let's a video call instead, you see me in with my wife and baby in the hospital

Newbaby:


Is this to help or mock? Let's a video call instead, you see me in with my wife and baby in the hospital

Dey there dey disguise. Person wey need help go dey shame.
You think is everyone here that’ll have that time to video call. Dey there dey fear mockery

Congratulations@Op

PerfectStranger:

Dey there dey disguise. Person wey need help go dey shame.
You think is everyone here that’ll have that time to video call. Dey there dey fear mockery

person wey go help, no go stress. Ask for account number not nairaland acc guy

coputa:
Never hit hard on someone who's down already,he knew he did a mistake,if you can't assist him financially,at least,a word of encouragement could go a Long way.learn how to contribute positively to people's plights.

I'm not a hypocrite. I call a spade a spade. Goodbye!

coputa:
Widespread poverty is not as a result of getting a woman pregnant,what of a scenario where someone doing well financially suddenly lost his job,and hardship sets in, who do you blame, yourself, your wife, your children or the environment you finds yourself.Its not someone that wake's up early that makes it in life, They're adults, they know what is good for them.

You still don't get it. There's difference between you having what to sustain you and/or family and also plan/ready on having a baby AND you having something to sustain you and a girlfriend but not ready or plan on having a baby!

Stop trying to justify irresponsible act. Even the rich folks don't litter the street with unplanned kids.

Sweetvie:
Congratulations@Op

Thank you

Do you support Tinubu?

7Randall:
Do you support Tinubu?

I'm obidient

Newbaby:


I'm obidient

Congrats on the birth of your child. Everything will be fine

Sweetvie:
Congratulations@Op

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