I'm sure, you'll start with: why this topic?

It is because I had a patient who went into depression on account such. She nearly killed herself but for my intervention.

Watch this video:

This should be how to break up with someone.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rTZQbBClOJI

Odoctor you are truly saving lives

BUT the problem here, why should I consider the health of a serial cheat and liar?

Asking her makes her defensive till pregnancy shows, meanwhile I have had proof for 5 months of her several sex partners, hence I stay away from her sexually but provide her needs and show safe love.... yet she is a pathological liar, she believes she is good at the game of fooling me... meanwhile I was only being considerate and forgiving because at that time I was a mumu....

so you are saying I shouldn't break up with her instantly?

NO WAY O... if she wants to end it all, that's her choice.


So how do I get treated for my own mental health that has been damaged by cheaters and liars....

yrhuhfy113:
Odoctor you are truly saving lives

BUT the problem here, why should I consider the health of a serial cheat and liar?

Asking her makes her defensive till pregnancy shows, meanwhile I have had proof for 5 months of her several sex partners, hence I stay away from her sexually but provide her needs and show safe love.... yet she is a pathological liar, she believes she is good at the game of fooling me... meanwhile I was only being considerate and forgiving because at that time I was a mumu....

so you are saying I shouldn't break up with her instantly?

NO WAY O... if she wants to end it all, that's her choice.


So how do I get treated for my own mental health that has been damaged by cheaters and liars....

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Thank you dear.

I understand. Even me too, I'm also a victim of heartbreak 💔 currently 😭.... Honestly, sometimes it is not deserving, but what do we do? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Just let her know that you are not being fooled , but you are rather being merciful.
May God help us.

Odoctor:
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Thank you dear.

I understand. Even me too, I'm also a victim of heartbreak 💔 currently 😭.... Honestly, sometimes it is not deserving, but what do we do? Shall we continue in sin that grace may abound? Just let her know that you are not being fooled , but you are rather being merciful.
May God help us.

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Thank you sir for replying....

My issue is.... MANY OF US MEN ARE NOT OKAY... because we have been unfairly HURT AND DAMAGED by woke women.

I confronted her... and GUESS WHAT... she plamed me oh... she said I was always correcting her SIMPLE MISTAKES(sleeping with another man and lying to my face about it, is no mistakes)

That I don't trust her that's why she boldly cheats....

I was broken... I was too shocked to reply. But this is NIGERIA, there is no therapy or psychologist to get help from... NOW I left her... how do I trust of even believe the NEXT lady.

MEN really need help but unfortunately ONLY WOMEN AND CHILDREN are sympathized with unconditionally in this country.

yrhuhfy113:

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Thank you sir for replying....

My issue is.... MANY OF US MEN ARE NOT OKAY... because we have been unfairly HURT AND DAMAGED by woke women.

I confronted her... and GUESS WHAT... she plamed me oh... she said I was always correcting her SIMPLE MISTAKES(sleeping with another man and lying to my face about it, is no mistakes)

That I don't trust her that's why she boldly cheats....

I was broken... I was too shocked to reply. But this is NIGERIA, there is no therapy or psychologist to get help from... NOW I left her... how do I trust of even believe the NEXT lady.

MEN really need help but unfortunately ONLY WOMEN AND CHILDREN are sympathized with unconditionally in this country.

You are very right. Honestly, if all you said is true, I'd suggest you gradually withdraw. She may not even feel it since she possibly has other "dates".

My message is for those who are truly broken in heart on account relationships, and not cheats.