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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Titan12(m): 3:07pm On Jan 18, 2023
Ha!! Kenya
That Kenya wey be say na lesbo full there lol �
She is probably doing kabbali on herself.
Hence she doesn’t need him anymore
Well it happens after a while house wives tend to lose physical attraction, the man just have to start acting the same way he was, when he met her!! To bring the spark back again I mean take her out, everything is not sex �
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by BusinessPlan22: 3:08pm On Jan 18, 2023
bonechamberlain:
angry
I don't understand what he meant by "ask". I believe you "initiate" sex with a partner. It's prostitutes or hookers you ask for sex.

How can I ask my wife for sex, initiate sex through cuddling, kissing, pre-intimacy etc if she doesn't want sex she wouldn't allow you touch her even if she does allow you, you would sense from her response that she isn't interested. That is where the wahala begins and can be resolved through sincere and open communication.

When they tell people to date before marriage, at least 6 months, understand yourselves first. You here people saying I don't believe in dating . This is the result.


Relax, I ask my wife for it, anytime and she gives me... Which kind initiate, this happens but not all the time, she also ask me for it, like babe, don't waste this erection make I sit down put abeg, I need am, this is during early Morning boning, and I don't even want to have sex, but I still give her Joyfully.... We are one and we understand ourselves.

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Banbanna(m): 3:09pm On Jan 18, 2023
Guy, you no dey tire for this your virginity sermons. If deflowering women is a job, you'd probably be one big Oga by now. No be everybody like virgins, you hear. It's like every virginity word search on NL pops up your moniker. You don turn notorious on top the matter smiley
jeromestarks:
1. Women can't do without sex for long especially when they have tasted the Diick.

2. She's giving somebody somewhere and that guy is digging her so hard that she has no orgasm left for her husband.

3. He didn't disvirgin her that's why he's having this problem.


Once you did not marry a virgin woman or a woman whom you disvirgined, you're bound to regret your marriage.

Don't pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact by guys who didn't pay anything except two eggs and indomie.
Only a fool would do that. Are you the fool?

Do not commit to a woman who gave her best (virginity) to another who didn't even know her parents.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry a woman you did not disvirgin. Cus she will compare you with her ex and this will make her to start misbehaving. Thus, you're already in a competition you did not sign up for.
Once she's not a virgin, Just fvck and let others fvck.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman. BETTER TO SUFFER to find a virgin and have a long lasting happy home than to marry one of the readily available girls and suffer in your marriage.

( If you don't want your daughters to Open legs for men because of iphone, marry a virgin. Girls are a copy of their mothers).

Once you commit to a non virgin, YOURE commiDEAD!


Be wise.

Sex is not food : it is more than FOOD!


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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Starboytwo(m): 3:10pm On Jan 18, 2023
Look for another woman, no time.

Who get time to Dey ask?

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Mr5050(m): 3:24pm On Jan 18, 2023
Weak men annoys mua walai, go out there go and look for a fresh young lady carry her come house use hold body, if e pain her, send her back to her father's house, remarry. Can't imagine me begging for my right, chukwu aju.

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by LOVEGINO(m): 3:25pm On Jan 18, 2023
EBMedia:
A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.


https://m./2443977612304623/permalink/5840170002685350/

See his post and replies below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1437005/wife-pretends-sick-whenever-ask-s3x-man-laments/
all simps should be arrested
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by merits(m): 3:28pm On Jan 18, 2023
EBMedia:
A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.


https://m./2443977612304623/permalink/5840170002685350/

See his post and replies below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1437005/wife-pretends-sick-whenever-ask-s3x-man-laments/

Hussle more bro,use your money to chop life, hang out with friends and knack hook up girls Wella.Forget anything tied down pussy called wife

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Kavod: 3:34pm On Jan 18, 2023
Chee59:
Wise advise. Now wait for alpha male to drop quote.
THERE IS NOTHING LIKE ALPHA MALE..... YOU MEAN PEOPLE WITH DIVERSE NATURES WHO HAVE ENCOUNTERED SUCH SITUATIONS IN BOTH MARRIED AND SINGLE SCENERIO. SAME PEOPLE WHO GOT THE CARROT AND THE STICK.
YOU KNOW WHAT I HATE MOST? PEOPLE WHO WANT TO CONTRIBUTE AND THEY NEITHER GOT THE CARROT NOR STICK.
ALPHA MALE NI APLHA MALE KOR SAME WITH MARRIED NI SINGLE KOR.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by fuck419: 3:47pm On Jan 18, 2023
Discuss it with her.
You guys can come up with a sex time table.
Ensure to indicate locations and positions for each meeting.

Maintain this practice for three months, minimum of 3x a week.

Try locations outside home, like good hotels and possibly travel out of the State or Country just to have time together.

