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|Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by DandyWalker(m): 11:50am On Feb 11, 2016|
Let me start by saying I have a number of female friends -platonic friendship, I mean - with different shapes and shades. Some I grew up together with, while others, I met through different avenues like the media, school et all - just like every other guy out there. As mature ladies, almost all of them have had their 'fair' share of relationships with different experiences that, if only they could add it to their CVs, would qualify them as 'veterans' on the 'job'.
From what I have seen, and from what they have told me, many guys have dumped them, and they have dumped many guys. A number of them have had up to 10 boyfriends/sexual partners, some have had much less or much more. Virtually all are in their early 20s.
The very bold ones among them have described their sexual experiences which sometimes include oral (cunnilingus and MouthAction) and even anal sex. Some have even had to terminate one or two pregnancies for guys who later dumped them or or in some cases, who they later dumped.
Yours truly, each time they tell me this, my body recoils in disgust. I wish I could help it. But oftentimes I can't but begin to imagine the sexual act: how the guy handles her the way he pleases, insert his hand-no matter how filthy- into even the most intimate place in her body , twists and turns her to mimic a dog, a monkey etc ,while she moans away..............
And this is not 1 guy, not 2 and sometimes, not 10!
From what I have seen, It seems to me my friends (the girls) are always 'on heat'. Because as soon as a guy dumps them, they jump at another, and the 'sexual circuit' is never broken.
The funny thing is, my friends have not done anything unusual , because that is what most girls do these days. It has become a norm, not an exception!
Well, Its a modern world-at least , that is what they say- and I seem to be outdated in the way I feel about them. But I think they would also agree with me that we should forgo the ERA OF BRIDE PRICE, because they don't deserve it!
Why do I have to pay for what some guys have had for free?!Why do I have to pay over a girl whose private parts still drip of the semen of other guys?! No tell me, why do I have to pay over a girl who has carried and aborted pregnancies for some other guys who had her with little or nothing?!
Fine, I know a woman has much more to offer than sex in marriage. But she has definitely reduced her value with those sexual escapades. All a man lives for is EGO and self esteem. She has denied me that EGO and pride over her, at least, not when many other guys out there know the exact locations of the scars and birth marks in her private parts............and of course her 'ringtones'!
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 11:52am On Feb 11, 2016|
BRO TEAM FOREIGN LADIES, i cant marry a lady that has a wheelbarrow as a vaginal, i fear NAIJA LADIES.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Strahovski1(m): 11:53am On Feb 11, 2016|
Join the ministry
Cc searchiing4love, Greene66
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by ronald4lif(m): 11:54am On Feb 11, 2016|
This is the second of such jabberwocky piece I'm reading today about bride price. It's becoming suffocating, ad nauseum, having to read same recycle cobblers every time.
You can join the train of 'team foreign girls' if you feel the Nigerian ones aren't your specs and cease wincing about. You're not being gun-mussled or heist to pay pride price or date and marry one.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by midehi2(f): 11:55am On Feb 11, 2016|
if only guys can keep their thing faithfully, it wont be this rampant
op, if a girl who is not your fiance walk up to you, please ignore her, let others follow suit, and the world will be a better place
men entices broke ladies with money and they fall victims; making other responsible woman a LovePeddler in the eyes of men
ladies, work hard and forget this bullshit men who takes you as pro, they are not better than you, they dont have two heads....what a man can do, a woman will do even better ashawo men
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Estharfabian(f): 11:59am On Feb 11, 2016|
This has gotta be the 3rd most Cliché, balderdash Excuse of a thread I've poisoned my eyes with today!
Fine! we get it! You wanna marry A "Virgin"..[√] Check!
Now, let's move on! shall we?
I'm positive some other Obama-like, cute, sexy, 6-packed(mandatory), Pink-lipped., more Accomplished, Successful guy Would Come sweep those "Unwanted Girls" you're Vividly stigmatising Off their feet! and ofcourse, PAY THEIR BRIDE-PRICE!
You're just One guy afterall...!
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Greene66: 12:03pm On Feb 11, 2016|
Yes Op, bride price is a scam. Why should you pay for a public toilet? A lock that has been opened with many keys and counting? A body that has been touched and brushed by so many hands?
It's a fraud! Why pay for a murderer who has murdered innocent babies in abortion? Hmmm... Even in that church of your wedding God looks down and spits! Or the one that spent time in restaurant looking for bf instead of doing something meaningful?
I know we have good ladies out there but I can swear on anything that 80% of them ladies in Nigeria are guilty as charged. I can bet anything that 93% of ladies on nairaland are guilty. You won't see them address the topic instead they insult you or attack guys like me because the truth hurts.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by midehi2(f): 12:09pm On Feb 11, 2016|
ronald4lif:this same guys patronizes pro and comes out here washing them down, ask them if they can help a pro out there so she can have a better living; no way, instead they will want a return of sex for just a mere gift ...mtcheeew
hi, longest time
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Cutehector(m): 12:09pm On Feb 11, 2016|
Who are those idiats mentioning "foreign girls" rock..
