Mynd44:
You won't mind your business abi?

Yes, na so people go mind their business too if e dey happen to you or der

what did she give you in return for keeping quiet

she cheat with you too?

Exceed15:
I once stayed with an aunt who was cheating on her innocent husband. She knows I knew but I never spilled it till I left the house to stay on my own.

Mind your business.

the aunt is related to you. then warn her to stop !
if the husband catch her himself, he go kick the two of you out of the house!

immortalcrown:
She is your maternal aunty and she has a brother you don't know? You don't know your maternal uncle? Even after meeting him many times in the house, you have not known how you are related to him? Okay oh!

Let the sleeping dog lie. It is a scandal to tell her husband.

Do not say the truth just because you know it. Say the truth only when it is necessary. Saying she cheats on him will be necessary when he accuses her and she tries to deny it. Now that he has not accused her of cheating, keep quiet. If you say it now, the outcome will definitely leave you with deadly regrets and remorse.

In fact, you may say it now and fail to prove it. And if this happens, the husband will hate you on the ground that you want to ruin his marriage and the world will see you as a great liar (false accuser). The worst is that if you are a female, you will be accused of trying to snatch the husband.

So, let it continue until he himself catches her.

But if you insist on exposing her. I know how you can perfectly do it. Tell the husband you want to save his life. Tell him to leave the house in the name of traveling. Tell him to quickly return home anytime you alert him. Then when your aunty's "brother" enters the room, alert the husband so he himself will catch them red-handed. If it happens this way, you will not be accused as long as you and the man keep the arrangement as a secret.

Your response is apt and you've got sound reasoning. However it's unfortunate that the tale was made up.

Karen2024:
I've been living with my maternal aunty and her husband for over two months now and I can testify that the family is good; no quarels; no disagreements and no any form of fight.

My aunty's husband is kind and gentle likewise his wife and they both treat me with care but what disturbs me is that i suspect my aunty is cheating. Whenever my uncle travels she brings in a man and tells me that this is her brother..she would usher him into the bedroom and they'd spend good time with before coming out. The man has never visited when her husband is around.

I don't want to reveal it as she'll see it as act of betrayal but i want her husband to know. How do I go about it?

What kind of nonsense story is this? Does it mean u don’t know your aunty’s brother’s and sisters? U don’t know your own uncles and aunties? Your mother’s siblings..... Na wa oo

immortalcrown:
She is your maternal aunty and she has a brother you don't know? You don't know your maternal uncle? Even after meeting him many times in the house, you have not known how you are related to him? Okay oh!

Let the sleeping dog lie. It is a scandal to tell her husband.

Do not say the truth just because you know it. Say the truth only when it is necessary. Saying she cheats on him will be necessary when he accuses her and she tries to deny it. Now that he has not accused her of cheating, keep quiet. If you say it now, the outcome will definitely leave you with deadly regrets and remorse.

In fact, you may say it now and fail to prove it. And if this happens, the husband will hate you on the ground that you want to ruin his marriage and the world will see you as a great liar (false accuser). The worst is that if you are a female, you will be accused of trying to snatch the husband.

So, let it continue until he himself catches her.

But if you insist on exposing her. I know how you can perfectly do it. Tell the husband you want to save his life. Tell him to leave the house in the name of traveling. Tell him to quickly return home anytime you alert him. Then when your aunty's "brother" enters the room, alert the husband so he himself will catch them red-handed. If it happens this way, you will not be accused as long as you and the man keep the arrangement as a secret.

You expect the man to just follow her instructions without trying to know why? Lol

Assuming this story is true

So the man can't afford to pay for a small guest house and the woman must bring him in even in your presence?

SPAMBOX7:
You expect the man to just follow her instructions without trying to know why? Lol

She will of course give him a hint. "Your wife cheats on you, do this for a confirmation."

How messi's posts always make frontpage amazes me

Nairaland has gone to dogs ever since giving this boy audience. Every day he has a slot on the front page to concoct lies.

Seun has lost money from non-engagement during the elections. He has decided to grasp at straws for survival.

Mindlog:


If the cheating spouse is your uncle and brings his side chick home whenever the wife travels, will you go through this same process to let the wife know?

Before nko?
Cheating in marriage is a no no for me....

Na there e for worse pass cos na to inject liquid pepper inside his condoms.

Starships4u:


Before nko?
Cheating in marriage is a no no for me....

Na there e for worse pass cos na to inject liquid pepper inside his condoms.

