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| Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Ajomulala: 8:26pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Pls dear nairalanders . My problem is very complicating. I am dalm very lonely indoor, though sometimes I tag myself an introvert but deep down I need people around me and I'm often very lonely. The reason why I use often is because sometimes my life will just be kind of busy in a kind of situation where I will have a lot of people around me (new people). Then other times I'm lonely again because all those people have left. why they left I won't know. Infact my relationship doesn't last, I'm not talking about girls, I am talking about all gender that comes into my life. I want to know, what exactly is my problem ? am I toxic ? I have been asking myself and trying to figure out .... I don't know why. For example if I meet someone newly, we might just vibe. Before you know it, they are gone. Though I'm not the type that forces relationship or friendship so sometimes I will just be wondering what exactly went wrong. Pls your sincere advice will be appreciated |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Dhanidhamy(m): 8:32pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
You've not found your person, when you do it will come naturally without you forcing vibes or trying to say something. |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Ajomulala: 8:33pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Why is no one advising me is my problem so hard to be addressed  |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Allison012: 8:37pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
OP, are you working? if no, go look for work. sometimes joblessness causes loneliness. Have experienced it before. Just any positive work. Am an introvert too. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Socratiz: 8:44pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
You need counseling from a professional |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Ajomulala: 8:48pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Socratiz: How do I get the this professional. By the way professional of what ? Pls I really need this . This matter is draining me mentally and making me depressed. If there is anyone I can talk to physically I will appreciate |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Moh247: 9:01pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
You need a girlfriend |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by JustANairlander(m): 9:27pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
How good do you relate online? |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by SuperOnyi: 9:38pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
 Hi Ajomolala! Although, your question is kind of complicated, I'll do my best to give you an answer since I can relate. First off, do you masturbate? Aww, that's a weird question. I felt like this, every single time, I break my PMO challenge. How often do you check out on these people, you claimed, come into your life and leave like it's some museum? Or do you just meet people for the first time and assume, they wanna be friends with you because you "vibe" with them? Are you searching for water in a desert? Listen, I often try to rationalize the actions of human beings so I believe people do things for some reasons; it might be weird, crazy or stupid — it's still a reason to them. People interact with others for a reason, maybe, these people, you meet were never there for the purpose of friendship. Remember, we all got different views or perspectives, your 6 could be my 9, your cat could be my pùssy. See! You might see, a good relationship or friendship as one where frequent calls, texts etc are involved and they might not. I'm like you, spend time indoor but it's quite disastrous, I don't feel sad or bad about this behavior. Yeah it is! You're lucky, you feel bad so, use those two legs and meet real people, go breathe some "Nigerian" air. Lastly, you're where you are, because you haven't fully discovered yourself (I can relate). Or maybe, just maybe, I mean maybe, you are who you are — your own problem. Embrace or work on it. Regards, Professor. 1 Like |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Socratiz: 9:52pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
[quote author=Ajomulala post=119909459] How do I get the this professional. By the way professional of what ? Pls I really need this . This matter is draining me mentally and making me depressed. If there is anyone I can talk to physically I will appreciate [/quote Send me a mail via socratiz@zohomail.com |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Prettygirl200(f): 10:01pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Ajomulala:Op get a job if u don't have any, and if you aren't into any relationship also get one. Sometimes all this small small drama's and childish behavior from women helps a lot |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Nobody: 10:03pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Ajomulala:  |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Nobody: 10:04pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Ajomulala: bro..the best thing u do is watch blue film, at least 3......this will giv u hope, confidense & swaaaga....then u will no longer be scared to chase women!!! ((TAHNK ME LATER)))  |
| Re: Please Does Everyone Hate Me? by Ajomulala: 10:20pm On Jan 10, 2023 |
Pls more advice should keep coming . SuperOnyi thanks for your contribution, I think I should sleep on what you said. Once again thanks so much 1 Like 1 Share |
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