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Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Renting a house is not the best options, because one day that your uncle would see you as an unserious human being. Remember the house rent would surely expire someday and he will surely stop giving you some money.

Use that money to start up a business for yourself, when you are comfortable enough then you can relocate to good apartment. Marriage or not the house still belong to your father, so make enough money then drag them to court recover your father's properties and let her stay in your house, then take very good care of her.

Understand this life to live this life

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

If the said house was built by your late father i don't advice you to succumb to her cheap blackmail, claim your property and do the needful. but if it's not your late dad property then leave them alone and face your life.

I repeat if the house is your inheritance claim it now let her and her gold digging boyfriend go to hell!

duro4chang:
You don't need to tell people all this. Everyone is passing through one challenge or the other

Bro sometimes one needs to. True everyone is passing through a challenge or the other but there's those whose own is worse and they're not experienced and strong enough to carry it.
So such persons seek the help of more experienced and stronger people to help them with advice and or suggestions.
That's why you have counsellors and therapists being paid to render those services and some do it for free.

prophetfire:
Bro sometimes one needs to. True everyone is passing through a challenge or the other but there's those whose own is worse and they're not experienced and strong enough to carry it.
So such persons seek the help of more experienced and stronger people to help them with advice and or suggestions.
That's why you have counsellors and therapists being paid to render those services and some do it for free.

All right. At the same time, the counsel he will get here will he more than what he bargained.

[quote author=generalwo post=119586895]I don't understand.... U Wan stay with your mama forever? Why are you against her marrying someone else after the death of your father? May your father's soul rest in peace..... Live your life and allow your mother live hers ... Be a man and work hard to raise your own family.... Your mother is human and deserves to be happy as much as any other person...abi you Wan dey bang your mama or dey watch her guy bang her?? Baba move on jare...... [people like u is the ones that vote thieves into public office due to poor intelligence..am really ashamed of people who reason like fools..how will u feel knowing that your own mum threathen to kill herself for useless reason of u vacating your own fathers house so that she can bring into same house a boyfriend, the mum is so shameless and selfish..who does that? If the mum desires sex she should look for a stable man with a house to marry and move into his home ,instead of throwing her own son out in the cold ...the mum is shameless what stops her from going to the so called boyfriend and live with him in his own house..or is the guy a homeless wanderer?..I thank God I don't have such woman as my mother...the so called boyfriend is equally useless, by agreeing to move into the house of a woman who had children for her late husband...greediness, selfishness and foolishness is the cause of break down of human relationships, if that house is his late dad's property, he should make sure the documents are safe ,maybe the gigolo is even using juju on his mother who knows, before he sales off the property and run away

Komu1048:


Oga, 3k from Canada is what?

That's pure see finish, not long he came to naija n spent 7days in a hotel he pays 40k per night.
I know what I'm saying

ok....datz too bad of him,he should have given at least $100

SKYQUEST:


Let the OP be. Sometimes, some heart burden just get lighter when you let it out. However, one cannot cut off his mother from his life. Even if she is a witch, she is your mother. Somehow, things will just sort out itself.

You mean even the though she is the architect of your problems? Some people would differ to what you just said.

Ya mother help you.
Later you go thank am.

Pls and pls I'm begging you ...Make good use of the rest of the money ...so you mum won't mock you later

Richy4:
Your mama get Oyibo mentality.. Please don't use it against her...She will regain her senses later as the dust settles..

I'm just wondering how that man will be so comfortable living in a place where a son of the house was tossed away...Or will he claim he doesn't know their initial living arrangements

He's indeed the 'real man'
And may God replenish your uncle's pocket.. he understands what peace is all about

She get Oyinbo mentality, she should be ready to live at Old People's Home when she grows old, that's where old Oyinbo people live without their children and grandchildren. And they are all happy there.

StreetFight:


She get Oyinbo mentality, she should be ready to live at Old People's Home when she grows old, that's where old Oyinbo people live without their children and grandchildren. And they are all happy there.

duro4chang:
All right. At the same time, the counsel he will get here will he more than what he bargained.

I know here is full of toxic and brainless people but there's still sound and sensible people here that can help.

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

U no try ooo.



Anyway, if u are an adult, I guess it's also time u start hustling for urself.

But if u love Ur mum, watch out for her. That penis holding her captive may still do her strong thing in the future.

By the way, who built the house?

Guy, Don't fail to work hard o, use the remaining cash well.
As for your mum, just give her space for now. She don't need you, hopefully she will look for you tomorrow.

Your uncle did very well by sending money for you to rent a house. You too did well by leaving. But I want to know if the house your mom is asking you to leave belongs to your late father or your step father. If it belongs to your late father, your mom is the one that is supposed to leave with his new husband to the new husband house.

You better cut her off. She is a very wicked mother!

You keep creating threads about your mother asking you to move out of the house but you have refused to tell us about the ownership of this house in question.

Must be tales by moonlight

if its ur d
Dads house tell her shd rather pack her things to d mans' house but if not its beta u stay off.n dsnt mean u kip malice with her but i guess charm is workg on ur mum,she cant think well agn

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

Don't cut her off, just respect yourself and stay your own.


You should be happy you left family house, privacy is sweet that's if you're of age.

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

The House was built by who??
Someone else who is the Landlord??
Or Was it built by your Father before he died?
Or was it built by your mother after the death of your father?


Your response to the question(s) would help me balance well into the real situations behind your story.

Your mama suppose marry and go to her new husband's house.
So, why is she the one bringing the man to the house?

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

So, many questions beg for answers before I can respond:
1. Where is your Dad?
2. Is the house rented or built by your Parent(s)
3. How old are you?
4. Maternal Uncle or Paternal Uncle? that helped you.
5. Did you accept the Step-Dad to be?
6. Are you through with your studies and what do you presently do for a living?
7. Do you have other Siblings (older, younger or both)?
8. Has your Mom always been this cruel to you.
9. Are you presently in a serious relationship
10. Do you belong to a Godly fellowship?

Greattestman:
My mother has been threatening to commit suicide if I won't leave the house for her and her husband to be (my step-father to be). She gave me ultimatum of some days so I decided to call my uncle in the US and told him what was happening, he advised me to leave and get another house and he promised to pay my rent.

Two days ago he sent me 300, 000 Naira and I paid my rent 50, 000. I packed in today but my mother doesn't know my house and I'm planning to cut my mother off my life.

I seriously miss my father.

I am trying to imagine how house of #50 000 would be in this economy.

Slap me, I Kill you.

Ibechris2:
U have a nice uncle.

But we may not know the full story here but it's indeed painful to hear stories like this.

I wonder how some women prioritise affairs over their children's future.

But if u are close to 25 of age I don't expect u to be in that house.

She has needs too. For op to type on nairaland means he's an adult.
It might be a good thing on the long run

meobizy:
This secondary school boy is back with lies. He is surely dating a moderator.

LMAO haha

duro4chang:
I understand but it's not every issue you have that must be tabled in social media. Her own is even better. Some people are passing through alot of difficulties. I am passing through my own too

You still don't understand it, no burden is too little or too big to share. What have you got to lose if you share your burden on anonymous forum? You have more to gain than to lose. Learn to share your burden and be free of depression.

StreetFight:


She get Oyinbo mentality, she should be ready to live at Old People's Home when she grows old, that's where old Oyinbo people live without their children and grandchildren. And they are all happy there.