Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

So you just met a girl 'gbagaa' and Start toasting her instantly?

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

It's not okay as an introvert to walk across a lady and start forming conversation...you are not yet ripe for that.

Start with the girls you meet in social gatherings of friends or colleagues.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Yes that is how they behave.
Use to know a girl way back in secondary school (my best friend's cousin) she use to refer to one of my other friend as "cow" they have have been married for 16yrs now.
Summary; they are peculiar beings. Even some amongst them that are tripping for you may behave funny and somewhat rude when you approach them.

Approach more and more of them, catch fun and boost your confidence, don't make sex your main focus ooo. In fact, always expect and enjoy the rejection. Look at it like you are developing your marketing skills and catching cruise. By this way you won't be under pressure or be scared.

Keep it up Bro.

Nobody might tell u this but you did just great. Now try to improve on yourself by going to gym or home work out. If you have money and you are tall, it will be a plus for you.
The aim is to build a strong intelligent masculine man with high value even you yourself will be proud of.
It is a journey you must be willing to partake.
Hard but very rewarding.

Treasuredgift:
Nwoke je chu ba ego.

Penguin2:


Don’t go straight to ask a girl out.

Start a conversation. Talk about the upcoming election. Tell her you want to vote Tinubu and see her reaction. Then tell her you were joking; that you are voting Obi. Take time to talk about how Nigeria is a mess and drastic measures need to be taken to salvage the country.

By the time you guys are done with these, she has lowered her defenses. Then go ahead to introduce yourself and ask her name.

Tell her where you stay and ask hers too. Because you need to know if it’s the distance you can handle; except you don’t mind distance relationship.

Don’t talk about anything else, just ask for her contact. If she gives you, you can now take the battle to her DM.

Do you still need help with what to say in her DM?

Na prof you be oh

Penguin2:


Don’t go straight to ask a girl out.

Start a conversation. Talk about the upcoming election. Tell her you want to vote Tinubu and see her reaction. Then tell her you were joking; that you are voting Obi. Take time to talk about how Nigeria is a mess and drastic measures need to be taken to salvage the country.

By the time you guys are done with these, she has lowered her defenses. Then go ahead to introduce yourself and ask her name.

Tell her where you stay and ask hers too. Because you need to know if it’s the distance you can handle; except you don’t mind distance relationship.

Don’t talk about anything else, just ask for her contact. If she gives you, you can now take the battle to her DM.

Do you still need help with what to say in her DM?

You keep putting election and derailing this thread
By the way I'm from umuhiah voting TINUBU

Oga go and thank God! You are safe from hiv, STDs etc work hard forget about woman! Face your huzzle

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

meobizy:
This secondary school boy is back at it. Nairaland has gone to the dogs.

Were you never in secondary school?
Instead of us to gather round develop am now you dey complain.

Few years time now it will still be the same you that will complain that some men are weak.

yrhuhfy113:


MONEY IS THE GREATEST BUILDER OF CONFIDENCE..... you need to go to the mall more often and to some village festivals.... UGLY SHORT BILLONAIRES and their tall pretty model-like queens.

MONEY IS THE CONFIDENCE BOOSTER, NOT WOMEN.

That same tall model like queen is getting tuned out like a gutter slut by real men without money, the simple advise you shld have given him is, a woman can never be satisfied..any man that accepts that fact just found peace..

Don't bother yourself much... Pussi**es that eluded me over 20 years ago are running after me now, I no even dey interested again..

Don't let someone to make u sad
She fit Dey depressed everybody get watin dem Dey reason
No be must say she go talk to you
Get the fact
Why don't u make friends online before getting to see offline to save yourself for more embarrassment ahead
Country hard everybody they fine Watin dem won chop and still give family

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Funniest part is the girl likes you.. when toasting always remember that whatever a girl says or does means the opposite. Especially naija girls.. the hiss signifies her own insecurities..

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Leave girls and chase money...chasing pussies was the greatest mistake we young guys made at the early stage of our life, girls will reduce you and u might regret, wise up...money over bitches.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Yes. That is how they behave..

You are even lucky sef.

The first girl I toasted when I was fresh out of secondary school looked at me and bursted out laughing.

yrhuhfy113:


Congrats... finally you have enrolled in the school of PAIN... it is a correctional facility that will teach you only ONE MAJOR LESSON in Life

NO MONEY, NO LOVE

once you learn that lesson, then you will close your eyes to ladies, curb your wanton deek urges... AND GET BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE AND GET RICH.

