Hey guys! First time posting personal stuff here even though I do follow the Romance section.

There's this girl I met not quite long and honestly I just wanted to just chop and go, but along the line she started asking me personal questions and wanted to know just everything about me. She was even giving assumptions about if she were my gf and talking about my characters she wouldn't put up with.


Along the line we had an intense moment (I kissed her), and only for her to say that she wouldn't talk to me again that she had a boyfriend and bla bla bla on WhatsApp. I actually apologized on WhatsApp that if what I did made her angry and I neither talked nor chatted her again for sometime.

Like some days later, she asked about me from my friend and we started talking again but we didn't really have that time to see till yesterday. Yesterday when I saw her, I just told her plainly that I want her but she just equated it to sex even though that wasn't what was on my mind, I just told her there's nothing wrong if it's what she's thinking (and should I say that she's basically the one that likes sexualizing our conversations. I was actually the one at first but she was saying that I'm making her feel bad). To cut the story short, she just rejected me and was giving me stupid reasons. I still kept my cool (we were taking a walk) till she said one rubbish I can't remember again. There I just told her I'll just leave her and go on my own and she was like if I leave then many more will come, it was disrespect to me so I just left her and went away. When I got home, she sent me a message to initiate a conversation which I'm actually not ready for.
What should I do and what does she want?

😂😂😂where all this small small yaro they always come from. Nairaland is gone. Honestly I don’t know what to advice you and your baby crush😂

You are not man enough.

I once met a girl like that in my church she was a new member since when she came she has been showing me green light so one day we met in disney park we talked and later kissed...we kept meeting each day and kissing and behaving like we were dating only for me to ask her out on monday and she said she has a bf i then asked why the numerous kisses and love messages she just said she wanted me for now because her bf is in another state and comes once in a while...op use 24 hours to fear who no fear women

Just leave the girl and move on.
Simple!!
Na your attention she dey look for, just block her and rest.

No one can understand a woman. Op, don't stress yourself on things you can't change. Me, as a woman i no fit understand my fellow woman and who are you? Chaii..

What U Should Do Right Now Is Go Home And Take A Chill Cold Water And Bath And Drink Enough And Go To Sleep And Discuss About Jesus, happy New Month

Shalommy:
No one can understand a woman. Op, don't stress yourself on things you can't change. Me, as a woman i no fit understand my fellow woman and who are you? Chaii..

for This Talk Ehh i Don Ready To Love U

Yawn...

Nawa o
Woman mata again, maybe siofra or jennyclay or goodlady go advise you.

Bc na so so woman matter una sabi talk for this forum. I don cum short of advice.

Eyinju112:
😂😂😂where all this small small yaro they always come from. Nairaland is gone. Honestly I don’t know what to advice you and your baby crush😂

Ugly goat
U will remain single doing hookup forever

Dem don use you pass time

joshua094:
To cut the story short, she just rejected me and was giving me stupid reasons. I still kept my cool (we were taking a walk) till she said one rubbish I can't remember again. There I just told her I'll just leave her and go on my own and she was like if I leave then many more will come, it was disrespect to me so I just left her and went away. When I got home, she sent me a message to initiate a conversation which I'm actually not ready for.
What should I do and what does she want?

You spoiled it by asking for sex too early. Cos some did it before doesn't mean she's like that. You guys are the one that ll be running mouth like tap to say rubbish snout females forgetting you v mothers n sisters too.
Anyways, what's happening is infatuation (moment of feeling in love or liking someone and later feeling like the person no worth am).
Keep being friends and you two may click.
We just want to be alone a times and that's when you guys show up with your dic k hanging. Life isn't about sex alone!

She wants to Bleep. The next time you chat, tell her to come to your house.

joshua094:
Hey guys! First time posting personal stuff here even though I do follow the Romance section.