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 12:12pm On Feb 11, 2016|
Foreign guys rock too...agbayas
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 12:16pm On Feb 11, 2016|
Cutehector:It's actually just one.
An if you'll look on his profile you can view his topics on it.
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by ronald4lif(m): 12:21pm On Feb 11, 2016|
No mind them. As if the girls screw themselves. Inculpating the 'victims' and exonerating the actual 'perpetrators' of an offense.
Not like they don't have a point but until members of my sex too are blamed for screwing anything in skirt whatever message they have is void and specious.
I'm good, thanks. Trust you're same too.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by DandyWalker(m): 12:24pm On Feb 11, 2016|
midehi2:Lol, I have never patronised one before, and I would never. Did u just say a return of sex for a favour?I Have never even slept with anyone before and that's not because I'm too young or too poor or too ugly. I'm a medical doctor in my 20s with a well-paying job. My point is simply that the trend of sexual recklessness is becoming alarming, and in my opinion is detrimental to our society and the future of our children. This is just my own of way discouraging it.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by midehi2(f): 12:26pm On Feb 11, 2016|
yea am good.
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Sabadon(m): 12:26pm On Feb 11, 2016|
op so on point... sometimes I wonder
well wat can I say, let's just accept fate
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 12:41pm On Feb 11, 2016|
If We'all put this facts into consideration, then none of Us will get married. your opinion, your choice. get a tie and suit yourself
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by midehi2(f): 1:01pm On Feb 11, 2016|
DandyWalker:yea but not to the extent of bride-price
my question is 'do the ladies screw themselves?
if you are innocent of this, then many men out there are guilty of taking advantage of innocent & poor girls, i still maintain, let them zip up or stick to only one woman,then there will be bad market for the lazy women; and have no option than to work/hardworking.
i know of a girl, graduate, beautiful, talented but lazy, she prefer jumping from one car to another; and these spoilt men pay her real good, is that a life; no cos she will regret every part of her body later in life....these men should focus on their homes alone and let every beautiful girl out there be hardworking
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 1:04pm On Feb 11, 2016|
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 1:05pm On Feb 11, 2016|
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by sexymoma(f): 1:07pm On Feb 11, 2016|
All these pomo guys shouting "Team Foreign Gurls"
which naija babes dey date una in the first place
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by DandyWalker(m): 1:09pm On Feb 11, 2016|
midehi2:See, the crown of a woman is her chastity. Even the men in the holy books run after women. It is the duty of a woman to exercise discipline. There is no ashewo man o, only ashewo woman. That is our world for you.
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by blueflowers(f): 2:07pm On Feb 11, 2016|
U ar just tryin to justify yourself and stop generalizing
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Cutehector(m): 4:32pm On Feb 11, 2016|
QueenValerie:lol u rock
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 2:56am On Feb 12, 2016|
Cutehector:Nope.I was wrong before,there's more of em,I just found out.
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 5:31am On Feb 12, 2016|
how mch were u paid for this whoever sent u is way worse just cos u gave birth or a girl has given birth doesnt mean in her past she never aborted or sumtin
Severall ladies aborted way back nd stil gat children wen u ask dem dey say no dey av never aborted den u find a girl dats truthful u start insulting her smh!
Next u talkin of bride price nd women smh
U come here to tell us u innocent just cos u defend ursef doesnt make it tru its not like we live with u offline so wtf are u lyin to
So many dumb people are goin to bliv u online wen u banging anoda lady ryt noe offline any body comes online to b anytin doesnt mean u so holy i wud b dissapointed if on d last day i find u wanting in heaven cos na u holy pass
By d way 10 partners is far better dan avin over 50 partners nd still wants a better life way above dem
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by kaziblake(f): 6:00am On Feb 12, 2016|
Third topic of this such 2day.
Do you know what the so called foreign counterpart do?
I'm proud to be a nigerian because no matter what you spill here about nigerian girls is nothing cos we still gat culture and pride.
Are the girls impregnating themselves or is it not randy men like you that sleeps with them.
Pls stop generalizing it...Remember you got sisters and mother.
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 9:47am On Feb 12, 2016|
Agony of a out of wedlock child. I guess na poly bag your **** take pack her clothes to your *******'s house so you see it as a normal thing.
You call ladies biitches, sluts and hoes , The question is who made them that way?
You are the ones who can't stay in a no sex relationship,
You made sex a proof of love, manipulating innocent girls. To you , a girl that refuse to have sex with you does not love you.
You keep five girls at a time out of insecurity . If one fails others will fill in.
You deny being in relationship just to lure another girl.
You are hypocrites!!!
If you call a girl a biitch , then you are a dog!!!
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|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Kennywonders: 10:35am On Feb 12, 2016|
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Samexdx(m): 10:36am On Feb 12, 2016|
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by sweetgala(m): 10:41am On Feb 12, 2016|
Where I fit join and get my baptism, I hope my salvation from the grasps of karashika is free
|Re: Why She Does Not Deserve That Bride Price by Nobody: 10:44am On Feb 12, 2016|
sheilak:u are sick upstairs
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