Sometimes, the very thing that keeps you alive in the dating game can also keep you alone. All of these seduction-angles we play, they can wreck women's confidence and self-esteem, can drive girls crazy that would have otherwise been "stable", and can end up destroying the affection they have for you. Be careful of engendering a "love-hate" relationship just so you can feed on the "love" part.

Sometimes the fortresses we build around our hearts and minds turn into prisons. Sometimes the ideas you implant in someone else's mind can grow into something that destroys them, or you. YOU can end up becoming the "crazy one". When you start to see the "truth" of human nature, you can end up shutting EVERYONE out, to the point where you turn intimacy with EVERYONE into a mind-f*ck competition, pushing them away to arm's length while trying to keep them from taking off completely.

If you have low self-esteem, "NL" it up is not the answer. The truth is in your own self-image. Become a worthy person, seek always to improve, and take pride in who you are. Believe you're the kind of man that a good woman would love to be with, act like that kind of man, and begin to see yourself as him.

Thanks Mr lecturer lol.

deal_ordea:

Sometimes, the very thing that keeps you alive in the dating game can also keep you alone. All of these seduction-angles we play, they can wreck women's confidence and self-esteem, can drive girls crazy that would have otherwise been "stable", and can end up destroying the affection they have for you. Be careful of engendering a "love-hate" relationship just so you can feed on the "love" part.

Sometimes the fortresses we build around our hearts and minds turn into prisons. Sometimes the ideas you implant in someone else's mind can grow into something that destroys them, or you. YOU can end up becoming the "crazy one". When you start to see the "truth" of human nature, you can end up shutting EVERYONE out, to the point where you turn intimacy with EVERYONE into a mind-bleep competition, pushing them away to arm's length while trying to keep them from taking off completely.

What are the words of that song again ==== ". . . The same thing that made you laugh can make you cry. . . "

rokiatu:

Thanks Mr lecturer lol.

How you dey? Hope you enjoy the EID Mubarak?

Thank you sir. I did.

I am still partying.

rokiatu:

Thank you sir. I did.

I am still partying.

Make i con party for your house, i dey dull for house

Come at your own risk.

rokiatu:

Come at your own risk.

Your house is Okija Shrine

LOL hahahhahah nothing like that.

On a more serious note, I think you should called up some friends and go out or something.

rokiatu:

LOL hahahhahah nothing like that.

On a more serious note, I think you should called up some friends and go out or something.

none around except one called sodiq

Ok make yourself happy then.

Put some music on, watch a movie or something.

Anyway I am out of here.

Bye.


And sorry for going offtopic. I think you should say sorry to yourself also.

rokiatu:

Ok make yourself happy then.

Put some music on, watch a movie or something.

Anyway I am out of here.

Bye.


And sorry for going offtopic. I think you should say sorry to yourself also.

okay, thanks for the comment

@rokiatu your profile pic is hot, turned me on

:-x :-x

You guys need to get a room across the street. . They have one for $59.99 with two beds in it

^^^
He can't afford it