Women are evil ooo. See how this woman led her husband to bad choice. Is it a crime to have more children? you are not living in China, then why do u made a wrong decision. Yoruba Yoruba

what can i say <<>>the man want children not 2 kids><<>>>< pray to God first

pray over it

SCIENCE,A BLESSING AND A CURSE, YOU SHOULD HAVE SAVED SOME SPERM BEFORE THE PROCEDURE,

hajifaty:

Women are evil ooo. See how this woman led her husband to bad choice. Is it a crime to have more children? you are not living in China, then why do u made a wrong decision. Yoruba Yoruba

shut up abeg

persuade will be the best word here. you persuaded him not forced him. what is wrong with having 2 kids? the energy your man is using to cause trouble, he should invest it into going back to school and getting an advance degree (if no more work raring children). make more money and give back. . . he could also help in group homes.

kai men sef  

Woman, you would have asked Nairalanders b4 U and ur husband went on this suicide mission. Haba, why una Bleep up like this?

Don't know about IVF? Isn't the whole point of a vasectomy is for the man's semen to have zero sperm? Unless the docs in the house can educate us on how his sperm can be collected, IVF will not work (as the produced semen won't have sperm cells).
@ OP, did you drag him with a rope around his neck to the hospital to have the procedure? I am yet to understand how the decision of a mentally sound mind to alter his anatomy is your fault? I guess you should try and save up for a reversal but if it doesn't work? What then?

lol, abi o. look at how they all attacking the lady. if it were to be her who did the tube tying, the guys here would have looked the other way.
i think her guy is being fishy/mischievious.

naijababe:

Don't know about IVF? Isn't the whole point of a vasectomy is for the man's Fluid to have zero Fluid? Unless the docs in the house can educate us on how his Fluid can be collected, IVF will not work (as the produced Fluid won't have Fluid cells).
@ OP, did you drag him with a rope around his neck to the hospital to have the procedure? I am yet to understand how the decision of a mentally sound mind to alter his anatomy is your fault? I guess you should try and save up for a reversal but if it doesn't work? What then?

I don't know much about Vasectomy but I just have this feeling that the reversal process will work so if money will not be a problem then u don't have a problem.

The mistake was done by both of you in the first place. Like my other colleague said, you would have preserved his sperm in the bank incase. There is no miracle here, Vasectomy means the sperm duck has been cut off, so you have to carry your cross with your man

I think the IVF is a better option for you now, Goodluck

Try to understand ur hubby s point of view. What if you re the one who had her womb removed only for the children to die,God forbid. You shouldnt have encouraged him to get sniped. Anyways,heard that sperm can still be extracted but only for ivf. Goodluck.

hi,
Thank God it wasn't you that did it if not he would have helped himself with some other woman. He can't do that and that is what is vexing him the more.
That's what I think.

May I ask what led to the surgery in the first place? I mean why did you decide not to have babies again?
If you remind him of the reasons why you both took the decision maybe the tension will be reduced.
That is what I do to console myself whenever I regret a decision that I have made.

Just my humble opinion.

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Try to understand ur hubby s point of view. What if you re the one who had her womb removed only for the children to die,God forbid. You shouldnt have encouraged him to get sniped. Anyways,heard that sperm can still be extracted but only for ivf. Goodluck.

adeibi:

hi,
Thank God it wasn't you that did it if not he would have helped himself with some other woman. He can't do that and that is what is vexing him the more.
That's what I think.

No make Baba  G vex for u O. you dey pray for miracle after you took a conscious decision knowing it consequences, Haba !!!  The funny thing be say if the guy had not done it then you for NAG am tire, women

niddamugu:

What is vasectomy in the first place? You tried to tamper God's design? Hmmmmm!!!! Modern medicine is not for everybody. You both messed up especially your husband because you demonstrated  lack of knowledge. Did you seek the face of God before embarking on this journey (of no return)? Before seeking his miracle now, why didn't you seek his help on imbibing the Holy Spirit to help you handle you problem. The scriptures you needed then and still need now are: Eph. 5:18; Gal. 5:22-23 (read both scriptures in NIV translation) and the emphases should be on SELF CONTROL (or is it BIRTH CONTROL?) Going forward, always meditate on Phil. 4:8 at all times because I can imagine what's going through your both minds. May God help you,

Abeg what's up with all this bible quotations and self righteousness? Na wa for nairalanders o.

Kai, why are women always the ones 2 blame when things go wrong. This reminds me of a lady we both delivered d same day in d hospital. She had 2 kids b4 then and when on birth control, after 10yrs her husband wantd more children. This caused a serious problem in their home 2 d xtent of involving elders and pastors. Na so d woman come wake up 2 reality, but thank God theirs wasnt permanent. Ladies this is a lesson 2 b learnt. If a naija man ask 4 2kids give him 3 or 4 so he doesnt wake up one day nd want more. Men sef

LOL@ the foolish man and his daft wife! Imagine getting a vasectomy after only two children! If both of you are that foolish, then you don't deserve to create anymore children. We already have enough daft Nigerians in the world as it is - no use breeding more of them.

I pray to God that I never find myself in a situation where I have no good advisers in my life.

na wa ooh.

Creator: Man wetin happen to ur burah?
Man: na the woman wey u give me deceive me. she sey if i tamper with it we go dey "chop" without .
Creator: woman why u come deceive ur man?
Woman: na satan tell me sey to chop without na it sweet pass, no fear of pregnancy again and we go save money from pills and condom.

ps: I hope both of you must have saved up to 12k dollars from pills and condom since them. In fact i no know the type curse wey i go curse una. Anyway sha I pray God comes to your aid. Take heart.

M M M can help u out

moremi2008:

LOL@ the foolish man and his daft wife! Imagine getting a vasectomy after only two children! If both of you are that foolish, then you don't deserve to create anymore children. We already have enough daft Nigerians in the world as it is - no use breeding more of them.

I pray to God that I never find myself in a situation where I have no good advisers in my life.

Just two meaning the more the better even when you cant care for them? nonsense talk
I remember Tejuoso mama has only him and he is one tree that shakes the forest.

Stupid story.

God is not a magician.

He made marriage first to raise a God fearing family and when you and your husband agreed on Vasectomy, DID YOU ASK GOD BEFORE YOU DECIDED TO PLAY HIS ROLE IN PROCREATION?

People should be brave to face the consequences of their actions or never even attempt them at all.

You would fare better trying to raise the money for the surgery to put back what you have removed without the permission of the creator and supreme owner of all creations He has made for His pleasure and His glory.

I would t know y it's very hard 4 children of men to allow things the way they are made to be by God.Well,it's he who pays the piper dictates the tune.Dance your music my dear

@op,u ve two children alrealy,why worrying 2 ve more,wat abt dos dat stil beg God 4 one,hop dos children ar not disable type. Mayb dat surgery has been affecting ur husband sexually,jst tel us d truth.

I suggest u apply any of the options provided by Ur friends but don't 4get that prayers of 4giveness are of gr8 help

Dear madam,
Please do not get worried for too much I have a solution to that problem .All you need do is send me an E-mail at mosesegbe@yahoo.com let us talk more
thank you
sincerely
moses E