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Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by pansophist(m): 1:56pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Ok so I'm not referring to damaged people, this post is for the healthy ones. Hiding your feelings is insecurity, and insecurity is weakness. If you like someone, let them know, but because you let them know doesn't mean youve lost your position of strength. There are women I like, I told them, but due to circumstances that contradict my principle, I won't date them. Because I like you doesnt mean I'll accept shit treatment, which is what people fears when they hide their feelings. Think of a bird resting on a tree branch. If the Branch remain steadfast, he would rest, but if it breaks off, he has his wings to rely on. Expression of affection comes with vulnerability, but you should be strong to rely on yourself if it's not reciprocated. And to be able to rely on yourself effectively is to be a valuable person who have options. For example if your favourite food seller refuses to sell food to you, you won't beg her because you can go buy somewhere else. Your money is your value. That's a position of strength. 12 Likes 1 Share |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Streetmovement(m): 1:58pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Wotoporiously speaking Thank God for me I know what I want, I don't play games at all and I don't follow trend, you try to play games with me, you end up playing with yourself, I no send your papa. I stick to my root As for the game of chess most men and women play with themselves, make una continue cuz before the next world cup there will be nothing like marriage again 1 Like |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 2:18pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
pansophist: Nice one boss!!! Your summation is that we shouldn't hide our feelings!!!! We are only saying this because many ladies abuse this and end up calling them maga, simp and so on. Your summation is acceptable to some point, for ladies who are not spoilt yet |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 2:19pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Streetmovement: Bad guy!!! I hear u baba!!! U never meet those kind of ladies nah |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Nobody: 3:19pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
[quote author=udofia234 post=118747045][/quote] We re both currently serving 1yr service and tomorrow is our cds, d msg I sent the her, she has nt replied, I never wanted it to get t d extent when it will look awkward when we see each other at the LG, that's y I never told her expressly how I felt for her, I made a mistake messaging her again yesterday, |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Streetmovement(m): 3:52pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
udofia234: Wotoporiously speaking Which kind of ladies are those? |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 4:25pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Streetmovement: Ladies that will play game and you go hink say na love buy na scammer dey be |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Streetmovement(m): 4:32pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
udofia234: Wotoporiously speaking Hahaha comrade and they end up playing their self, he dey like you no Sabi who you dey follow talk sef I no dey give a woman more than what she deserves abi na your lust for breast and yansh dey blind you from seeing the truth. Only when you allowed yourself to be played that's when you get played my nigga, if only some men go dey activate their brain cells they won't be getting played by bitches/leeches claiming love upandan. My spiritual lewu lewu no dey ever fail me, no be today I begin dey play this game my man infact we don tire sef 1 Like |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Magnoliaa(f): 4:34pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Not necessarily. Perhaps when I have the time, I will come back to add this discussion, while citing Pells and hoping he'll learn how things are done properly. |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 5:02pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Streetmovement: hahahah!!! guy I no fit laf!!! baddest!!! |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 5:05pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Magnoliaa: No pro |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by Streetmovement(m): 5:27pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
udofia234: Wotoporiously speaking You suppose know wetin time dey talk na |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by udofia234(m): 5:34pm On Nov 28, 2022 |
Streetmovement: I code baba!!! u get level joor!!! 1 Like |
Re: Must We Hide Our Feelings Just To Make Our Women Value Us? by ISTP: 9:01am On Nov 30, 2022 |
UyaiIncomparabl: Come here joor
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