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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by EbenezerTriumph: 12:32am On Jan 06, 2023
Affiliateseun05:
Bro no go jare since she don leave you no reason of meeting MAYBE she won seduce you and force belle for your hand or she won do you wicked
akube34:
meet in an eatery. No meet for private place make she no pour u acid
The thing is that I'm scared and trying to prevent what happened to my immediate younger brother 5 years ago from happening to me.
his ex he jilted came to our home and poured him acid.
His story even made Nairaland front page.
here is the link
https://www.nairaland.com/3672816/lady-pours-acid-ex-boyfriend-akwa
till date the guy's left eye is blind and the scars on his face has made him so ugly.
In our family we're not lucky with relationships so that's why I don't hesitate to dump any toxic girl I come across.
I rejected the appointment and wouldn't give her a chance to see her physically, I rather called and she was all crying and begging for me to give her a chance.
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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Gadafii: 3:43am On Jan 06, 2023
Op if you go one things is sure, you are going to Bleep, cos she’s going to manipulate you emotionally like you stated, she will make Bleep easy for you, and I assure you that you will cum inside her Toto, she will make sure of that

Then she can hook you down with bele and by November this year you will be marrying her, and your life may turn worse than it was when you dated her, she go use your eyes see shege and you may contemplate suicide, worse still that Pele she pin on you is not your child, girls mad gaan

I am glad you have ignored her this long, now block the new line she called you, and block her everywhere you have used to communicate with her, na that one go mad her finish

If you are serious about making progress this year DONT GO ANYWHERE, if you do you will regret it

I am not a prophet, this is just common sense

What ever she wants to discuss with you that’s that important let her compose email and send to you, don’t go anywhere ooo

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by SporaD8: 5:20am On Jan 06, 2023
VeryWickedSimp:
It's either she wants to pour you acid or she wants to pin fake pregnancy on you.
My very first thought until I realized it was a sex-free relationship.
@Op, if you are determine to break up, don't ever honour the invitation. but if you want to continue from where you stop, she can even top it with sex for you, then you should go.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Jayboi(m): 6:31am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:



The thing is that I'm scared and trying to prevent what happened to my immediate younger brother 5 years ago from happening to me.
his ex he jilted came to our home and poured him acid.
His story even made Nairaland front page.
here is the link
https://www.nairaland.com/3672816/lady-pours-acid-ex-boyfriend-akwa
till date the guy's left eye is blind and the scars on his face has made him so ugly.
In our family we're not lucky with relationships so that's why I don't hesitate to dump any toxic girl I come across.
I rejected the appointment and wouldn't give her a chance to see her physically, I rather called and she was all crying and begging for me to give her a chance.
cc pakwel
davidadenrele
freddie009
Babamide
Sanguine
Okoroawusa
Nicepoker
ifihearam
nicerod
advanceDNA
segunpraiz
jayboi

So sad. Just read Ur bros story. So pathetic. Pls if u can, be focused this year as u planned and calmly let the girl go. It won't be easy for her but she ll leave. May God heal u in Ur home.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by cedaxa: 6:41am On Jan 06, 2023
slowpoke, see who dey go about forum watching porn n claiming holy but can't wait till marriage
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Nobody: 6:53am On Jan 06, 2023
This is what you get from dating a boy.
All of the sudden, he wants to focus on his life and his poor mindset tells him his girlfriend is his problem..
Now he's ghosting a girl he claims he loves


Tueeeeh undecided
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Crampyblood(m): 7:13am On Jan 06, 2023
Dimples2022:
I can’t read this… can someone pass me their notes? cry
long story short, op and his girlfriend are dummies
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Pakwel(m): 7:46am On Jan 06, 2023
Jayboi:


So sad. Just read Ur bros story. So pathetic. Pls if u can, be focused this year as u planned and calmly let the girl go. It won't be easy for her but she ll leave. May God heal u in Ur home.
Stay away from clingy ladies. Call you every time. Nah madness. And I no Bleep you. That's the most annoying part I no do again .
Me normally 2 months is all I give. Past and existing relationship. Cos I like change clothes regularly

