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You say you are antisocial. Perhaps that answers your questions. Nobody likes being around antisocial people, except the rich ones

bro im 21 yr old male the only time i can get girl is online. in real life i dont think i can get a wife

thesicilian:
You say you are antisocial. Perhaps that answers your questions. Nobody likes being around antisocial people, except the rich ones

How can I stop being antisocial? I'm awkward in public.

noobaland30:
bro im 21 yr old male the only time i can get girl is online. in real life i dont think i can get a wife

You're lucky you even get online.

Ati online, ati offline, awa o ri nkan nkan.

Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

This is not the time to look for unnecessary enjoyment..You just started paying your dues in life...pay the sacrifice needed to get ur good grades
..good grades can help u unlock some door when the time comes....this is the time to also pay the dues for discipline......u will need it in front...

Yeah.. friends make the atmosphere fun..make a few of them if u can... but u gotta learn to fly solo as well.....be happy on your own...

friends are just extra additions ....if u make the right ones they can help u up the ladder.... but if u need friends for party d enjoyment....nigga trust me...u are better without the distraction

Hmm you are not antisocial or should I say you where and trying to break free.

Cause from your text above you want to break free and socialize.

Force your self to do things you won't do normally, socialize more with both genders..

Or have a blunt from my chocoloco

siofra:
Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

Stepping out of one's comfort zone everyday, helps to conquer a whole lots of problems.

Cypress042:
Stepping out of one's comfort zone everyday, helps to conquer a whole lots of problems.

You're right!!

siofra:
Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

lol I am quiet but people consider me weird, crazy and not intelligent what should I do?

siofra:
Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

i am anti social and loving it..

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

This is so much power you’ve got in your hands bro…it’s a blessing. Start looking on the bright side and you’ll thank God in a few years!

Chocoloco:
Hmm you are not antisocial or should I say you where and trying to break free.

Cause from your text above you want to break free and socialize.

Force your self to do things you won't do normally, socialize more with both genders..

Or have a blunt from my chocoloco

when man roll tiny blunt I ask questions…

Brodahh na kolos be dat?

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

You are in school already
It gives you the chance to meet people both the good and the bad

It gives you the opportunity to have friends both male and female girl friend

Mix up with people so that you get exposed when you go home for holidays or you rerun to uoir shell till you are back to school

Lastly free yourself and approach people

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

I believe you have room mates or hostel friends, you can hang out with, particularly during the weekends.

Because all work and no play, makes jack a dull boy.

advanceDNA:
This is not the time to look for unnecessary enjoyment..You just started paying your dues in life...pay the sacrifice needed to get ur good grades
..good grades can help u unlock some door when the time comes....this is the time to also pay the dues for discipline......u will need it in front...

Yeah.. friends make the atmosphere fun..make a few of them if u can... but u gotta learn to fly solo as well.....be happy on your own...

friends are just extra additions ....if u make the right ones they can help u up the ladder.... but if u need friends for party d enjoyment....nigga trust me...u are better without the distraction

Miracle no dey tire Jesus?

What shall it profit a man, you read all the books in this world and you ended up at the road side selling akara and puff puff

Wahala.

Dshocker:
Miracle no dey tire Jesus?

What shall it profit a man, you read all the books in this world and you ended up at the road side selling akara and puff puff

Wahala.

Miracle...??
Jesus??
I dont get you....sincerely...i dont want to get you

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

It seems we are on the same path

Like how old are you now?

And you masturbates alot too...

You forgot to add that 👆 to your CV

MorningSir:
This is so much power you’ve got in your hands bro…it’s a blessing. Start looking on the bright side and you’ll thank God in a few years!

no mind him want move with the crowd of wicked and evil people that will devour him quickly because you don expose urself already.

Dshocker:
Miracle no dey tire Jesus?

What shall it profit a man, you read all the books in this world and you ended up at the road side selling akara and puff puff

Wahala.

D LAW is that you

Drella:
Here are my stats:
Early twenties.
University undergraduate(averagely intelligent).
Only child.
Anti social.

So, nothing is going on in my life asides schooling and I'm not close to anyone asides my parents. My mates have things going on for them. They party, they have money, nice apartment, get girls and catch all the fun. While I'm indoors reading my books or surfing the internet. I don't drink nor smoke. I don't play football nor do I watch it(any sport).

This year, only my parents have called me. My course mates don't call nor chat me if I don't do it first.
My parents are a little comfortable and send me enough money to live an average student life. But I'm not getting enough out of life.

