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Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 11:42pm On Nov 22, 2022
.. Good day all. Pls I need advice from the elderly one's here .

I'm 23 years of age
I stay with my parents for now ( planning on getting my own apartment soon)
I'm a student of NOUN
I operate heavy equipment as my side hustle ( forklift)
I'm am responsible and a goal oriented person
I don't smoke but I drink occasionally..

My problem is carrying olosho... ( Sex worker)

It all started when I turned 18.. when my friend favor. Carried me to a sex brothel on December 31st./ New year Eve Night...

Since then.. I have been some how addicted to it .

I can't keep a girlfriend, not that I'm not able to get them is just that. I can't bond with them.

I just prefer fire and forget.

I get irritated easily when seeing the same female Time after Time..

I like exploring different varieties

Here's the issues.. how do I stop.. before It's affect me beyond repair or damage my future...

Pls.. I need mature advice.. cause I'm a reserved person... There is no one close by that I will explain to that will believe me..

Cause I'm most time mistaken as a pastor. Cause of my reserved and gentle nature..
.
But deep down in me I know i m the exact opposite.

Pls I need realistic advice from my elders who have been through this path in life .

Thanks

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Candidlady: 11:44pm On Nov 22, 2022
sad

Idont think you can ever stop

It is hereditary

Iam happy you are following in your babana's footstep


Carter lll
Like father like son

Modified: you should ask nicepoker. He was suffering from same issues sometime last month

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by fman(m): 11:44pm On Nov 22, 2022
See this Ashawo man!!

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Holyfic: 11:44pm On Nov 22, 2022
Cuntinue or cut your dick
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 11:47pm On Nov 22, 2022
Candidlady:
sad

Idont think you can ever stop

It is hereditary

Iam happy you are following in your babana's footstep


Carter lll
Like father like son


Who is Carter III?

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by PointZerom: 11:49pm On Nov 22, 2022
Continue, I don't think you're ready to stop. When you're ready I will know but for now you're still enjoying it.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Candidlady: 11:49pm On Nov 22, 2022
Fireandforget:



Who is Carter III?

Ask nicepoker the perv

Who goes bout preying on innocent girls

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 11:51pm On Nov 22, 2022
PointZerom:
Continue, I don't think you're ready to stop. When you're ready I will know but for now you're still enjoying it.

How am I enjoying it??
If I am
Why would I bring it up here ?

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 11:52pm On Nov 22, 2022
Candidlady:


Ask nicepoker the perv

Who goes bout preying on innocent girls

If you can't say something reasonable
Stop trolling
And allow others speak

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Ballzproblem2: 11:52pm On Nov 22, 2022
Jesus is the way ,reduce to consumption of sexual content,try exercising even if na just jogging, find saving box made of iron , anytime the urge comes ,stuff the money there .you will surprise how much you can save by the ending of next year instead of wasting it on top pussy.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 11:54pm On Nov 22, 2022
Ballzproblem2:
Jesus is the way ,reduce to consumption of sexual content,try exercising even if na just jogging, find saving box made of iron , anytime the urge comes ,stuff the money there .you will surprise how much you can save by the ending of next year instead of wasting it on top pussy.

Thanks. Man I'll try the savings box

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Eyinju112(f): 11:58pm On Nov 22, 2022
Try get into a relationship with a lady, could be distant relationships since you don’t like seeing same face all the time...
But you need to be committed, not just committed, really committed in this new relationship....

Keep thinking negative things about Olosho, for example always have the thought that olosho spread HIV and you might be infected,, sha look for negative things to think about them all the time, and with time you’d hate olosho and focus on your gf....

Omo Noun pele grin

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Franzinni: 11:58pm On Nov 22, 2022
Bro nothing do you too much... it's your taste ... But I want you to go for deliverance, becasue at least 300 demons live inside you already.
You can believe of you want but if you knack ashawo, you can not leave there as you went there... I use to carry ashawo when candylady was still working in peckers I use to reject her tho ... She no sweet ! Hahahahahaha she taste and smell like 6 days FUFU with no soup. Ayama!

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by FalseProphet1(m): 11:58pm On Nov 22, 2022
You've been captured by the demon called Asmodeus. He steals the souls of his victims through sex. Send me a DM for special deliverance.

