Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

LivelyMandem:

The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose.

She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

LivelyMandem:
Guys in the house, what is your experience like dating single mothers.

I recently met a beautiful young lady who has never been married but has a daughter with a guy who isn't taking up much of the responsibility.

I have a good job and can obviously take care of the basics. The issue started from when I started giving her some money randomly not for any particular purpose. She called me recently and said her daughter's school fee is due and how much am I bringing.

In my head, she is not my child so why do you want to push the responsibility on me so fast. If I ask about the dad, she'll say I shouldn't worry because he's irresponsible.

We're not intimate yet because she said no sex before marriage, na that one we still dey fight about.

My question is, is it ok for her to ask me for her child fees just because we're dating or am I supposed to automatically take up the girls upkeep because I'm dating her mother?

PlayMaker14:
A man giving you money voluntarily, would you still go ahead to "test" him? What is the test for?




“How much am I bringing” That's a billing statement.

Sweetvie:
Wo I don't know
Maybe she trying to figure out if op is gonna accept her daughter as his own since their relationship is going somewhere. See ehn you too like question

Okoroawusa:

Tester. Clap for yourself

PlayMaker14:
I would have asked another, but....

Sweetvie:
Wo I'll just kick u from here
You better go and ask Op

advanceDNA:


So asking for school fees is not billing......??
To u its testing....?? Testing if he loves her abi??

PlayMaker14:
“Wo”

Is that not an exclamation used by most Lagos tout?

Sweetvie:
"Wo"
Is Yoruba
And I think it mean look
Anyhoo, I learn it online

PlayMaker14:
Wo, I would have asked you another question oh, but....

Sweetvie:
Lol... I'll just kick u
You know this is more like me... I tend to ask questions but hate it when they ask me questions.
Btw, that teddy bear is cute

PlayMaker14:
Oxlade says thank you for the compliment.

Sweetvie:
Wait, you name the teddy bear oxlade?

PlayMaker14:
Yes, weird?

Sweetvie:
No. That's not what I mean.
To me I don't really know
Coz I don't know why she is gonna be asking some else for her daughter school fees when he is clearly not the father so I can't think of another reason or is it because they're dating?
Or she's trying to figure out if Op accept her daughter?

Sweetvie:
Yeah
Weird
I guess you're a fans

advanceDNA:



The reason is obvious...entitlement mentality..
...some Women dont have shame when it comes to billing men...u show small interest and u are automatically owing them money....

makes no difference whether they want to spend the money of iphone 13 or on their kids school fee

PlayMaker14:
Fans of what?

Sweetvie:
Of oxlade
The singer

Sweetvie:
You know i find it really weird. I mean, you ain't the one making the money and you find billing comfortable.
Maybe am too independent but seriously it's uncomfortable asking money from a guy.
Even if Op is the father sef i think the fees should be split. Not even in this economy

PlayMaker14:
I don't know him that much...

Okoroawusa:
A single mother said no sex before marriage and you agreed.... what is wrong with young men of this generation?

Sweetvie:
Where you from? Ain't you in Lagos?
Then what makes you choose that name?

You know this is more like me... I tend to ask questions but hate it when they ask me questions.