I tried learning a skill but targeting good grades and learning the skill don't go together for me.
What if I graduate and don't get a job? We have no connection.

My life is boring, monotonous and empty. Seems I'll need someone's footsteps I can follow and learn how to live life properly. It's yahoo boys I'm seeing around not actual people I can learn from.

As for relationship, never been in one. The highest I've gotten from a girl was a hug. If I were a girl, I can't date myself cos I can't even keep a conversation going😆😆

Okay rant over.

You are not alone 🙃
Some even think I'm crazy or a psychopath cause I live alone. No girlfriend , the girls come around a bit but I dunno how to keep the conversation going. The only people I engage with at school are my roomie who is actually in another dept. I spend a large amount of time online doing silly ( but quite knowledgeable ) research.

The bolded will be a big mistake .. I learnt to accept myself and believe that what's meant to be will be . Just try and get a friend , engage in church activities too

There is difference between being antisocial and being asocial.

Antisocial involves standing against everything the society stands for.

I believe you meant asocial, not antisocial

You're not alone. Just accept yourself for who you are. Continue to work on yourself, read self-books attend seminars etc. Those friends going to club, partying isn't necessary as it stands.

Make friends that will help you achieve your goals in life, that will influence you positively. Join a department in church and work for God.
Honestly, The choice you make now will determine your future.


Regret is a terrible experience, expecially the one that is irreversible. There are so many old people filled with regrets right now, hoping they can turn back the hands of time but no way. When it's too late, there's nothing one can do about it.

Be wise.

Realize this:

People, male and female, are a hot steaming pile of sh1t. You are not missing much by being antisocial.

But if you think being antisocial hinders your progress, join a gym and lift weights consistently.

Now, go out right now and get yourself a chilled can of black bullet. That'll do you good.

Then if you have the money, get yourself a hookup girl ASAP. Bleep her good, as good as any virgin boy anyway.

Just lose your virginity.

After fucking a girl, you'll realize that girls aren't sh1t...if not that they have vaginas and can suck your dick.

They are not special.

On the skills front, you can take it slow and dedicate one hour, or even 30 minutes, per day.

Avoid graphics design, though.

Autobot05:
You are not alone 🙃
Some even think I'm crazy or a psychopath cause I live alone. No girlfriend , the girls come around a bit but I dunno how to keep the conversation going. The only people I engage with at school are my roomie who is actually in another dept. I spend a large amount of time online doing silly ( but quite knowledgeable ) research.

The bolded will be a big mistake .. I learnt to accept myself and believe that what's meant to be will be . Just try and get a friend , engage in church activities too

Yeah we're similar.
I've been like this since childhood and I've never had an issue. But now, seeing how my mates are living life, I feel left behind in life.

Heck I don't even know how to make friends.

ImpregnaTor:
It seems we are on the same path

Like how old are you now?

Early twenties.

Dshocker:
I believe you have room mates or hostel friends, you can hang out with, particularly during the weekends.

Because all work and no play, makes jack a dull boy.

I deliberately not have a room mate. The compound I stay is dominated by non students. But now, seems I'll leave for a student dominated area.

frozen70:
You are in school already
It gives you the chance to meet people both the good and the bad

It gives you the opportunity to have friends both male and female girl friend

Mix up with people so that you get exposed when you go home for holidays or you rerun to uoir shell till you are back to school

Lastly free yourself and approach people

I'll appreciate if you can tell me how to pull this off.

advanceDNA:
This is not the time to look for unnecessary enjoyment..You just started paying your dues in life...pay the sacrifice needed to get ur good grades
..good grades can help u unlock some door when the time comes....this is the time to also pay the dues for discipline......u will need it in front...

Yeah.. friends make the atmosphere fun..make a few of them if u can... but u gotta learn to fly solo as well.....be happy on your own...

friends are just extra additions ....if u make the right ones they can help u up the ladder.... but if u need friends for party d enjoyment....nigga trust me...u are better without the distraction

Thank you.

siofra:
Quiet and antisocial people are usually invisible to other people, except you're rich, very attractive or have a very mysterious/weird personality. If you're not, sorry but people will not give two fawks about you. It's almost like you don't exist to them.

I don't think you're voluntarily antisocial, I think you have social anxiety because people who are truly antisocial do not care if other people like them or not.

Maybe you should start thinking of how to overcome this, then other things will start to fall in place.

I've been like this since childhood and I've never had an issue. But now, seeing how my mates are living life, I feel left behind in life.

I'll need as much help as I can in overcoming this.