player007:


I invested in it too.lost 400k+.
Thank God I didn’t borrow money to invest.
If this issue pushes him to suicide, you will blame yourself for not helping.
Don’t jeopardize your work because of him.
Help him the little way you can.
Shalom ��

it's when the tides goes out you can see who has been swimming naked. Muumu man

BRATISLAVA:
He wants you to take a loan on behalf of he and his sharp tongued wife (according to you)?

How will you pay it back when he's satisfied his buddies in business? If he doesn't pay back, what happens to you? What do you think his wife would say?

Good questions to ask. If the op is wise he should know the right answer to these.

cc: kennybabs1980

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Another advice would be for them to start selling their belongings to raise at least 3 million including the glk.

kennybabs1980:
My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.

At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.

I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!

How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself?

The situation is hopeless, you LL get hurt standing for him in your cooperative. Allow him to learn from this foolish experience

OP try respond to ppl

Where is the land location?

How many plot ?

What are the estimated prices ?

Well I am interested, when you are ready you reply

kennybabs1980:
His wife's family no dey give shishi. To be fair to the wife's family, I heard that the father in law, a secondary school vice principal also warned them against those stupid investments which they didn't heed. Where will a school vice-principal whose salary is not been paid regularly get such money? The wife is seriously avoiding me now because of her past mischievous attitudes to me. Very arrogant girl.

Warn those disturbing you sternly. People should mind their business. You've done your best. It's not as if he'll learn a lesson if you help him.

He didn't learn a lesson from the car loan.

sisisioge:


Dont worry yourself too much. They are adults, they will find a way. Just continue to put them in your prayers and only do what is convenient for you to do. The problem isn't yours, it's entirely theirs.

Op dey try send them powerful prayer points...


Just tell them na ur own contribution wey u fit do.

Make them try observe theprayers at most 3hrs before them begin do morning runs.

kennybabs1980:
My younger brother (half brother) and his wife believes so much in online investments. I called him and advised him seriously against such phantom businesses last year July but he didn't take my advise. His wife even insulted me at a time because of the advise.

At that time he was into a particular one called Kala. He collected money from people to the tune of N9.6million in the name of trying to help them invest in Kala. The investment went under and he is now using family members to pressurize me to assist him especially to secure a loan from a particular coop society I belong to so that he can pay off four of the people he help to invest who are seriously troubling his life with police and thugs.

I am not willing to do this under any condition. I have told him to sell off our late dad's landed property if he can get a buyer but people are offering peanuts and two of our sisters (his own full sibs) are insisting on getting their own share immediately it is sold, one even said she didn't send him on online investment. If he can get buyer for the property, I can help talk to our other siblings but these two, no way!

How can I help this stobborn brother without hurting myself?

Remind his wife about calling you an enemy of progress just because you were only trying to prevent the current mess they are in right now. Give them space and help from a distance.

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Oga face your family and your own personal problem. Shey they no dey hear word, them go learn the had way now.

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Guess the wife will be his downfall she's the extravagant tyep

riverbird:
Please help him if you have the resources, this days it takes nothing for someone to get killed over peanut

You must be father Abraham

Dshocker:


Una don come again.

OP is complaining about his brother, you here you are, with similar business, trying to rip people.

On the contrary, this New global reserve company is paying

If that your brother will learn, I guess this experience is meant to teach him the lesson he refused to learn long time again and to humble both himself and his wife.

My advice:
Please in all you do, don't abandon him. This is a very trying moment for him. Forget about his abusive wife, I am sure she is reeling in shame and trebling now.

Keep checking on him as I know he might go suicidal.

How do I know,I was once there.

I was very foolish to the point of investing all my salary month in month out on those useless PONZI schemes.
It was like the spirit e entered me just like a gambler. The moment I get any money I put it in one Ponzi or the other (MMM, TWINKAS, LOOPERS, MMMunited, wafo1, wafo2, Chicheno cooperatives, Swiss golden, and a whole lot I can't even remember) I know It must be UpTo about 100 different pomzi I partook of.
I lost quite a fortune.
I was battling for my life.
I got suicidal.
But thanks to God who used my darling wife to help me, not by giving me a dime but helping me maintain my sanity via moral support, home front management, me wey dey drop 100k fro chopping come dey drop 20-30k for about 2 years while the whole thing lasted.

Them I paid off the loan.

It was as if that was the factory brain resetting experience I needed.

