It's not hard. Just take a deep breath and tell her your mind. Anyhow you tell her she'll understand and if she's not yours, move on.

Just catch cruise and flirt
Hang out with real niggas and keep trying to flirt with beautiful rich girls above your level. Life no hard my bro one day e go enter and become very easy. My ex's dad is a millionaire in Imo state the girl big pass me, we wey garri na gold for our house, yet she worships me. We broke up cuz she's toxic on my own terms. I was shy and introverted but I metamorphosed into an ambivert. Enjoy life bro

That means you kill the attraction and fondness for guys you are crushing on, or you have never crushed on a guy before?

ibkayee:

I’ve never experienced being rejected by a guy but that’s mostly because I’ve never put myself in a position where I could be E.g approaching a guy

Iloveu778:

Lmao
You really said the real thing, the thing is, I am really aware of everything you said up there,NOT like I want to date any girl.
I just want to use it to build my confidence in approaching ladies.
Thanks for the input

Good day, that which he gave you is not a good advice and you are already thanking him...

You only want to build your confidence and not ready to date but you went toasting a girl...

Please look out for a girl who is interested in you (you will know via her excitement and happiness around you); start from her, she will not disgrace you even if she doesn't want to date you. As an introvert, the best option is to start with someone who appreciate you, thank you.

My brother you don talk everything finish.. who get time to they toast girls again

Zonefree:


That's how they behave now.

If you have money, just make them an irresistible offer, bang and discharge them.

Glistinin:
That means you kill the attraction and fondness for guys you are crushing on, or you have never crushed on a guy before?

Well I’ve found people attractive but didn’t necessarily want anything with them, there are lots of attractive people in the world, you can’t get with all of them lol

As luck would have it however, all the guys I’ve wanted something serious with reciprocated the crush or liked me first. To be fair I haven’t really liked that many guys ‘seriously’ beyond a superficial attraction

Guy na money you need.. or try get iPhone with 3 cameras you go bang tire I swear to god

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

rejection is part of the game infact you should get more and that will help u build a strategy that should not fail.
Secondly nobody toast girl this days just approach her like a gentleman even if u are not. Introduce urself, know her name and ask for her number if she refuses, be happy because she is saving u a whole lots of problems. But if she gives you, it's a win step for u depending on ur game. I don't want to talk further but if need me to talk let me know.

Me and women no get business apart from sex

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Just stay fresh and have money, them go rush you. Don't be too surprised most of these Behind ladies have nothing to offer some na only 2 pant them get.

Iloveu778:

I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Of all the advice you'll get here , please avoid any advice like this or anyone like this below .

Zonefree:

That's how they behave now.

If you have money, just make them an irresistible offer, bang and discharge them.

The truth is most of them have no game in real life and they believe money is the only answer .

Bro , I've seen and experienced where guys with nothing so to speak date and n@ck the so called best girls. Would you have believed that someone like Carolina danjuma was dating tagbo before he died ?

You're still new to this , so you have a lot to work on yourself personally. Girls are just like normal people and there are different types and classes of them . Some can like tall guys, some short , bearded , not bearded...so many likes and dislikes so you don't expect every girl to listen to you or give you her phone number when you ask.

I'll suggest you read this page from the book of pook

https://bookofpook.com/15-lessons-for-young-men-rejection-is-better-than-regret-lesson-1/

then go on youtube , watch AG. Hayden videos
And there's another guy on nairaland here that has a full thread , can't remember his name .

Money will make it easier but believe me you don't need to be rich to bleep any girl.
Dress well
Build your communication skill
Be funny
Be fun
Be yourself
Play by her emotions.

Proud of you.

Lol.. relax guy. U v taken a good step. Just develop your self confidence. See them as your normal male friends. U don't shiver when you interact with your male friends.. apply same method. I respect ladies but do not attach so much importance to them . I handle them casually and avoid over compliment(it gets into their heads)

Be in charge when talking to a girl. I mean look into her eyes(it makes them shy)and express yourself with boldness. Don't be cocky , just behave normal. Let them not see fear or nervousness in you.

Dress smart . Smell nice. Groom ur facial hair Don't laugh all the time. Keep your shoulder n head straight. Above all, get serious making money legally o.

