Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"
What about the ones that dress "churchy" and covered up but can really give you hell


I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

chccho:
Then just insult him back simple..

ZooOga:


That poster may be correct. Years ago a very popular 9ja singer was dating a very popular 9ja actress but his mom allegedly told him to not bring her into their family because of her loose reputation. He agreed with her wishes. He married anoda lady and is living a happy life today while the actress is an unmarried aging spinster with issues in her life. Of course I can't say any names on rumors and hearsay but I believe the gist.

brosdoncome:
Op, e be like say you no know say you babe sef fit don born keep somewhere with that kind belle. Shine your eyes.

qtguru:


Bro even men wear shorts cuz it's comfy, but maybe you should free the babe, and let your mom pick for you.

Nonexisting1:
Your mother saw more than the bum short, she is only using it as an excuse. Listen to the advice of your mother, she can never go wrong on this one because she is of the same gender. It's true that the world is changing but a Nigerian girl that wears that bum short comfortably in public is likely a coded runsgirl. If she is not, a good offer hasn't come her way yet. If you think your mother is wrong, pay a private investigator to follow your girlfriend for just one week to prove her wrong.

BrickDevo:
Your girl hot oh, people will think she is into hookup, well if she continues to dress like this after marriage problem go dey oh

Jennyclay:
You brought this insult upon yourself, so enjoy the insult my dear! Yeye boyfriend!!

You need to grow up, you're not a man. Why would you allow your mother dictate for you? ..

Biko, answer my following questions:

Is your girlfriend disrespecting you?

Is she wasteful or lazy?

Is she cheating on you?

Is she neglecting her duties as a wife to be?

So why is you and your mother creating problem were there is none?

There is absolutely nothing wrong with her dressing. Most times I dress like that to salon, market, restaurants, bank and malls.

Biko, don't allow your mother to use her hand to destroy the beautiful relationship you have your girlfriend oo!

EmmanuelCena:



I find this extremely ridiculous.

She is hot yes.

But you saying she looks like hookup lady?
You dey whine me ni?

Someone who wore clothes covering her boobs.
So because she wore shorts, she be like hookup lady?

Takes i dey see online always dey funny me sha.

BrickDevo:
you don see hook up girls before?

Zikonna:


Watch your words please. Don't use that word to describe my girl.

peepydelano:
Your mum is right , she doesn’t want you to bring whores into her home.

DrOBD:


I bought ankle chain for my wife.

I even encouraged her to dress like that.

Nigerians and hypocrisy. My dear, if you love her, marry her. Your mom has lived her life, and you have to live yours.

I dislike parents who wants to live and make decisions for their children.

Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

Teleprompter:
I’m a woman in mid forties with foreign orientation.....

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Like a big sister to her kid brother, the lady in that picture is not decent.

She is more worldly than you think or know. If you are so sure then set her a trap.

Kholiwe:

If by Africans you mean foolish, senseless, hypocritical, dull and backwards like you then yes.

Qtrpst4:
The mum doesn't want his son to marry that kind of next generation. My wife and daughters won't be that kind of next generation and your daughter should never come close to my sons as we will ridicule them. We don't want that kind of useless next generation of foolishness

Cashio:

My sons and daughters will never get close to your sons and daughters because your sons and daughters would definitely be significantly less valuable to them as they would share same stupidity as you do.

Qtrpst4:
We don't eat from the dustbin

Cashio:
Neither do we. So run along.

Qtrpst4:
Is it not obvious that you do?

In all your life make sure nothing brings you in my part. You are free to raise your children for prostitution, dont bring it close

Cashio:
I already told you man, your children's value would be inconsequential. Bleep off.

Zikonna:
I need serious advice. I grew up an only child, raised by a single mum. My dad abandoned us as when I was a kid and few years later he died in an accident. My mum is the most important person in my life and I love and respect her. She is also a very religious woman and raised me so.

I am settled and ready to get married and I have met the woman I am sure is the one for me. My mum has met her once and although she had her reservations she wasn't opposed to it. But yesterday while going through my fiance's whatsapp status(bacause she has her number), she came across the picture below and because of it, she is now opposed to the marriage. According to her, she can't let her only child get married to a girl that wears bum shorts in public. She says "this sort of dressing is from the devil"

I have tried to explain to her that my girl isn't like that and she only wears clothes like that once in a while. My mum is still adamant. She wants me to end our relationship and find a "responsible woman"

I am currently torn between my mum and the woman I have decided to spend the rest of my life with. I am afraid that if I disobey my mother's instructions, it would lead to serious circumstances as she is also my spiritual mother.

I do not know what to do. Look at the picture below. I really don't see anything wrong. I cropped her face to maintain anonymity.

Thank Goodness I wasn't raised by religious parents.

Anyways, the only advice I can give you is that you should follow your heart.

Marry who you love and not who your mother loves because you may end up being unhappy for the rest of your life in the name of making mama happy.

I'm sure your grandparents also warned her about your father, but she still chose to be with him.

She will be upset at first, but she'll eventually come around because she's your mother and she loves you, but if you want to break up with the love of your life because of mama, then the ball is in your court... Good luck.