But ma question is yet to be answered, i was asking if its possible to just date and marry within 3 months?

::Andrew:::
Just dont want to date who i wont marry

Dating is usually a prerequisite of marriage. You have to date to find the one you want to marry, unless you want an arranged marriage. No one can date for you and then give you the gal and tell you she's wife material lol. If you want to marry, be prepared to go fishing in the vast sea of women.

::Andrew:::
But ma question is yet to be answered, i was asking if its possible to just date and marry within 3 months?

It's possible but I wouldn't recommend it. Three months isn't enough time for me to know and understand someone with whom I am considering spending the rest of my life. Marriage is supposed to be till death. It's an investment. Take your time with it. If you don't have time to do the work before marriage, then don't consider getting married as you're setting yourself up for likely failure. That's my advice to you.

ogugua88:

Dating is usually a prerequisite of marriage. You have to date to find the one you want to marry, unless you want an arranged marriage. No one can date for you and then give you the gal and tell you she's wife material lol. If you want to marry, be prepared to go fishing in the vast sea of women.

It's possible but I wouldn't recommend it. Three months isn't enough time for me to know and understand someone with whom I am considering spending the rest of my life. Marriage is supposed to be till death. It's an investment. Take your time with it. If you don't have time to do the work before marriage, then don't consider getting married as you're setting yourself up for likely failure. That's my advice to you.

Thank you very much i appreciate.


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Reason: question Answered

OP Why such a rush to get married?? No time to date, so wait until you have the time and then start, Marriage is not something you want to go in blindly especially with such a rush for no apparent reason !

M M M:

op
give me d contract


i will P I M P alot of ladies 4 u

just 4 u 2 make a choice

HOW ABOUT I love-vendor YOU?!

NOW GO ON THE CORNER AND MAKE THAT PAPER! CHOP CHOP!

^^
Am dere now

Where re u

::Andrew:::

@MMM

KAI SEE WHERE your MIND DEY GO, IF I WANTED THAT I COULD JUST ADVERTISE LIKE THOSE TOM Joystick AND HARRIES.

Re u sure

Actually 3mnths is very ok to know smeone and get married to her. just dnt let her know marriage is your intention so u'll get to know the real her. But why do you have to come home to find a wife? if you must marry a Nigerian y dnt you go to Nigerian gatherings and get yourself a wifey.

^^^
He wants one that has not been teinted by the western world(he is in for a shock)

is all this stuff getting more difficult DESPITE the internet?

Mynd_44: ^^^
He wants one that has not been teinted by the western world(he is in for a shock)

... i beg to laugh.. oh Lord ...true words.

::Andrew:::
But ma question is yet to be answered, i was asking if its possible to just date and marry within 3 months?

Personally, this sounds like a recipe for disaster.
There has to be some contact, physical, over the phone, internet.

This is not say it can't happen and you guys go on to have a healthy marriage, but its often not the norm.
I'm concerned that you're in such a hurry, ...........
Marriage no be yam, or baby-producing factory either.

I wonder as to your complement of social skills
That's by the way.
Why can't you find a suitable lady in your domain that you can engage in a relationship, with the hopes of marriage?
I can concur if time restrictions due to work or other commitments are in effect... but do remember this may have a negative effect in your marriage.

Necessary ingredients will be
Deep investigation into each other's background
Laying bare to one another
Taking it a day at a time, though long term plans are for M!!

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