Bekermann:


Na prof you be oh

miracood:
I also tried approaching a girl that I discovered that she lives in my area on new year's day..

Bitch just left me talking to myself. I just meeve..

I actually bleeped up... Because even if I get the chance to smash her, I probably wouldn't. Unless maybe the konji is very strong.

The boldfaced just got me laughing

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

Rule 1: Don't look for ladies, rather look for money. When money comes, u don't need to toast or talk, just wind down the windscreen of your Lexus RX 350 2020 model and politely call her by whistling, then give her ur complimentary card. She will be the one looking for you not otherwise. Ninja babes are leeches.

Zulum500:


You keep putting election and derailing this thread
By the way I'm from umuhiah voting TINUBU

Good luck to you with that.

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

WORDS OF A CHRONIC W@NKER

The same with me though. I have never liked any lady beyond superficial attraction.
Ultimately, how do you get guys you are attracted to to be first attracted to you effortlessly? I guess you are comely, intelligent, independent and not snubbing?

ibkayee:

Well I’ve found people attractive but didn’t necessarily want anything with them, there are lots of attractive people in the world, you can’t get with all of them lol

As luck would have it however, all the guys I’ve wanted something serious with reciprocated the crush or liked me first. To be fair I haven’t really liked that many guys ‘seriously’ beyond a superficial attraction

The thing is most young dudes who want to get a gyal.. Makes it so obvious that this is their first time.. Itz gonn be a turn off (depending how classy she is anyway)

The beginning of the F - UP. Especially if she noticed dat..

Just act normal with 2 to 3 formats.. Any one dat suddenly comes up.. Act on dat..

Example :Hello, greetings from me here.
Do u understand English or French which (if she gives an awkward look) smile to dat and say.. Cmon.. Was only kidding.

Xup, do u stay around here? I actually do.. Bla Bla Bla.

Example 2: straight talk.. Excuse me.. I'm actually a philantropist.. I do help people like I'm about to do now .. Do u wanna go take a bite somewhere with me.. Hahaha.. Cmon.. Just a joke.. But for real.. U busy with some kinda errand or something.. I'm actually going to take a bite down the street..

Wat u say... Itz dat simple man..

Glistinin:
The same with me though. I have never liked any lady beyond superficial attraction.
Ultimately, how do you get guys you are attracted to to be first attracted to you effortlessly? I guess you are comely, intelligent, independent and not snubbing?

Lol I don’t ‘get’ them to like me first per se, I guess they’re just attracted to something in me for whatever reason. I’m a nice person sha

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

how old are you?

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

You have a bigger problem than the guy you responded to.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

I've never asked a girl out meeting her for the first time...
What I do is get contact and build friendship first before asking her out
That way you must have known one or two things about her....
Don't toast a total stranger

Cool. Can I dm you?

ibkayee:

Lol I don’t ‘get’ them to like me first per se, I guess they’re just attracted to something in me for whatever reason. I’m a nice person sha

According to from my observation 80% of couples married today didn't toast(whoo) each other, something lead to the other and it turn to a relationship later marriage e.g church members,classmate, colleagues at work,they become familiar with each other already before relationship set in

Glistinin:
Cool. Can I dm you?

May I know what you want to dm me about? You can quote me in a less busy/dead thread

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

Are you referring to semen retention?

They just feel you may have nothing to offer. If you want to know what qualifies you to have a sexy girlfriend, ask my girlfriend on this forum, my lovely JennyClay. Her advice would go a long way if you have the financial capacity.

Iloveu778:
I'm more of an introvert, am always indoor most times I don't socialise much.

So over the years I discovered I don't really know how to talk to ladies at all, Infact I got scared when I see beautiful ladies for no reason.
So I decided to start socializing and start asking girls out.
The first one I asked out today, Just look me from down to top and hissed.
Am average looking though.
I felt bad smh, I just want to ask those who has been in the game for long how it is ?
Is that how girls behave ?

onyeego:
Many guys just like you don't know the power you possess as a man, since I discovered this power I hardly have erections....the female gender are so manipulative that they irritate me.

Tell me the power abeg I need am.

Oga toast another... Another and another one go enter for u... Whether they hissed or not keep toasting...

Oh. I will do that soon.

ibkayee:

May I know what you want to dm me about? You can quote me in a less busy/dead thread