Till date, when I hear of Ponzi or investment, I run like a mad man.
Even at that, I don't trust myself, so what I do per time is to find one good project to embark on. Because once spare money dey my account, I start thinking of investment. Which I know the outcome might not always be good.


So, that your brother will learn if he indeed is not sold out to the evil spirit behind this venture.

Once again, don't abandon him oh. Else hmmmmnn

Trust me, this is exactly what happens to most people we hear about commiting suicide.

I pray may God see him true.

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

Stay away and let him handle and sort out himself. People like your brother never learn. He is the greedy and arrogant type. Make sure he didn’t sell your father’s land to pay off his debt. Why would he do that? I’m sure he troubled your dad when he was alive, he never listened to your dad, why would your dad be cleaning his mess from the grave. Let your brother be a man and deal with his issues.

His wife insulted and asked you to mind your business. Mind your business…his wife has relatives that will help them.

Stop worrying yourself about him. Go to that landed property and put a ‘This land is NOT for sale’ sign.

You are baby sitting an adult. He will not learn anything by selling family property to bail himself out. Let him sell that GLK and his personal effects. That way, the loss of those things which are dear to him will teach him better.
As for that family property, everyone should share the proceeds. Anyone who wants to help him out of his or her own share should do so voluntarily.
If he sells family property now, what will he do in future? How about any sibling who may in future have issues? Won't that sibling feel cheated or entitled to selling another family property?
Your brother and his supportive wife should sort themselves out.
Don't even think of borrowing money to resolve this else it will be a constant reoccurrence.
Imagine! From car loan, to ponzi, to whatever new scheme they will come up with later. The wife is the one dreaming up all this nonsense.

People never learn. I was here years ago warning people about Ponzi schemes and the MMM. People abused me and all others trying to discourage others.

Let that brother deal with his issues.

faithfull18:

Full stop, it's even in the Bible, Proverbs to be precise, only a fool will do that, it's not trying to help, it's foolishness.

Give him anything you can help him with but don't over stretch yourself or stand as a guarantor for him

Kalamity Don set in

I warmed people about this Cala whatever, that company chop enough money here in Ph

He should jakpa.... Help him settle down somewhere far and settle the debts from there...

loucbou:


On the contrary, this New global reserve company is paying

Of course they all pay at the initial stage...

Help him with the one you have but never stand as shortee because he will pay for it. His wife that saw you as enemy of progress should look for a way to sort her family out.

KosiGee:
People never learn. I was here years ago warning people about Ponzi schemes and the MMM. People abused me and all others trying to discourage others.

Let that brother deal with his issues.

Too bad for them

superCleanworks:
Fly wey no dey hear word.

Go follow corpse enter grave....

Abi no be so?

kennybabs1980:

Thank you Bros, he's a very naughty guy and his wife is not helping matter. Always minding high things. This woman once pushed him to buy a Mercedes-Benz GLK on a long payment plan, they almost lost the car to the dealer when they were not paying regularly until my younger brother in Canada had to help him out. The boy in Canada is not even picking his calls nor replying his messages now. This guy has always been the most problematic member of our family.

He should sell the car to offset his gbese.

Mpcoll001:
which kain advice be this nítorí Ọlọhun

Ododo oro niyun o....

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Let him carry his cross by himself

kenedyx:
He has to learn how to handle his finances. Only experience can teach him so let him bear his cross. You can be there for him in other ways in terms of advice and other more critical needs.

Let everyone have their equal share from proceeds of the land sale. Then anyone who wants to can assist him.

Your bro still has a lot to learn in terms of accountability and you have to stop petting him. You don't take people's monies and play Ponzi with it.

"Let everyone have their equal share from proceeds of the land sale. Then anyone who wants to can assist him"

Bravo!

zedegit:


Another advice would be for them to start selling their belongings to raise at least 3 million including the glk.

kennybabs1980

Don't give him the above advice as he'll misunderstand you. He should advise himself by the time they knack him 2×2, the charm his wife used on him would clear from his eyes and he'll be delivered.

dayleke:


Go follow corpse enter grave....

Abi no be so?

100%

riverbird:
Please help him if you have the resources, this days it takes nothing for someone to get killed over peanut

help him after his wife insult him? The kind insult I go return for the wife before I help my brother (if I were op), the wife won't bother accept the help

UDOKABESTLUV:
Is Following The Thread

Nobody died yet....
And not really a tragic news/story.....
There still hope with d OP....

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