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Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by wkkwl: 6:27pm On Aug 28, 2011
I think it should be 50-50,
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Tosinville(m): 6:31pm On Aug 28, 2011
^^Dat whats up
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by claremont(m): 6:52pm On Aug 28, 2011
50-50! cool
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:15pm On Aug 28, 2011
Who has more should SPEND MORE! cheesy LADY OR GUY! cheesy
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by uju2: 7:16pm On Aug 28, 2011
First date should be the guy, after that whoever feels like it, or is capable or they can take it in turns, shouldn't be a big issue.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by born2boink(m): 7:17pm On Aug 28, 2011
If you're expecting the Lady in Nigeria to spend or even contribute,Believe me. you are already dead but not yet buried
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 7:19pm On Aug 28, 2011
uju_1:

First date should be the guy, after that whoever feels like it, or is capable or they can take it in turns, shouldn't be a big issue.

So, if you invite a guy on a first date, you expect him to pay for the expenses?
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:21pm On Aug 28, 2011
uju_1:

First date should be the guy, after that whoever feels like it, or is capable or they can take it in turns, shouldn't be a big issue.

^^^^^^
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by uju2: 7:25pm On Aug 28, 2011
BABE!:

So, if you invite a guy on a first date, you expect him to pay for things?

Dunno about you but I dont invite guys on first dates, undecided

Anyway if I suggest a hang out we can both pay for ourselves or i can pay if its a friend. I wouldn't normally suggest a hangout with a stranger. seems like you are following me around NL to question me, lipsrsealed
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 7:33pm On Aug 28, 2011
^^

No, I'm not following you around.

When I asked my question, I wasn't referring to you in particular.

If a girl asks a guy out on a first date, who do you think ought to pay?
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by uju2: 7:35pm On Aug 28, 2011
BABE!:

^^

No, I'm not following you around.

When I asked my question, I wasn't referring to you in particular.

If a girl asks a guy out on a first date, who do you think ought to pay?


If a girl asks she should pay, but if he really wanted to take her out he would ask so shes probably on a dead end road lol.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Goldieluks: 7:36pm On Aug 28, 2011
I don't know about relationships,but marriage should be 70/30.
don't ask me why,lol.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Nobody: 7:37pm On Aug 28, 2011
uju_1:

Dunno about you but I dont invite guys on first dates,   undecided

Anyway if I suggest a hang out we can both pay for ourselves or i can pay if its a friend.  I wouldn't normally suggest a hangout with a stranger. seems like you are following me around NL to question me,   lipsrsealed
Trust me! She has a WAY of doing that! And an even MORE PERFECT WAY of COVER UP! PATHETIC!
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 7:54pm On Aug 28, 2011
uju_1:

If a girl asks she should pay

This is contradicting your first post on the thread.

@ OP: Nowadays that everything is upsidedown and Stay-At-Home dads are becoming more rampant, whatever works for the couple is good enough.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 8:07pm On Aug 28, 2011
sexkillz:

Trust me! She has a WAY of doing that! And an even MORE PERFECT WAY of COVER UP! PATHETIC!


It's obvious you just want to cheerlead. You need pom-poms?

I hope you get blowjobed by a freaking shark.  grin
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by uju2: 8:09pm On Aug 28, 2011
BABE!:

This is contradicting your first post on the thread.

@ OP: Nowadays that everything is upsidedown and Stay-At-Home dads are becoming more rampant, whatever works for the couple is good enough.



my first comment was based on a guy asking, where I come from and in naija in general girls dont chase men or ask them out on dates so this didn't even cross my mind. But if a girl is mumu enough to ask she should be mugu enough to pay. the guy will keep waiting for her to ask so she can keep paying abi undecided
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Mynd44: 8:10pm On Aug 28, 2011
babe! take am easy now
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Nobody: 8:18pm On Aug 28, 2011
BABE!
My REPLY to YOU would have made you STAY OFF NL For DAYYYS!  I Choose NOT to REPLY YOU! I DONT HAVE e- FIGHTS WITH LITTLE GIRLS! GO do your HOME WORK or SOMETHING! DAMN! undecided undecided undecided
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 8:30pm On Aug 28, 2011
----lol---Sexkillz, truce. I refuse to lose it on NL. You're not gonna be the person to make me drift from my sanity lane. That won't look good on your resume.  grin I'm calling a truce.


uju_1:

my first comment was based on a guy asking, where I come from and in naija in general girls dont chase men or ask them out on dates so this didn't even cross my mind. But if a girl is mumu enough to ask she should be mugu enough to pay. the guy will keep waiting for her to ask so she can keep paying abi undecided

What's this one talking about? **Facepalm**
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by uju2: 8:32pm On Aug 28, 2011
"BABE" go kiss transformer abeg. What I said wasn't rocket science. I do not believe girls should ask guys on dates, its borderline desperation. Therefore my 1st comment was assuming the guy asked.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Goldieluks: 8:34pm On Aug 28, 2011
Umm undecided undecided undecided undecided
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by BABE3: 8:37pm On Aug 28, 2011
uju_1:

"BABE" go kiss transformer abeg. What I said wasn't rocket science. I do not believe girls should ask guys on dates, its borderline desperation. Therefore my 1st comment was assuming the guy asked.

Ok.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Mynd44: 8:40pm On Aug 28, 2011
Too much fights these days
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by iwemfoo: 1:20am On Aug 29, 2011
no-one should spend everybody should keep their money and stay at home abi na by force to dey spend?
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Pweety4me(f): 1:31am On Aug 29, 2011
What are we purchasing? undecided
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by aloyemeka2: 2:08am On Aug 29, 2011
50-50 in everything but when it comes to spending, the man should take a higher percentage[95%-5%] because he is the man.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by toyemz(f): 2:13am On Aug 29, 2011
^^^^

i agree
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by MrsChima(f): 2:14am On Aug 29, 2011
LMAO@Babe saying okay. grin grin grin grin grin grin
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by erico2k2(m): 2:28am On Aug 29, 2011
go DUTCH bestway ever, everybody goes home happy grin grin grin
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Pweety4me(f): 2:31am On Aug 29, 2011
@BABE who's the brown skinned guy in ya pic? tongue
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Jaideyone(m): 3:04am On Aug 29, 2011
If we're not married you're not my responsibility. I only pay for the movie tickets and meals when i take a gurl out. I'm not her daddy i don't send credit. I don't pay for hair-dos and i don't give money to any gurl except i'm owing her. If i'm visiting her i can go with small gifts of drinks, assorted buscuits or chocolates. My gf doesn't come visiting empty handed either. A relationship should be mutual. One party shouldn't be a leech to another.
Re: Who Should Spend In A Relationship? by Nobody: 3:15am On Aug 29, 2011
This kind of question leads to split-ups. In my opinion, people should spend because they want to. If it happens to be 70-30, fine. If it's 50-50, fine. If it's 10-90, also fine.

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