Nayah:

lol Sagamite, my brother Nigerian women are not worst or better than the other women, we want the same thing:
A guy who loves us and make us feel woman

Nayah:

Sagamite, be patient, it will change because the world is changing

pendo89:

Habari Naya,

You know av been on this forum and I have come to one conclusion. Majority of 'nigerian men' either fear or detest classy or women who have the muscle to bring food home. I read a thread asking if a man would be scared of approaching a lady with a car.I couldnt believe it.
I seriously don't know what the problem is with the working class ladies there.Do they pose a challenge? and if so what challenge?
Everyday a thread opens saying nigerian women are gold diggers and all that. And I wonder,is there NO single working class nigerian lady who is not a gold digger? is there no lady that pays her own bills,drives her car,without depending on a man for maintanance? Really? is there none at all?
Is it a society problem that makes it criminal for a woman to be self reliant? do you get ostracised if you fail to depend on the man?
It shocks me to read about small things like recharge,meals etc when I know that some single ladies take care of bigger stuff like rent,food,clothings etc without relying on any man. And they have very stable relationships as well because its a matter of 50/50.
Seems like having no money as a lady in nigeria is a problem and having it is even worse problem! so what do u expect your ladies to be??
I think the men there are contributing to this menace.
Its almost law that for a guy to get a lady he must buy recharge cards,meals,clothes balablabla.
If I came to nigeria and I refuse all those things then will I be considered abnormal? What if I turn tables and I decide to buy the guy the cards and fuel his vehicle,pay for meals and pay the hotel for 2 days while he pays for 2? Will I still qualify to be called a lady?

Nayah:

Premechaz, and me like your rudness lol  

moonraker:

heres mine *short time"

premechaz:

Whatz your problem small boy, GTFOH

pendo89:

Nayah

sasa umeleta vita! tuliza basi tafadhali

premechaz:

Awesome.

What part of France do you reside in?  Hold on, will give you my email very soon.

Nayah:

pendo loooooool  
Mooraker and Premechaz, please just talk about the thread asante

moonraker:


I rest my case,

claremont:

Thread derailers are getting so brave and callous these days that they don't even mind openly using their own dialect to derail some other person's thread! SMH

pendo89:

wacha uchoyo dada patiana mail.  
hapana. mvumilivu hula mbivu.

moonraker:

P.S Very sorry swahili yangu ni[b] kutu[/b]

Nayah:

Claremont, I think it's not fair, your statement is overreacted, don't tell me we always talk in swahili, and who told you we talk about people on here, some people insult in their language but we don't even pay attention on it, just ask if you don't know before accusing, you shouldn't take this for you

Moonraker I didn't know you speak Swahili too
Pendo my dear habari oh

ndahbros1:

In this age of escalating ratio of single girls,old maids, or chronic spinsters,a husband is a divine gift.Women should always remember to do a Thanksgiving Service weneva they are LUCKY enuf to get married.These days, a girl at 30 years of age is still talking abt boyfriends up and down because MEN ARE SCARCE.Sometimes they manage to settle with a man they would not hv given the time of day 10 years ago when they were still fresh.My submission therefore, is that for a man to be merciful enuf to propose to a modern-day Nigerian girl who would have been a spinster at 56, that girl shd show some appreciation and shower him with gifts.If he decides to go nko?no be haert attack?when the next one go come again?

. . . and the above-mentioned, my friend, is currently the best comments I have seen on this thread so far. The earlier they take notice, the better for them!

Princek12:

don't the women also get the gift of the man in question? educate me.