Personally I believe a niece or nephew has no business telling one of the spouse, that the other is cheating on him or her but should tell their parents who happen to be a sibling to one of the couple of their observation.while living in the house.

only two months you leaved with your aunty you wan gbolo her cover



u need to pack out of that house if not I go person tell you aunt say u be cheater

the aunt is related to you. then warn her to stop !
if the husband catch her himself, he go kick the two of you out of the house!

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Fake story

Karen2024:
I've been living with my maternal aunty and her husband for over two months now and I can testify that the family is good; no quarels; no disagreements and no any form of fight.

My aunty's husband is kind and gentle likewise his wife and they both treat me with care but what disturbs me is that i suspect my aunty is cheating. Whenever my uncle travels she brings in a man and tells me that this is her brother..she would usher him into the bedroom and they'd spend good time with before coming out. The man has never visited when her husband is around.

I don't want to reveal it as she'll see it as act of betrayal but i want her husband to know. How do I go about it?

Don’t be a f**l

Don’t spoil a happy home.

The matter no concern you. Remove eye from it forever and let nature catch her if it wants.

Good advice, but with an adjustment in the last paragragh. I suggest you get a close and reliable friend of yours, that is not known to your aunty and her husband. Discuss with this person on using his or her phone to text your aunty's hubby, letting him know that the wife is cheating on him and all that. that way you don't get involved.

immortalcrown:
She is your maternal aunty and she has a brother you don't know? You don't know your maternal uncle? Even after meeting him many times in the house, you have not known how you are related to him? Okay oh!

Let the sleeping dog lie. It is a scandal to tell her husband.

Do not say the truth just because you know it. Say the truth only when it is necessary. Saying she cheats on him will be necessary when he accuses her and she tries to deny it. Now that he has not accused her of cheating, keep quiet. If you say it now, the outcome will definitely leave you with deadly regrets and remorse.

In fact, you may say it now and fail to prove it. And if this happens, the husband will hate you on the ground that you want to ruin his marriage and the world will see you as a great liar (false accuser). The worst is that if you are a female, you will be accused of trying to snatch the husband.

So, let it continue until he himself catches her.

But if you insist on exposing her. I know how you can perfectly do it. Tell the husband you want to save his life. "Your wife is cheating on you. Don't confront her now. Do this for a confirmation before confrontation." Tell him to leave the house in the name of traveling. Tell him to quickly return home anytime you alert him. Then when your aunty's "brother" enters the room, alert the husband so he himself will catch them red-handed. If it happens this way, you will not be accused as long as you and the man keep the arrangement as a secret.

Mindlog:


Personally I believe a niece or nephew has no business telling one of the spouse, that the other is cheating on him or her but should tell their parents who happen to be a sibling to one of the couple of their observation.while living in the house.

May yhur wife not be cheating and yhur nephew refuse to tell yhu brother....

Yhu'd be more pissed learning he/she had the idea and didn't let yhu know....

chimexdnice1:
Good advice, but with an adjustment in the last paragragh. I suggest you get a close and reliable friend of yours, that is not known to your aunty and her husband. Discuss with this person on using his or her phone to text your aunty's hubby, letting him know that the wife is cheating on him and all that. that way you don't get involved.

Do not be the one to inform an outsider of the problem in someone's marriage. Let the affected couple decide when to involve outsiders and which outsiders should be involved.

It is not your own marriage. Know your limit. No matter how close you are to your friend, let that closeness affect only your personal affairs. Don't use another person's affair to service the closeness.

Why is this forum so polarized between men and women ?

See women shouting she should mind her business.

If it's the other way round, they will be shouting the cheating man can bring STDs and death home.

Starships4u:

May yhur wife not be cheating and yhur nephew refuse to tell yhu brother....

Yhu'd be more pissed learning he/she had the idea and didn't let yhu know....

Na woman she be. That's why she not being objective in this matter.

Karen2024:
I've been living with my maternal aunty and her husband for over two months now and I can testify that the family is good; no quarels; no disagreements and no any form of fight.

My aunty's husband is kind and gentle likewise his wife and they both treat me with care but what disturbs me is that i suspect my aunty is cheating. Whenever my uncle travels she brings in a man and tells me that this is her brother..she would usher him into the bedroom and they'd spend good time with before coming out. The man has never visited when her husband is around.

I don't want to reveal it as she'll see it as act of betrayal but i want her husband to know. How do I go about it?

