Am lost and in pains,my boyfriend of three years is hurting me ,he doesn't want me to leave the relationship,yet he is maltreating me,I left over a year now but I don't kwn why I keep running bck when we chat,I sometimes feel it's pity,sometimes I feel it's the love for his family that's still making me talk to him,I need help please

ouchposh:
Am lost and in pains,my boyfriend of three years is hurting me ,he doesn't want me to leave the relationship,yet he is maltreating me,I left over a year now but I don't kwn why I keep running bck when we chat,I sometimes feel it's pity,sometimes I feel it's the love for his family that's still making me talk to him,I need help please

ouchposh:
Am lost and in pains,my boyfriend of three years is hurting me ,he doesn't want me to leave the relationship,yet he is maltreating me,I left over a year now but I don't kwn why I keep running bck when we chat,I sometimes feel it's pity,sometimes I feel it's the love for his family that's still making me talk to him,I need help please

Let him get losst coz HE STEWWWPID & foooolish boy... i have a great idea & THE BEST IDEA thou...lets quickly sleep together so we can get him jelos so he can want u back.....U WILL NOT REGRET THIS MOVE, I SWAAAAAR. U WANT?

ouchposh:
Am lost and in pains,my boyfriend of three years is hurting me ,he doesn't want me to leave the relationship,yet he is maltreating me,I left over a year now but I don't kwn why I keep running bck when we chat,I sometimes feel it's pity,sometimes I feel it's the love for his family that's still making me talk to him,I need help please

Moving on is not a DAY'S feat.
You have to forgive him, forgive yourself... and take time to HEAL.

Now, HEALING is the tough job. Since you won't be marrying him, your going back everytime is only going to recycle pain in your life.... also YOU MAY BE GOING BACK BECAUSE HE HAS BECOME YOUR ADDICTION, YOUR BAD HABIT.... You need to outgrow him, get yourself occupied and busy enough with progressive thing, change your number... mute his status or block him... then start getting yourself busy with NEW PEOPLE AND MORE HEALTHY ACTIVITIES AND CONVERSATIONS.... if these are done right... in 21 to 40 days.... YOUR LIFE WILL BE FULLY DETACHED FROM HIM.

Its well, stay strong