zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.
2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.
3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.
4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.
5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.
6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.
7 Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want
to hurt her.

zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

Goodlady:

When you become a single daddy, all women ll run from you.
Some of you boys here deserve to eat and drink sour!
What you can't take, you want girls to take it.
What's wrong with a single lady?
Incompetent boy!

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

Goodlady:

When you become a single daddy, all women ll run from you.
Some of you boys here deserve to eat and drink sour!
What you can't take, you want girls to take it.
What's wrong with a single lady?
Incompetent boy!

neonly:
Correction here are my own suggestions concerning single mums
They know how to treat a man (previous expirence)
They are very submissive
They don't toll with d new husband so that they won't be tag bad wife from previous relationship
Der kupus they get expirence
Not new to taking care of d house and children and how to manage d house
Most are slow to anger
Just depends on d individual
Etc
Single mother are not fat bad but is just d burden dat matters

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

Goodlady:

When you become a single daddy, all women ll run from you.
Some of you boys here deserve to eat and drink sour!
What you can't take, you want girls to take it.
What's wrong with a single lady?
Incompetent boy!

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

neonly:
Correction here are my own suggestions concerning single mums
They know how to treat a man (previous expirence)
They are very submissive
They don't toll with d new husband so that they won't be tag bad wife from previous relationship
Der kupus they get expirence
Not new to taking care of d house and children and how to manage d house
Most are slow to anger
Just depends on d individual
Etc
Single mother are not fat bad but is just d burden dat matters

zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.

2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.

3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.

4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.

5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.

6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.

7. Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

8 Sleepless Nights: Since you already know that you are building a house in the air, how can you sleep? The law of gravity would drag the house down, it's just a matter of time. The uncertainty when it would be is enough to give you a nights.

9. Jealousy and Competition: When you eventually have your own children with, as the children gets older, there's likely going to be that jealousy and competition between them as each of them jostles for attention and dominance. This could affect your relationship with your wife if unchecked.

10. Reduced Self Esteem: You will feel inadequate knowing that you are marrying another man's leftover (apologies) but that's what it is. You'll feel people are gossipping about you whether true or not. That can make your ego as a man to suffer.

zedegit:
Well, in recent times there has been an increase in the number of single mums in the society who are looking for "kind men" to look their way.
I must say I find some of them attractive. Here are reasons why men find it difficult settling down with them despite the attraction.

1 They bring liability: Some of these ladies have 1- 5 children. Since the economy is bad, it would be difficult to fend for the extra mouths she's bringing.

2. Infidelity: She already has children which she had with someone else. It would be silly for you to accuse her of cheating since you already accepted another man's child.

3. Inconvenience: As a newly married couple for the first 1-2 years or more in case of delayed conception, you have the house to yourselves and can even walk around/play naked but this would be difficult as her child would be a distraction.

4. Impotent stigma: In case of delayed pregnancy after the wedding, you as the man would be blamed as being impotent. Why not since she has already proved herself as fertile by conceiving already.

5: Ex Interference: Don't suppose that she's done with the father of her children even if she tells you so because Okafor's law is still valid. She can go back to him anytime to either collect one round or money as the guy still knows her mumu botton.

6: Misunderstanding: You can't even interfere, correct or send her children on errand without her seeing it that you hate her children. You will have a lot to prove that you don't do otherwise.

7. Wasted Effort: The children could go back to their real father no matter how many millions you spent in their upkeep. Your wife can equally go back to her ex. because deep inside her, she still loves him.

8 Sleepless Nights: Since you already know that you are building a house in the air, how can you sleep? The law of gravity would drag the house down, it's just a matter of time. The uncertainty when it would be is enough to give you a nights.

9. Jealousy and Competition: When you eventually have your own children with, as the children gets older, there's likely going to be that jealousy and competition between them as each of them jostles for attention and dominance. This could affect your relationship with your wife if unchecked.

10. Reduced Self Esteem: You will feel inadequate knowing that you are marrying another man's leftover (apologies) but that's what it is. You'll feel people are gossipping about you whether true or not. That can make your ego as a man to suffer.

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.

Judybash93:


No. It's not the same thing. As a single father, one wouldn't except the woman to carry any form of responsibility on the child he is bringing in.
A woman would bring another man's child into a new relationship and expect the new guy to carry some responsible especially when the father of the child isn't in the child's life.

Goodlady:

It depends on the settings. The woman can decide to put the kids with relations like granny. Such child may be visiting only on holidays.

Pierocash:
I have one in my life right now. Very caring,loving, and beautiful too.


The only reason I find it hard to propose marriage to her is just because she is a single mum of a 4 yr old boy. If not,she is everything a man needs in a woman.

I don't want to marry her,but dumping her is such a difficult thing to do because I don't want to hurt her.