This I have seen.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Candidlady: 11:59pm On Nov 22, 2022
Fireandforget:


If you can't say something reasonable
Stop trolling
And allow others speak

See jesus cant save you.
This problem of yours is inborn/inbuilt/factory fitted

All men were created with thus problem of yours

Just ask nicepoker how he managed his.. It is an incurable disease/ailment/disorder
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Ballzproblem2: 12:00am On Nov 23, 2022
Fireandforget:


Thanks. Man I'll try the savings box
no P, have lots of female friends to , they can help you out (Friends with benefits), however you will still spend one way or the other ,so just abstain for now , until you master, discipline

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 12:00am On Nov 23, 2022
Eyinju112:
Try get into a relationship with a lady, could be distant relationships since you don’t like seeing same face all the time...
But you need to be committed, not just committed, really committed in this new relationship....

Keep thinking negative things about Olosho, for example always have the thought that olosho spread HIV and you might be infected,, sha look for negative things to think about them all the time, and with time you’d hate olosho and focus on your gf....

Omo Noun pele, I live very close to you, but don’t ask if we can see... I’m not interested


Thanks I'll appreciate
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 12:01am On Nov 23, 2022
Ballzproblem2:
no P, have lots of female friends to , they can help you out (Friends with benefits), however you will still spend one way or the other ,so just abstain for now , until you master, discipline

Okay Man thanks

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Nicepoker(m): 12:03am On Nov 23, 2022
Candidlady:


See jesus cant save you.
This problem of yours is inborn/inbuilt/factory fitted

All men were created with thus problem of yours

Just ask nicepoker how he managed his.. It is an incurable disease/ailment/disorder
I wanted to marry this bitch to my lame dog. But on a second thought the dog's life is more valuable.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Gipre(m): 12:04am On Nov 23, 2022
Eyah...you are a young guy. E no go better for Favour for introducing you into the Olosho Marketplace.

Don't worry, You will change. You hear.

(Doing my midnight stretches).

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 12:05am On Nov 23, 2022
Gipre:
Eyah...you are a young guy. E no go better for Favour for introducing you into the Olosho Marketplace.

Don't worry, You will change. You hear.

(Doing my midnight stretches).

Amen



Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 12:06am On Nov 23, 2022
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Amen
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by CandyOps(m): 12:13am On Nov 23, 2022
Bad guy wink

that's the problem with having a high body count. You will find it hard settling with 1 partner... Because your brain will be rewired physically by the time you do too much of it.

The reward pathway of the brain is connected to parts of the brain that control behavior and memory.

The reward pathway begins in the area where neurons release dopamine to make you feel pleasure. The brain begins to make connections between the activity and the pleasure, ensuring that we will repeat the behavior.

In other words, if you do something that gives you pleasure 1c your brain creates a new reward pathway for it and forces you to recreate it. Just like with masturbation.

Solution- notice the chain of events that lead up to it and break the pattern by replacing it with something better.

For me, it's usually one pattern - I watch porn for a couple of days before > self-service > stay out late > Drink too much or smoke a bit too much, get high > search for a quick release

So I try to avoid porn.
I make sure I have at least 2 sure sexy babes as my GFs. I replace going out for night drink with hitting the gym. This helps a lot because I end up tired after working out.

As you work on it also understand that You'll have moments of relapse after days, weeks or months of abstinence.

I've passed the stage in life where I regret following my addictions. I like to know that I can own up to my decisions.. I mean, it's my brain that suggested m my legs move in that direction. So if you don't have control over what your brain makes you do then you need to work on your willpower and the gym will help with that

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Candidlady: 12:14am On Nov 23, 2022
Nicepoker:
I wanted to marry this bitch to my lame dog. But on a second thought the dog's life is more valuable.


Instead of attacking me, why not tell your comrade how STD nearly took your fruitless life last month.

Who knows that story might help reset his dead perverted brain cells
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Fireandforget: 12:15am On Nov 23, 2022
CandyOps:
Bad guy wink

that's the problem with having a high body count. You will find it hard settling with 1 partner... Because your brain will be rewired physically by the time you do too much of it.

The reward pathway of the brain is connected to parts of the brain that control behavior and memory.

