Why is it that, at most times people don't have much issues in relationships but when they got married, issues will begin to spring up which may eventually lead to divorce

Legendguy:
Why is it that, at most times people don't have much issues in relationships but when they got married, issues will begin to spring up which may eventually lead to divorce

People pretend in relationships.
Marriage opens their eyes

Cxx

Tallesty1:
Because most people in relationships live separately.
Same compound relationship pack up easily than same street, same street pack more than same local government, same local government pack up more than same state, etc........

Living together is a nyash opener

U have settled this matter. 40litres of palmwine 4u.

When in relationship. U wont see d real flaws in people. The one dey show u is 10%, the irony is that 10% is even d fake.

When u finally marry. The remaining 90% will be unveiled. Or I'd rather say the real 100%

That institution is d only one where u knw u r sleeping with the enemy

I think one of the big factors, is that most people in a relationship live separately.
When two people starts to live together, they start to notice some certain character that they hadn't noticed before in their partner.

Brian47:
I think one of the big factors, is that most people in a relationship live separately.
When two people starts to live together, they start to notice some certain character that they hadn't noticed before in their partner.

u just wan put fear for my body..

Marriage is an eye opener and because in marriage the couple are in each others faces full time faults begin to seem amplified and see finish enters.
Marriage is not for the immature or the intolerant. It is a true test of character

It's because in relationships, some simps date themselves thinking they are dating their girlfriends whereas the girls are oloshos and some girls date themselves thinking they are dating the niggas not knowing they are there for pussy. When they get married and now both give their maximum attention to the relationship, only then will realize they are not compatible.

fman:
u just wan put fear for my body..

Lol no.
What I said is the truth. That's why I'd advice anyone to move in with their partner before taking the next step in your relationship so you'll know who you're going to be spending the rest of your life with. Not after marriage you'll start seeing something else. But sadly, our Nigerian culture don't encourage that.

because the woman becomes full on liability