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Pakwel(m): 7:47am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:



The thing is that I'm scared and trying to prevent what happened to my immediate younger brother 5 years ago from happening to me.
his ex he jilted came to our home and poured him acid.
His story even made Nairaland front page.
here is the link
https://www.nairaland.com/3672816/lady-pours-acid-ex-boyfriend-akwa
till date the guy's left eye is blind and the scars on his face has made him so ugly.
In our family we're not lucky with relationships so that's why I don't hesitate to dump any toxic girl I come across.
I rejected the appointment and wouldn't give her a chance to see her physically, I rather called and she was all crying and begging for me to give her a chance.
cc pakwel
davidadenrele
freddie009
Babamide
Sanguine
Okoroawusa
Nicepoker
ifihearam
nicerod
advanceDNA
segunpraiz
jayboi

Dude. Maybe that's what she wanted to do or worst.. stay away from clingy ladies.. they have bad mind. Stay safe. Bro

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by flokii: 7:49am On Jan 06, 2023
Ladies are quite predictable tho... the said girlfriend wants to give OP coochie hoping he would reconsider and take her back..
@OP Just use your head and shine ur eyes make dem no pin belle on top your head.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by MoneyMustBMade(m): 7:58am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

You have dealth with her emotionally. Ask her for anything and see her giving it to you instantly.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by toujurs: 8:08am On Jan 06, 2023
A lady that breaks up with you, and still want to have a physical conversation with you, bro you better ignore that girl. And focus on your life. She is emotionally attached to you. Ignore her o! You hae messed her emotions up. She could have bad intentions to harm you.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by crackhouse(m): 8:18am On Jan 06, 2023
Maybe she want to pour you acid...

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Karleb(m): 8:39am On Jan 06, 2023
Give her your own time, location and date if you must see her.

I love you way you handled her tho. You be man. cool

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by diogo23: 8:41am On Jan 06, 2023
She thinks you're ghosting her because of sex so she want to give you sex

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Autobot05: 8:44am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.

Oboy you deserve 1 cold malt abeg

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by padi94(m): 9:07am On Jan 06, 2023
She wants to give you sex
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by EbenezerTriumph: 9:24am On Jan 06, 2023
cedaxa:
slowpoke, see who dey go about forum watching porn n claiming holy but can't wait till marriage
I've reported all your monikers to the mods.
all your tempmail accounts would be blocked and deleted.
I will deal with you on this forum till you repent from turning this forum to a porn site.
I have already made sure that your porn web site will be blocked and that your lifenija account banned.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by cedaxa: 9:28am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
I've reported all your monikers to the mods.
all your tempmail accounts would be blocked and deleted.
I will deal with you on this forum till you repent from turning this forum to a porn site.
I have already made sure that your porn web site will be blocked and that your lifenija account banned.

Lol konji wan kill this one, 1k card daily who dash this teacher money.

Keep reporting as u no get work.
U b watching n b looking for cheap girl to give u sex wen dey turn u down u run here to claim innocent.Saddist

Lifenija ur teacher dey quote u.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by cedaxa: 9:29am On Jan 06, 2023
Autobot05:


Oboy you deserve 1 cold malt abeg
dey blive him story? D guy na simp.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by EbenezerTriumph: 9:29am On Jan 06, 2023
crackhouse:
Maybe she want to pour you acid...
toujurs:
A lady that breaks up with you, and still want to have a physical conversation with you, bro you better ignore that girl. And focus on your life. She is emotionally attached to you. Ignore her o! You hae messed her emotions up. She could have bad intentions to harm you.
hope you've read the link I attached up there concerning my brother's story that made front-page years ago
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by cedaxa: 9:31am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:


hope you've read the link I attached up there concerning my brother's story that made front-page years ago
we should now cry?
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Oyiboman69: 9:34am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.
don't go...add this one to your ghost mode....
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by galadima77(m): 9:39am On Jan 06, 2023
Don't go.