The reward pathway begins in the area where neurons release dopamine to make you feel pleasure. The brain begins to make connections between the activity and the pleasure, ensuring that we will repeat the behavior.

In other words, if you do something that gives you pleasure 1c your brain creates a new reward pathway for it and forces you to recreate it. Just like with masturbation.

Solution- notice the chain of events that lead up to it and break the pattern by replacing it with something better.

For me, it's usually one pattern - I watch porn for a couple of days before > self-service > stay out late > Drink too much or smoke a bit too much, get high > search for a quick release

So I try to avoid porn.
I make sure I have at least 2 sure sexy babes as my GFs. I replace going out for night drink with hitting the gym. This helps a lot because I end up tired after working out.

As you work on it also understand that You'll have moments of relapse after days, weeks or months of abstinence.

I've passed the stage in life where I regret following my addictions. I like to know that I can own up to my decisions.. I mean, it's my brain that suggested m my legs move in that direction. So if you don't have control over what your brain makes you do then you need to work on your willpower and the gym will help with that



Thanks sir

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Nicepoker(m): 12:16am On Nov 23, 2022
Candidlady:



Instead of attacking me, why not tell your comrade how STD nearly took your fruitless life last month.

Who knows that story might help reset his dead perverted brain cells
STDs that you came to my hospital and begged to be treated free.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by doggedfighter(f): 12:34am On Nov 23, 2022
Fireandforget:


How am I enjoying it??
If I am
Why would I bring it up here ?

Will you keep quiet there, this boy ! undecided


You even have the effrontery to bear fireandforget as your moniker.

Let me hear you open your mouth and talk rubbish again.


Nonsense !

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by tydi(m): 12:51am On Nov 23, 2022
And as a heavy duty worker... I know say na a very big BBW you go dey carry tdb! grin
And as Gentle and reserved as you claimed I know say you go dey do lover boy for ashawo quarters make police no just Burst you there one day carry you enter cell.
I wouldn't advice you to stop now because it kinda save resources and stds , unwanted pregnancy too, trust issues and so on.
FYI. The girlfriend you think you would want to get as yours are sex workers to other unknown clients.
I advise You stop only when you're get married and settle down

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by Urheadmaster(m): 12:53am On Nov 23, 2022
Fireandforget:


How am I enjoying it??
If I am
Why would I bring it up here ?

Do all you can to see Pastor righteousness2 for your possible deliverance tongue.
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by jerryforgood: 2:43am On Nov 23, 2022
FalseProphet1:
You've been captured by the demon called Asmodeus. He steals the souls of his victims through sex. Send me a DM for special deliverance.

This I have seen.
Go sleep, wetin you know?
Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by akwesenana: 3:23am On Nov 23, 2022
Get busy. After work, hang out with your guys. If you're the lonely type like me, go watch soccer then find igbo smoke then sleep.Focus on interacting with opposite sex(not necessarily relationship). Since February this year I never go ashawo but my sexual life is healthy.

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Re: Help!! How Do I Stop Visiting Sex Workers by GOFRONT(m): 5:32am On Nov 23, 2022
Op you cant stop it.......You cant fight Nature. konji is very powerful natural tsunami which when befall any man, It can embarrass and pull down the reputation of any man irrespective of his societal status..........Op you cant fight nature. Nature has already wired you to easily get irritated and tired of seeing one particular girl by your side all d time.

As I type, One sweet Olosho is lying beside me in my bed. You cant beat nature. Nature must beat you blue black. If you like go to the Gym, if you like, go to library to read novels, if you like go hustle money and take your mind away from sex, if you like, kuku Celibate, its all deceit. When konji strike (natural sexual tsunami in humans), your defence go fall and only a sex worker( another natural tsunami) can heal you.

Punnani is Very powerful too......A beatifully designed, well Sweetened triangle located in the middle and outter part of a woman's body which behind closed doors can make a full grown adult man to beg for it like a kid......God too much jare!!! And that be why you see Clito Currency Industry (CCI) booming and flourishing well.......Our entertainment Bigboys patronize the CCI. How about our political bigboys, they patronize the CCI. Our Religious bigboys nko, they order from there too........

You want to quit patronize Olosho. Can you quit eating food? This is just your 5th year of patronage in CCI and you are already here seeking for ways to quit.

Just get them, fire and forget them!!

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