tosinhtml:


There is actually a difference between dating someone who has a job, a career focus and striving, from to someone who doesn't have any plans for himself or future in front of them. Anybody can be broke, the question is "do they currently have a job" & "are they striving to be better". What plans do they have and what are they doing to move further.

SenecaTheYonger:
YEs, looks is all it takes for most women

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

Autobot05:


I usually say females think anti-clockwise, I do not take them seriously. Women know everything about a real man until its time to choose one

Adaisback:
not for someone like me that knows what she wants and will communicate effectively. I come from a family where cheating is a taboo. If you master your body as a woman, trust me, you will be able to guide even the most clueless simp to satisfy you. You go with words like, kiss my neck , do it this way or that way okay let me teach you etc. I stand with simp anytime any day. Kudo's to my lovely simp guys.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

tensazangetsu20:
I was about to start work today and I heard a fight and some arguments, turned out it was my neighbor and his wife going at it for the umpteenth time again but today's own was so bloody. I even thought of calling the police. He beat the woman. Hit her head on the wall, threw her clothes out and even threw their baby out that he was tired of them.

The guy has no job, didn't go to school. Didn't even finish secondary school. Also has no skills. He just sits at home from morning till night. He lives with his mom and shes the one that feeds him and all and the new wife just moved in after she got pregnant and gave birth. Honestly, this isn't the first time I have experience or seen stuff like this around me. Is it that the women are blind or what? I mean my neighbor is quite an attractive man. He's fair with tattoos and dreadlocks. Has that handsome bad boy kind of look. But is looks just enough to marry a man that has nothing going on at all in his life.

Why do women make such bad decisions. I am really really curious.

Raalsalghul:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Shebi na when you get building plan, you go start to hustle for building materials. Ehn, Pocohantas?

Sixfeetbelle:


🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂

You and your mouth ehh

Poco, what am I ever to do with you?

GloriousGbola:



Poco!!! 😶‍🌫️

Which kain mental cruelty be this 😭😭

I thank God say u don comot from bank. Otherwise these guys will find your bank and storm it. The verbal vawulence is tooo mush 😈

Creativity22:
The same reason why most men love beautiful and lazy women

tensazangetsu20:
This is what they don't get. Women have more to lose with regards to bad decisions. At least in the west the man will be forced to pay child support in Nigeria a man can't be forced to do anything. The woman is the one who will suffer more and terribly too.

pocohantas:


They should first tell us how many wives of simps they have knacked. Useless sex objects. Since their own is to wait inside bush for simp to go to work, so that they can sneak into his wife’s room. It is no brainer why simps tend to have the money. While supposed alfas spend all day whining about women and simps.

Ishilove:

Poco. Poco. Pocohantas!! How many times did I call you? Young lady, the day dem go gather you offline, beat you comot ya wig, my hand no dey o. See as you just dey serve them wotowoto the way mothers force feed all those stubborn babies lukewarm ogi; with alacrity and enthusiastic vawulence

Persephone1:
True that! But how do we know at a point in time the guy never had a job, career focus and "potentials"? Do we have the biography of the Man, the chronicles of their relationship or the backstory of what went wrong. Are we to gather here and blame a particular gender based on little information from the Op?

True again anybody can be broke, but you will agree with me that the guy doesn't seem like one who is striving to be better, should the woman take the fault for this as well?

pocohantas:
I thought women shouldn’t marry for money?
I thought women should build with men.

No be the building be this? If their fights disturb you too much, give them building materials.

How you take get this kind neighbour, Tetanus?

Adaisback:
I have said it before and am saying it again. I am all for those people they call simps. I want to marry a simp man. Am beautiful and won't allow one yeye man to lay his filthy fingers on me. Team simps
If you are a simp, am all for you biko. Even if you no sabi do, no yawa, I go dey do the do and we will communicate effectively and that will make our relationship an everlasting one

pocohantas:


I know how much you hate lifestyle inflation, but won’t you be a one eyed man in the land of the blind? I hope you are safe there sha. All of them fit dey carry their problems come give you.

Na true love. Give him time, he would blow.

pocohantas:


So like this now, you and that woman husband na the same thing. Only say you go school.

E go better!

Samantha123:
If men can fall in love with unemployed women, so as women.

I have a cousin like that, she's unemployed and lives with her unemployed boyfriend.. And one thing that pisses me off about this cousin of mine is that she's in her mid 30s and has got this empty pride, she doesn't want to look for small piece jobs because she believes that she deserves better as if a lot of people didn't start from the bottom.

Most of the time when she calls me, already I know that she's going to ask for money so she could share it with her unemployed boyfriend... Last December she didn't even have money to come home for Christmas and my aunt had to sent her money to come home.

And already she has two kids from two different baby daddies and both of them were also unemployed when she had those kids, I think she's attracted to unemployed guys.

When we try talking to her about her situation, she gets aggressive... I once tried cautioning her and I ended up with a blue eye. I got her arrested in return because I wasn't studying law for nothing...

But in the end we made peace.

Sixfeetbelle:


Stop spewing this bullshit about her rejecting responsible men. Do you honestly in your heart of hearts believe responsible men are more than the number of deadbeats? Do you know the hurdle women pass through to fish out deadbeats from actual responsible men?

For this case, don't you know that for her to settle for a deadbeat, that it was only deadbeats that asked her out?

Persephone1:


The problem with you lot is you only judge women by your standard . If you were to be on equal level with the said man, you would have blamed the irresponsible and ungrateful husband but because you are not it is the woman that is responsible for settling for less.

All of you will be alright las las

Sixfeetbelle:


Do you think she saw a good man and left him for this dude? Do you honestly believe this crap you wrote? Do you think all women are victims of making this kind of bad decisions?

Ishilove:

Poco. Poco. Pocohantas!! How many times did I call you? Young lady, the day dem go gather you offline, beat you comot ya wig, my hand no dey o. See as you just dey serve them wotowoto the way mothers force feed all those stubborn babies lukewarm ogi; with alacrity and enthusiastic vawulence

reddingtonblack:




So this one is still alive the hustle for hubby is real 🤣

emmaodet:





Team Simp

emmaodet:

Ishilove:

Na your papa be "this one", you hear ba? If he still alive, go and tell him you are a failure and disgrace to him for wishing death on a stranger on the internet. Na you go die, no be me

tensazangetsu20:


This one doesn't even do yahoo. Like he has no skill at all, no education nothing no handwork.