Thank me later
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Autobot05: 9:40am On Jan 06, 2023
cedaxa:
dey blive him story? D guy na simp.

Stop crying please cheesy I'm 80% sure you're a woman
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by cedaxa: 9:42am On Jan 06, 2023
Autobot05:


Stop crying please cheesy I'm 80% sure you're a woman
did u just assume my gender, now thats offensive grin
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by Candidlady: 9:44am On Jan 06, 2023
toujurs:
A lady that breaks up with you, and still want to have a physical conversation with you, bro you better ignore that girl. And focus on your life. She is emotionally attached to you. Ignore her o! You hae messed her emotions up. She could have bad intentions to harm you.

iswear you are an illiterate nothing wey anybody fit tell me

now go back and read the post again after that come edit this rubbish you wrote..


dummmmy
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by danielistics(m): 9:46am On Jan 06, 2023
Bro don't go, she should text you whatever she wants to tell you. She already has her plans.
Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by toujurs: 9:48am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:


hope you've read the link I attached up there concerning my brother's story that made front-page years ago
I just read it now, Sorry about the incident. It must have been a very painful experience.

I hope she is in jail now, i nearly had similar experience, but mine had a knife. So she can stab me and run away in the dark.

Most girls are too emotionally attached, especially introverted broke girls. They can't handle break up.

You better avoid that girl, if she gives you food or drinks don't take. A matter of time she will get over it.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by toujurs: 9:52am On Jan 06, 2023
Candidlady:


iswear you are an illiterate nothing wey anybody fit tell me

now go back and read the post again after that come edit this rubbish you wrote..


dummmmy
go and take your kwaya, and rest. You are meant to be in jail by now, i wonder how police don't see, demented being like you.

A wasted psycho on drugs is calling me a dummy, undecided, You should be offered as a piece offering in exchange for the pregnant lady shot by the police.

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Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by imagrg(m): 10:00am On Jan 06, 2023
CandidLady..
I contacted you on WhatsApp yesterday you nor respond.
Why you dey play hard to chat with?
Your luck for serious relationship fit come through me oh.
Anytime I see your comment I dey like am well well oh...serious. angry
Candidlady:
sad

this OP is a chicken


person say she wan see you.. you don dey reason relationship

men and one way thinking eh..

tueh

iswear OP you still like that lady


Re: My Girlfriend Wants To See Me After Ghosting Her For A Month by ruggedtimi(m): 10:25am On Jan 06, 2023
EbenezerTriumph:
I decided to end the relationship last year by ghosting her cos I didn't want any pressure this year.
I have lots of goals to achieve this year and having a girlfriend would slow down my financial progress.
She has been so clingy in the relationship, obsessed and emotionally manipulative and always get so mad if i don't call her frequently at night despite an intensed communication during the day.

To be frank I usually spend more than 1k daily on airtime daily, worst of it all we're in a no sex relationship as she says I should wait till marriage.

Despite my efforts in maintaining communication, she still complains and tells me she isn't impressed with my efforts in communication, she started getting angry and snubs my chats. Also she has been so obsessed with marriage for a 25 year old girl like her, she keeps uploading engagements and rings on her status and tells me boldly that she wants to settle down before ember month this year.

Two weeks to the Christmas I ghosted her, she called and never heard from me again, sent all sorts of messages that she has moved on but I never responded.

During Christmas.she stopped calling and on the 31st of December she sent a breakup text but still got no response from me. On the 2nd of this year she called umpteen times but I didn't answer, I gave her the massive silent treatment for 4 weeks.

Now just today she called again using her colleague's number, i finally picked up and she told me bluntly she wants to see me this evening by 7pm and it's urgent. I asked her what's wrong and why she wants to see me and she said I should just come and let's find a place and see that it's urgent.
I'm confused and scared though but honestly I don't want the relationship anymore, got goals and target this year.
baba pick your own location make una meet...And go with someone else. Make she no go blackmail you with suicide and other stuffs

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