After 3 months and she doesn't naturally ask for it, then consider getting a second wife.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by shiwex: 3:54pm On Jan 18, 2023
most marriages aRE sexless...guys wont just say....And if there is sex...it is boring.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by godofuck231: 3:56pm On Jan 18, 2023
Side chic to the rescue, baywatch style
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Coronavirus1: 3:57pm On Jan 18, 2023
She is cheating on you
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Edusouls(m): 3:58pm On Jan 18, 2023
jeromestarks:
1. Women can't do without sex for long especially when they have tasted the Diick.

2. She's giving somebody somewhere and that guy is digging her so hard that she has no orgasm left for her husband.

3. He didn't disvirgin her that's why he's having this problem.


Once you did not marry a virgin woman or a woman whom you disvirgined, you're bound to regret your marriage.

Don't pay bride price, sponsor wedding ceremony and take care of in-laws just to have a woman who was fvcked when she was intact by guys who didn't pay anything except two eggs and indomie.
Only a fool would do that. Are you the fool?

Do not commit to a woman who gave her best (virginity) to another who didn't even know her parents.

A woman you did not disvirgin will fvck her ex the moment he shows up to her on Facebook or in the market. Never marry a woman you did not disvirgin. Cus she will compare you with her ex and this will make her to start misbehaving. Thus, you're already in a competition you did not sign up for.
Once she's not a virgin, Just fvck and let others fvck.

Fvck any girl you want but when it comes to marriage, take the pains to find a virgin woman. BETTER TO SUFFER to find a virgin and have a long lasting happy home than to marry one of the readily available girls and suffer in your marriage.

( If you don't want your daughters to Open legs for men because of iphone, marry a virgin. Girls are a copy of their mothers).

Once you commit to a non virgin, YOURE commiDEAD!


Be wise.

Sex is not food : it is more than FOOD!
( See a woman's confession of how sex is more than food
https://www.nairaland.com/7529788/prefer-x-much-prefer-it#120155039)

shut up ur still a small boy without brains , talking trash, u think life ends in virginity, hope ur sisters are virgins too because if not ur shame doubles, because they too would Bleep their ex once they show up on Facebook or in the market, this nairaland self
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by 00FFT00(m): 4:01pm On Jan 18, 2023
Commence divorce proceedings. ONLY reverse that process:

if;
She clearly demonstrates in the presence of her people that she has repented of her wickedness and is now willing to become the wife you
married.

else if;
Carry through with that divorce and learn lessons from it. Life, no suppose hard. Not inside your own house abeg.


Nb: coders will understand the above statement wink.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by brain54(m): 4:03pm On Jan 18, 2023
Some women are frigid…

They just don’t like sex. Some are even scared of sex and it doesn’t necessarily conclude she is having sex with someone else or that the man is a terrible love maker.

This is one reason I feel partners should have sex before marriage.

I can’t come and marry someone with less or more capacity than I have then I come Dey complain upandan.

We must match sexually as well!
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Exceed15: 4:05pm On Jan 18, 2023
Also pretend to be broke when she asks for money.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by koyyess: 4:09pm On Jan 18, 2023
Negroes are failing at everything.

This one can't even attract his own wife.

Sad.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by cococandy(f): 4:11pm On Jan 18, 2023
DMerciful:
Divorce her if she's running away from her conjugal duties or marry two more wives!


Legal conjugal. Where’s the romance?
No wonder y’all wives don’t wanna fvck y’all. Cos who’s doing legal conjugal in the bedroom? undecided
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by DMerciful(m): 4:18pm On Jan 18, 2023
A woman can initiate romance, can't she?
cococandy:


Legal conjugal. Where’s the romance?
No wonder y’all wives don’t wanna fvck y’all. Cos who’s doing legal conjugal in the bedroom? undecided
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by reddingtonblack: 4:28pm On Jan 18, 2023
Buy are drugs everytime she feign sick an insist it either she uses it or pack out.

Tell her you don't mind the sex as long as she take her drug in your presence, one day miracle will happen she will recover grin
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by sukkot: 4:37pm On Jan 18, 2023
most of you guys get it wrong when you think marriage is about sex. listen you are never going to sexually satisfy the same person forever. who wants to eat jollof rice everyday ? maybe he does but she doesnt and maybe she does but he doesnt. what if the jollof rice turns to ofada ? will you still like it ? ( aka someone gain fifty pounds etc) . if what you are looking for is sex you should not get married. you will be frustrated
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by cococandy(f): 4:40pm On Jan 18, 2023
DMerciful:
A woman can initiate romance, can't she?
most definitely. But even if I were a man, I wouldn’t be having obligatory sex. It needs to be enjoyable for both

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by pansophist(m): 4:48pm On Jan 18, 2023
All those men giving foolish advice. What nonsense. This would be my advice.

1. Are you fat? Try reduce your pot belly and look healthy, so you'll be attractive. It's hard to say no to an attractive partner because her body will demand to be nacked to stupour.