There's this girl I met not quite long and honestly I just wanted to just chop and go, but along the line she started asking me personal questions and wanted to know just everything about me. She was even giving assumptions about if she were my gf and talking about my characters she wouldn't put up with.


Along the line we had an intense moment (I kissed her), and only for her to say that she wouldn't talk to me again that she had a boyfriend and bla bla bla on WhatsApp. I actually apologized on WhatsApp that if what I did made her angry and I neither talked nor chatted her again for sometime.

Like some days later, she asked about me from my friend and we started talking again but we didn't really have that time to see till yesterday. Yesterday when I saw her, I just told her plainly that I want her but she just equated it to sex even though that wasn't what was on my mind, I just told her there's nothing wrong if it's what she's thinking (and should I say that she's basically the one that likes sexualizing our conversations. I was actually the one at first but she was saying that I'm making her feel bad). To cut the story short, she just rejected me and was giving me stupid reasons. I still kept my cool (we were taking a walk) till she said one rubbish I can't remember again. There I just told her I'll just leave her and go on my own and she was like if I leave then many more will come, it was disrespect to me so I just left her and went away. When I got home, she sent me a message to initiate a conversation which I'm actually not ready for.
What should I do and what does she want?

Why you guys all come here to cry about women.
And na una go dey form hard guys

Nairaland is fast losing its touch..I have asked for kids section.

joshua094:
Hey guys! First time posting personal stuff here even though I do follow the Romance section.

There's this girl I met not quite long and honestly I just wanted to just chop and go, but along the line she started asking me personal questions and wanted to know just everything about me. She was even giving assumptions about if she were my gf and talking about my characters she wouldn't put up with.


Along the line we had an intense moment (I kissed her), and only for her to say that she wouldn't talk to me again that she had a boyfriend and bla bla bla on WhatsApp. I actually apologized on WhatsApp that if what I did made her angry and I neither talked nor chatted her again for sometime.

Like some days later, she asked about me from my friend and we started talking again but we didn't really have that time to see till yesterday. Yesterday when I saw her, I just told her plainly that I want her but she just equated it to sex even though that wasn't what was on my mind, I just told her there's nothing wrong if it's what she's thinking (and should I say that she's basically the one that likes sexualizing our conversations. I was actually the one at first but she was saying that I'm making her feel bad). To cut the story short, she just rejected me and was giving me stupid reasons. I still kept my cool (we were taking a walk) till she said one rubbish I can't remember again. There I just told her I'll just leave her and go on my own and she was like if I leave then many more will come, it was disrespect to me so I just left her and went away. When I got home, she sent me a message to initiate a conversation which I'm actually not ready for.
What should I do and what does she want?

if I were you.. I'd just go with the flow .. when you two start fvcking .. she'd be the one asking what are we??

Prettygirl200:
Bc na so so woman matter una sabi talk for this forum. I don cum short of advice.

are you sure ??


I feel you should keep jizzing more advice

Shoodboi:
She wants to Bleep. The next time you chat, tell her to come to your house.

and she doesn't want no strings attached...

Silentgroper:
are you sure ??


I feel you should keep jizzing more advice

jizzing more advice for what Exactly? Pls leave me alone.

😁😁😁 thanks man

Silentgroper:
.

.damn!!!



You a vibe 🤛🤛🤛

Silentgroper:
and she doesn't want no strings attached...

You sabi. You know as e dey go

Prettygirl200:
jizzing more advice for what Exactly? Pls leave me alone.

I ain't holding you .. ma'am .

Shoodboi:


You sabi. You know as e dey go

As e dey be na ... 😁😁😁😁





Badt guy...

Please, don't think because you understand English you can come here and write every rubbish that happens between you and you fellow kids

ya b"ness

Silentgroper:



I ain't holding you .. ma'am .

Go and hold urself

Eyinju112:
😂😂😂where all this small small yaro they always come from. Nairaland is gone. Honestly I don’t know what to advice you and your baby crush😂

The yaro is better than your senior bro o