You see something, you say something before it's too late, either the man get HIV or they plan on how to get rid of him permanently

Nairaland recruited liar.

Follow your mind

Karen2024:
I've been living with my maternal aunty and her husband for over two months now and I can testify that the family is good; no quarels; no disagreements and no any form of fight.

My aunty's husband is kind and gentle likewise his wife and they both treat me with care but what disturbs me is that i suspect my aunty is cheating. Whenever my uncle travels she brings in a man and tells me that this is her brother..she would usher him into the bedroom and they'd spend good time with before coming out. The man has never visited when her husband is around.

I don't want to reveal it as she'll see it as act of betrayal but i want her husband to know. How do I go about it?

immortalcrown:
She is your maternal aunty and she has a brother you don't know? You don't know your maternal uncle? Even after meeting him many times in the house, you have not known how you are related to him? Okay oh!

Let the sleeping dog lie. It is a scandal to tell her husband.

Do not say the truth just because you know it. Say the truth only when it is necessary. Saying she cheats on him will be necessary when he accuses her and she tries to deny it. Now that he has not accused her of cheating, keep quiet. If you say it now, the outcome will definitely leave you with deadly regrets and remorse.

In fact, you may say it now and fail to prove it. And if this happens, the husband will hate you on the ground that you want to ruin his marriage and the world will see you as a great liar (false accuser). The worst is that if you are a female, you will be accused of trying to snatch the husband.

So, let it continue until he himself catches her.

But if you insist on exposing her. I know how you can perfectly do it. Tell the husband you want to save his life. "Your wife is cheating on you. Don't confront her now. Do this for a confirmation before confrontation." Tell him to leave the house in the name of traveling. Tell him to quickly return home anytime you alert him. Then when your aunty's "brother" enters the room, alert the husband so he himself will catch them red-handed. If it happens this way, you will not be accused as long as you and the man keep the arrangement as a secret.

Wisdom

Premiumwriter:
People don't report evil simply because they will benefit something from it.

Plenty texts, you get time sha.
Like I said in my earlier post, she can talk to her aunty and advise her against what she's doing. Let her know the implications if and when caught in her matrimonial bed with a man. It is not her business setting up her aunty at all.

Mynd44:
You won't mind your business abi?

How dare you say she should mind her business? I pray your wife cheats on you so you will understand the pain as a man.
Sissy man.

immortalcrown:
She is your maternal aunty and she has a brother you don't know? You don't know your maternal uncle? Even after meeting him many times in the house, you have not known how you are related to him? Okay oh!

Let the sleeping dog lie. It is a scandal to tell her husband.

Do not say the truth just because you know it. Say the truth only when it is necessary. Saying she cheats on him will be necessary when he accuses her and she tries to deny it. Now that he has not accused her of cheating, keep quiet. If you say it now, the outcome will definitely leave you with deadly regrets and remorse.

In fact, you may say it now and fail to prove it. And if this happens, the husband will hate you on the ground that you want to ruin his marriage and the world will see you as a great liar (false accuser). The worst is that if you are a female, you will be accused of trying to snatch the husband.

So, let it continue until he himself catches her.

But if you insist on exposing her. I know how you can perfectly do it. Tell the husband you want to save his life. "Your wife is cheating on you. Don't confront her now. Do this for a confirmation before confrontation." Tell him to leave the house in the name of traveling. Tell him to quickly return home anytime you alert him. Then when your aunty's "brother" enters the room, alert the husband so he himself will catch them red-handed. If it happens this way, you will not be accused as long as you and the man keep the arrangement as a secret.

is a cook story

Candidlady:
Tales by moonlight

One of victor's alternate


Modified: so this thread made FP … smh

It's like you know him too well. He commented 2 mins after the Op posted. Like he has been on the wait or something...

Karen2024:
I've been living with my maternal aunty and her husband for over two months now and I can testify that the family is good; no quarels; no disagreements and no any form of fight.

My aunty's husband is kind and gentle likewise his wife and they both treat me with care but what disturbs me is that i suspect my aunty is cheating. Whenever my uncle travels she brings in a man and tells me that this is her brother..she would usher him into the bedroom and they'd spend good time with before coming out. The man has never visited when her husband is around.

I don't want to reveal it as she'll see it as act of betrayal but i want her husband to know. How do I go about it?

If I were you I will mind my business.
Investigative journalist.

You don't know your maternal uncle!

Akiko na nti!