2. Did she settle for you? Whether we like it or not, monogamy is how low quality men can privatise a woman's body and secure sexual exclusivity.

If you're not her first choice or best option, then sex will be manual not automatic, it would be like a chore not something she desire.

3. Do you burden her with financial burden of life? Any man that wants submission and respect from him family/wife must come to terms with the fact that you do not share bills with her. It's an instant libido killer. Let her contribute on her own, but not forced.

4. Can she smell fish on you? Meaning, does she knows for sure that you still have your hook, net, crayfish and tools that attracts other fish? Women don't want men that other women doesn't want.

She needs to see that women out there wants you, and that your loyalty to her is a choice, not due to lack of options. That's the point of polygamy, it destroys sexual monopoly or one woman using sex as a weapon.

If you're honest with yourself, you'll see the problem in any of the number above. Most problems in relationship are foundational, and you avoid them before, not inside the relationship.

Women love sex, and if they are not giving to you from coast to coast, then you're simply not their first choice. It's sad to know, but the truth will set you free. Next time, marry woman that chooses you, that desires you, and can't wait to finish work and fork you to death.

You don't convince or logically argue your way into a woman's heart, telling her how you'll love and treat her like no other, that's Hollywood nonsense. It works if she already chooses you.

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by jaafree: 4:51pm On Jan 18, 2023
This guy is probably the type that normally come and just say, oya open your leg, he knack for 2-3min and just go. No pre-intimacy, nothing. undecided
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Sirabubakar7: 4:51pm On Jan 18, 2023
Another man dey knack for your back. grin
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by AZControversial(m): 4:52pm On Jan 18, 2023
MissTemi1:
Lmao. Encouraging a man to commit adultery because of another person. Let’s say he dies after dat day, he will tell God his wife pushed him to hell? Or let’s say the side chick is possessed or has her own hidden plan, that is how she will trap him n finish him. Seems u dunno the gals outside there now bath with kayamata

Sure they bath with kayamata.... but it hasn't stopped some guys.
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by deebrownneymar: 5:00pm On Jan 18, 2023
EBMedia:
A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.


https://m./2443977612304623/permalink/5840170002685350/

See his post and replies below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1437005/wife-pretends-sick-whenever-ask-s3x-man-laments/

Maybe one local guy is doing it on your behalf
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by DMerciful(m): 5:16pm On Jan 18, 2023
You're not a man so you'll never understand!

Men sex drive is driven by urge just like someone appetite thats driven by hunger. Most women sex drive however is like someone eating because its important to eat but not because of hunger. See the difference?

Have you wondered why men cum all the time even when they have zero feeling for the woman they're sleeping with?
cococandy:
most definitely. But even if I were a man, I wouldn’t be having obligatory sex. It needs to be enjoyable for both

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by DMerciful(m): 5:18pm On Jan 18, 2023
As a woman, whats the frequency of having sex?
cococandy:
most definitely. But even if I were a man, I wouldn’t be having obligatory sex. It needs to be enjoyable for both
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Advancedman(m): 5:19pm On Jan 18, 2023
EBMedia:
A Kenyan man, James Jkorir, has said that he regrets marrying his wife because she always pretends to be sick whenever he wants to have sex with her, IGBERETV reports.


https://m./2443977612304623/permalink/5840170002685350/

What about your maid pretend she is your super healthy super sexy wife too.
That's equilibrium LOL.
See his post and replies below.

https://igberetvnews.com/1437005/wife-pretends-sick-whenever-ask-s3x-man-laments/
Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Zionman24: 5:27pm On Jan 18, 2023
Concerning this matter, if you're not married, you don't have the moral obligation to comment or advice. Having said that, this is a mental issue that requires medical attentions. Science has it that certain individual's male or female tend to lose interest in sex after a certain age or circumstances and has absolutely nothing to do with action of their partner.
And equally has nothing to do with whether or not that partner is cheating. Science stipulated certain issues that might be the reasons for these kinds of absentness. 1. Childbearing. 2. Stress from Childbearing's and marriage activities. 3. being overwhelmed and disappointments of married life. And a whole host of other things. This has nothing to do with husbands' actions that will require him to apologize. However, it requires that they both seek marriage canceling and also consult their primary Doctor for a recommendation to a specialist. This is very common in every marriage including in the western world where the man and wife works very hard and still have to come back home and take care of kids. In certain cases, the Femals develops post pardon syndromes and bipolar. While the Man result to alcoholism and suicidals. What they need is to seek help beginning from their Doctor and also their spiritual leaders not Apologizing.
So, if you don't know what to say on this subject, just be silent.

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Re: My Wife Pretends To Be Sick Whenever I Ask For Sex - Man Laments by Kingluqman(m): 5:43pm On Jan 18, 2023
When she ask of money, pretend to be broke grin

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