he used to b d one begging now am d one begging,i dnt knw wat i have done,we started d relationship wen i was sixteen,as a virgin nd a novice dat i was i was scared to love nd have sex,he pestered me till i finally decided to have sex wit im,now he has changed,he tells me he loves me bt doesnt act as if he does,he hardly call me nd prefer being wit his fwends dan me,he says all sort of nonsense abt me wen he is wit his fwends nd comes back to tell me he loves me,he makes jest of me,bf i still love dis guy,wat do i do?pls i need a candid advice pls

"HEART TROUBLE"Nobody can fight it, You just need a Councillor baby

pretty juile my dear, dry your tears maybe this guy was not the "right one" you're still young and fresh, so take your time forgetting this painful experience then you'll be able to meet someone else who will loves your kindness, patience and sweetness

I know it's hard but God is everything and will help you to figure this out

Dump him sweetie.

Move on and try not to build your next relationship on s.ex- you're too young if you're still in your teens.

I'd say face your studies for now and get closer to God.

Stop calling (begging)him and exhibiting your love for him all the time.Maybe he likes to have some space. Show him that you have a life of your own. Maybe you are giving away too much of yourself. When he notices that you are not so much into him he might come around if he really loves you. If he doesn't and is pleased to be left alone, then consider the guy has had his fill. Either way, I think you should try to balance your life rather than making your BF the centre of your existence. Only a woman who respects herself will be respected.

op
how many pieces did he break ur heart into

Or
He smashed ur heart

Nayah:

pretty juile my dear, dry your tears maybe this guy was not the "right one" you're still young and fresh, so take your time forgetting this painful experience then you'll be able to meet someone else who will loves your kindness, patience and sweetness

I know it's hard but God is everything and will help you to figure this out  

Smilenw:

Stop calling (begging)him and exhibiting your love for him all the time.Maybe he likes to have some space. Show him that you have a life of your own. Maybe you are giving away too much of yourself.  When he notices that you are not so much into him he might come around if he really loves you. If he doesn't and is pleased to be left alone, then consider the guy has had his fill. Either way, I think you should try to balance your life rather than making your BF the centre of your existence. Only a woman who respects herself will be respected.  

I can only add this to the above. When somebody hurts you, cry a river,build a bridge and get over it.
first cut is the deepest. Now take care of urself and dont act desperate.

Yes!!! Poster, that is what you get by allowing a guy to brain wash you into sleeping with you, the fact is, he wanted sex, and he got it from you, what else do you want to offer him?? he is onto the next one. Don't worry you will be fine.

pendo89:




I can only add this to the above. When somebody hurts you, cry a river,build a bridge and get over it.
first cut is the deepest. Now take care of urself and dont act desperate.

very true

ronkebp:
Yes!!! Poster, that is what you get by allowing a guy to brain wash you into sleeping with you, the fact is, he wanted sex, and he got it from you, what else do you want to offer him?? he is onto the next one. Don't worry you will be fine.

you ladies are called fishbrains for nothing,so dont blame the op,it is your nature to be stupiddd!

who get super glue? We need it here sharp sharp to mend a broken heart

i'd b ur super glue wen U hear is breakin

tellwisdom:
This gurl must have ENJOYED his ABUNNA oo!, immediately she tasted it, she no wan go again o

She is even begging 4 more..... A teen 4 dat mata

tellwisdom:
This gurl must have ENJOYED his ABUNNA oo!, immediately she tasted it, she no wan go again o

she is even beggin 4 more.... A teen 4 dat mata!

what happend to legs closed until after marriage

prettyjulie:
he used to b d one begging now am d one begging,i dnt knw wat i have done,we started d relationship wen i was sixteen,as a virgin nd a novice dat i was i was scared to love nd have sex,he pestered me till i finally decided to have sex wit im,now he has changed,he tells me he loves me bt doesnt act as if he does,he hardly call me nd prefer being wit his fwends dan me,he says all sort of nonsense abt me wen he is wit his fwends nd comes back to tell me he loves me,he makes jest of me,bf i still love dis guy,wat do i do?pls i need a candid advice pls

OP,he's breaking ur heart abi?...wait for me let me get super glue for u...I think that will solve ur problem...

Sorry dear, jst move on wif ur lyf, dnt let any1 b in charge of ur happiness. Let him go

4uk it;miiii ion understand

Swthrt all mummy has to say is dat d deed has been done already come back home,i am ready to receive you with arms wide open,mum stl loves you.Wel wl advice u to stop calln,textn him,4gt abt him,i knw it's hard but u have to do it,focus more on ur studies and move closer to GOD.