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Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 7:38pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Plz dont get angry b'cos of d length of my story & am using my fone to type. Am David 25yrs +. 1st out of 5 boys n 1 girl (last) in my family. Am the only grad (B.Eng EEE). None of my younger ones have been able to enter the Uni. Our 4th born finished sec sch in 2008 (when I grad, imagine). My Uni admission was thru God, i was best in my sec sch and did jamb once. But Uni wasn't easy cos of lack (hunger, no money 4 trans - i trek) I did tutorials 2 sustain while my lovely parents supported wit d little they had (thank God I went to a fed. Uni wit cheap tuition then, i wonder if na 2011). I grad wit 2.2 (cgpa 3.40) damn! I dont blame anyone for that but i know i could hav don beta. . .als 2 sustain while my lovely parents supported wit d little they had (thank God I went to a fed. Uni wit cheap tuition then, i wonder if na 2011). I grad wit 2.2 (cgpa 3.40) damn! I dont blame anyone for that but i know i could hav don beta. Well, i dont consider myself an average grad and i have some network/hardware skills I aquired during IT (as I dont have money for some trainings I want to get). Now the issue at hand now is dat I really want to support my family esp my brodas, most times I feel like shedding tears b'cos of them. They re struggling, picking odd jobs like security, carwash and these are very intelligent guys. My immediate younger bro (24yrs) has been teaching in lessons since he was 18. Infact his students think he's a grad unto say ppl he taught have graduated. My nice parents are financially unstable and these have been a major challenge to their marriage (let me not go there). When I finished service, I used my savings to solve some family challenges like paying my sweet kid Sis and bro sec. sch fees as they almost droped out. (since then I've been contributing atleast 50% of it). Last yr, I picked up a teaching job (12K) staying in my home made it hard 4 me to save for anything, i hardly buy a bottle of star for myself. I did home lessons, marked waec. Its not enough and am kinda tired. I visit internet for jobs, I have passed tests and attended 2 solid engrng intvw with my 2.2 (still hoping/praying 4 one to click). I have askd ppl 4 job help, i dont ask 4 money b'cos I have always been an independent (1st born) human being. But it seems things are not happening fast. I just left my teaching job (unofficial cos of d break), family, friends and my lovely GF who really believes in me since 2009. I left to squat with a friend/classmate dat works in an engrng. firm in ondo state to try smthing else, also to leave my parents small roof. I need your help NLers to help me get smthing gud(any location). Ppl dont knw I pass thru dis b'cos i look younger than my age and i crack jokes well but bro/sis it's really eating me deep. I ask not for your pity but to gear me up cos I think (afraid) am losing steam. Thank U and God bless. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Vicjustice: 7:41pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
udz:I've just struggled through your heart touching post and just wondering if it's not better to rearrange the writing to make it look normal, i understand you're using your phone though; also, i'm not sure you're in the right section. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Nobody: 7:56pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Plz dont get angry b'cos of d length of my story & am using my fone to type. Am David 25yrs +. 1st out of 5 boys n 1 gir(last) in my family. Am the only grad (B.Eng EEE). None of my younger ones have been able to enter the Uni. Our 4th born finished sec sch in 2008 (when I grad, imagine). My Uni admission was thru God, i was best in my sec sch and did jamb once. But Uni wasn't easy cos of lack (hunger, no money 4 trans - i trek) I did tutorials 2 sustain while my lovely parents supported wit d little they had (thank God I went to a fed. Uni wit cheap tuition then, i wonder if na 2011). I grad wit 2.2 (cgpa 3.40) damn! I dont blame anyone for that but i know i could hav don beta. . .als 2 sustain while my lovely parents supported wit d little they had (thank God I went to a fed. Uni wit cheap tuition then, i wonderif na 2011). I grad wit 2.2 (cgpa 3.40) damn! I dont blame anyone for that but i know i could hav don beta. Well, i dont consider myself an average grad and i have some network/hardware skills I aquired during IT (as I dont have money for some trainings I want to get). Now the issue at hand now is dat I really want to support my family esp my brodas, most times I feel like shedding tears b'cos of them. They re struggling, picking odd jobs like security, carwash and these are very intelligent guys. My immediate younger bro (24yrs) has been teaching in lessons since he was 18. Infact his students think he's a grad unto say ppl he taught have graduated. My nice parents are financially unstable and these have been a major challenge to their marriage (let me not go there). When I finished service, I used my savings to solve some family challenges like paying my sweet kid Sis and bro sec. sch fees as they almost droped out. (since then I've been For Clarity! |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Excelboi(m): 7:58pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Pathetic! So sad and disheartening,sorry man! You could have posted this in the jobs/vacancy section,anyway you ought to have posted your line of profession and where you based,their maybe people willing to help including moi PELEEEE |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by 190smh: 8:00pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
I hate Nairaland |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by obowunmi(m): 8:05pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Udz soory to hear about your plight. Take heart --- |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Mynd44: 8:07pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Stick in there guy it will get better |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Nobody: 8:12pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
This statement caught my attention 'I hardly buy a bottle of star' Like seriously, you still think of beer?? |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 8:19pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Excelboi: thank U for ur concern, am not seekinp for people's sympathy but I just needed to share this story, am an Elect/ Elect. Engineering gradaute though I have much interest anything Computer and IT. Am located in Akure at the moment. Thank You. reply [quote][/quote] thank U for ur concern, am not seekinp for people's sympathy but I just needed to share this story, am an Elect/ Elect. Engineering gradaute though I have much interest anything Computer and IT. Am located in Akure at the moment. Thank You. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 8:20pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Excelboi: thank U for ur concern, am not seekinp for people's sympathy but I just needed to share this story, am an Elect/ Elect. Engineering gradaute though I have much interest anything Computer and IT. Am located in Akure at the moment. Thank You. reply [quote][/quote] thank U for ur concern, am not seekinp for people's sympathy but I just needed to share this story, am an Elect/ Elect. Engineering gradaute though I have much interest anything Computer and IT. Am located in Akure at the moment. Thank You. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Excelboi(m): 8:22pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
ok, do you have any knowledge of programming or anything related to web and codings? |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 8:39pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
bhusayor: i was describing a situation and trying tn show a sense of humour. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Nobody: 8:41pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Oh,ok, May God help you! |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Smilenw(f): 8:45pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
bhusayor: ^^ Isn't it natural for guys to think about a bottle of beer when they want to unwind? OP, May god help you ! |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Mynd44: 8:49pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
^^^ Amen |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 8:53pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
Excelboi: i have work on static web using xhtml but none on web prog. But I have this burning interest. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Excelboi(m): 9:15pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
ok will give you feedback later! Can you spare your time and create this thread on the Jobs/vacancy section or a mod should help you move it there. |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by claremont(m): 9:52pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
People are saying that God will help the OP, since when did God turn into a recruitment agent? @OP: Do NOT give up, keep on sending your applications. It may take some time, but getting to the "promised land" requires a multitude of small steps. Good luck! |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Smilenw(f): 10:15pm On Aug 28, 2011 |
claremont: |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 7:37am On Aug 29, 2011 |
Excelboi: I'll recreat the topic in the job section. Thanks for ur concern and every other person that has replied. My email is thezorani@gmail.com |
Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by udz: 8:23am On Sep 01, 2011 |
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Re: Nlers Heellpp. . . Please Read. by Mynd44: 9:11am On Sep 01, 2011 |
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