Hotie Tima:

well i don't go for that idea now renting a flat that's even worse to me i swear

coz that time of life when things get out of control u need your parents to be there, that's y they are called parent's for a reason. coz no matter where in life we go we will some how always need they help, even if it's mean coming form your marriage home to feel at home.

but thanks for your answer tho

Theblessed:

[size=16pt] Marriage suppose to be full of joy, love and affection and not, battlefield of any kind.  

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nassiwa:

I would go back to my parents' home with no second thought in case of any Fight With my Husband.i dont see anything wrong with it. i would not mind about whatever people say If my parents are ready to welcome me.

baslone:

It's not even about you! It's suppose to be an embarrassment to your folks!

Esp, when your husband catches you and your boyfriend red handed playing Ludo

on his marital bed! Raise your head, go home then you can explain to your neighbors,

childhood friends and your parents's visitors the reason why you are back to their house

watching Kanayo O Kanayo on their TV after two kids!

Theblessed:

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Marriage suppose to be full of joy, love and affection and not, battlefield of any kind.  And when it becomes a constant battlefield, love is out of the window as damage, had already been done! Only sorry for the victims - the kids.

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dayokanu:

To go do wetin for her Papa house?

ronkebp:

i do not see anything wrong in it. the only problem is the embarrassment that follows it and small! small!! insults that will climb on it, and i see that as the level of our (naija) illitercay.

blackpanda:

i was very interested when i read this blog because i am currently doing a research on women's rights in africa.
In my humble view, i believe one of the chief reasons why women can not go back to their parents houses, and also why the parents are often unwilling to accept the daughtser, stems from the issue of payment of bride price.

heryyy:

Who the hellll told you marriage is all about joy and love ? why did u agreed to say u will be the for better for worse ? please wake up,

Becalm:

A girl cannot return to her parent's house because it's no longer her home. Her home is with her husband cos they are now one in body and spirit. She ought to stay back and defend her home. Whose home shall a man run to if she has a wife who nags him to death or is determined to end his life (there are such women though few in number). Is it not funny if such a man returns to his father's house. Some persons on this forum will call him useless man. Every problem has a solution only if you are determined to solve it. [size=14pt]God has given a woman plenty of powers to control a man and the home. These powers are manipultive in nature. Through submission and tenderness a woman can soften a man, manipulate and control him like toy cars.[/size] She can even deal with him at the appropriate time if she does not wish to forgive. [size=14pt]In our time, women prefer the powers given to men, they prefer physical confrontations forgetting men are often physically inclined creating more problems rather than solutions. Until women view gender equality in its right perspective, and realize that their God given powers are much superior to men's power which makes them the home makers and home builders, there shall be less conflicts in the home, less divorce rates, stable marriages  and definitely no need to go back to parents homes.[/size]

blacklion:

Whoever told you that one has deceived you, please ask for refund of your money

Any grown azz woman who truly believes that stuff up there is a divorcee-in-waiting

[size=16pt]And what's wrong with being a divorcee-in-waiting?

That's even better than the dog fights, some experience in their so call marriages.   

Women are not scared of divorce - men are, and that's why they are always the first to hook up when it happens.
In fact, its FREEDOM!  Nobody would query where you've been or what you've done!

You're your own BOSS, right?  And who would say no to being BOSS, only a fool? 


That aside, but who say marriage hasn't got it's own woes? 

You see, there's an error in your thinking!  Because, one chose not to include all issues in marriage in his/her writing, does'nt mean they do not exist, ok?

It would be nice you learn to think logically, before challenging other peoples ideas/views, that way, you perceive things broadly.

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