Then the same girl will deny she every looked down on you, but by then she will only be good enough for an acquaintance... your level and taste in ladies would have improved.
ALSO
people will treat you and your children and spouse better.... BECAUSE, IN THIS WORLD..... ONLY MONEY AND POWER are respected. Anything less will be ignored, insulted or betrayed.

So if you want to never feel what you felt today. Go and give a proper meaning to your life. Looking at you from up to down means she found you worthless.... NO LADY WILL EASY SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY WHO IS NOT BETTER THAN HER OR AT LEAST NOT LOOKING PROMISING.

Welcome to your first day in the real world.

Please don't wait to get rich before toasting ladies and have a little pleasure of life.

Once you are of proper age and upward mobile please commence learning and getting education on the opposite sex.

You will realise that women are very different from men because their values and principles are very different from men. That doesn't make them unapproachable or untouchable rather it makes your adventures more interesting and revealing.

It is a life long education and their is really no special or specific manual of operations. Please, therefore go out there and enjoy the experience it is either you are accepted on trials or rejected at once. Upon rejection try out the next girl at the next street corner and that may be your luck.

Best luck next time.

stuffs2002:


Yes. That is how they behave..

You are even lucky sef.

The first girl I toasted when I was fresh out of secondary school looked at me and bursted out laughing.

yrhuhfy113:


Congrats... finally you have enrolled in the school of PAIN... it is a correctional facility that will teach you only ONE MAJOR LESSON in Life

NO MONEY, NO LOVE

once you learn that lesson, then you will close your eyes to ladies, curb your wanton deek urges... AND GET BUSY WITH YOUR LIFE AND GET RICH.

Then the same girl will deny she every looked down on you, but by then she will only be good enough for an acquaintance... your level and taste in ladies would have improved.
ALSO
people will treat you and your children and spouse better.... BECAUSE, IN THIS WORLD..... ONLY MONEY AND POWER are respected. Anything less will be ignored, insulted or betrayed.

So if you want to never feel what you felt today. Go and give a proper meaning to your life. Looking at you from up to down means she found you worthless.... NO LADY WILL EASY SPREAD HER LEGS FOR A GUY WHO IS NOT BETTER THAN HER OR AT LEAST NOT LOOKING PROMISING.

Welcome to your first day in the real world.

People like you give me hope.THIS is the cold, hard truth of the relationship dynamics. Money stop nonsense!

Waiting to get money to toast women makes you loose the correct animal instincts in man and woman and you have missed a great lifetime techniques thereby.

Many Women like to suffer a little with their partners too. It is only the noisy and olosho brains that have lost touch of nature that demand money for everything.

So be watchful for the stray eyed noisy talkative. They are most times not helpful.

Dem nor dey toast woman again nah make her like you but still dey try becos no matter how e be we need money to run things na fact

How do you deal with rejections from guys?

ibkayee:

Jokes aside, I heard rejection builds character. Sorry

it's once happened to me sha. I saw a crowd people. they were busy fighting and police were separating and in the venue which happened to be a secondary school class people were collecting PVC so i went to this pretty lady standing watching too to inquire what's happening. bro the way she looked at me from head to toe and hissed . I felt so worthless. like a piece of shit. she really dealt a blow to the minute self esteem left in me. since then I've sweared never to approach a girl in public. no be me una go disgrace for public

Macgyver1:


Haha! What did you say to her? Start by opening a normal conversation and sound confident, ask for her number before you leave, if she declines don't pressure her just smile and bounce. You value all these girls from afar when you get them and they come close to you, you will realize girls don't have brain lol.

90 out of 100 girls won't give you number at a go.
If she says no, just persist a little bit, if she doesn't give you, then bounce.

meobizy:
This secondary school boy is back at it. Nairaland has gone to the dogs.

Secondary school boy? I know a guy in his 30s that can't confidently approach a gorgeous lady.

How old are you though ?

If you have Money, they go start chasing you.
Ladies and money are like Ants and Sugar.
wetin go happen If you pour sugar on the ground ?
You go see say ants go locate the sugar. Na so ladies be, if you get money, they go come around.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

U dey allow small girl tension you for 2023.

No go hustle get money build house for your mama and papa!

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Op wat u need right now is a link to a hookup site... U need a girl to f**k dat introvert spirit away from ur body... I believe u are a virgin so find a hookup site make arrangements for straffing, do it for like 8 months den u will have the confidence to speak to a lady...

Love is sweet o, when money enter, love is sweeter in davido's voice.










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I dont think most girls enjoy being approached on the street.

Glistinin:
How do you deal with rejections from guys?

I’ve never experienced being rejected by a guy but that’s mostly because I’ve never put myself in a position where I could be E.g approaching a guy