ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

Nursepepeye:
I can feed you and everyone around you

DaddyCoool:


When financial quarrels appear you'd be surprised how fast "love" disappears. Love is actually a choice. Choose to love someone who'd help your finances!

ElBenny:


The ones that are not broke, a large percentage of them are not loyal

Nursepepeye:
you are a gold digger. That's just what you are, I can bet you got nothing only who you want to decieve. You can not even take a simple responsibility? Not all broke girls demand your money but you all out for rich ladies money. Gold digger thief you are

dake40:


You're the thief and irrational leech here, dude just stated his standards and you're here ranting like ekuke. Only a leech and a broke girl will react like this.

BRATISLAVA:


Clearly he doesn't want to be single. It's why he's come up with the usual thread. But he's still so wounded that it's good he's keeping away from women.

Some people never heal. They are captives of their past.

A lot of men want a hundred percent lady. Truth is, he's not up to what he's looking for in anyone else. He's better off buying a doll or making the lady out of clay.

joyousever:

Your sixth sense should notify you that your current age(26) will rarely get you a financially independent lady that's younger than you are! Most Nigerian adies within your age bracket are either in school, seeking admission, just graduated or hunting for jobs. So all you need do is to remain single till you find a working class/ independent lady.
Cheers..

Thank you so much. This is the best advice I've every gotten here. I'm indeed grateful

Teeroyzimma:
bros if you can afford whatever you want you have made it, which one be you're not there yet

And is there any online thing wey u dey do to make money?

smokinloud:

Love is a choice but not a calculation.
Reason why most wealthy people fail in their marriage. You can choose to love who you want but your calculation doesn't guarantee a good relationship.
Just pray you find the right petson.

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

ElBenny:
I'm a young man of 26. Graduated back in 2019.

I'm currently working as a health professional and in the show biz.

I've gone through dark times, broke times and cashless times.

I've hustled and worked my way up to a comfortable level.

I'm not there yet, but for my age, I can afford whatever I want. It's been like this since 2021.

I've come across different girls (I can't count actually) who want me and want to settle down with me.

Some want us to date, others really want us to get married.

They're all beautiful ladies, with premium features.

But I've turned down all of them.

Why?

Many of them are broke.

Others have got nothing doing. Just studying or aspiring students.

I don't want a lady who will remind me of my broke days.

I don't want a broke lady.

I've gone past that stage and don't want to go back there.

Do y'all think I'm doing the right thing to stay single because of that?

ElBenny:


See as you just embarrass your self dey talk off point shamelessly.

franchasng:
Your reasons are valid, don't listen to anybody.



As someone still growing and trying to find his feet financially, you need a supportive partner, a lady that will bring value to your life not a leech, the moneybag guys can marry the broke ladies but let average guys go for productive ladies they can join effort with to build an enviable future.



Marrying the wrong lady can destroy a man.



With the current economic crunch all over the world, going for a broke lady as a life partner is risky if you the man is not financially settled already.



Go for ladies with great financial prospects in the medical field, IT field, etc who are not just holders of their paper certificate but passionate and ambitious of becoming one of the best in their field.



Don't marry ladies who are more interested in TV shows, celebrities, fashion and looking hot, marry a lady who admires career women, who talks about her plans to grow in her career or field of study.



Love is never enough reason to marry a lady or a guy, marriage is more than love, building a solid marriage and family goes beyond romantic love and sex vibes.




Our world today is highly monetized, make sure the woman you decide to settle with is a money saver, a money maker and not just a money spender.



All the men that married anyhow in the name of she is beautiful, she can cook well, she has hot shape, etc are all regretting it.



Be intentional in your marriage, ladies always map out qualities they want in a man before they say I do, and most of the qualities they look for points towards future survival and sustainability of a good life not just love or sex like many guys foolishly believe.



It is high time guys start marrying ladies with bright future and great prospects

Leoniine:
Rich health practitioner ko, wealthy morgue keeper ni.

Yeye.

DKM123:
A typical Nigerian man wants a lady with good character even though they have very bad character.

He wants a faithful decent woman to marry even though he is a promiscuous cheat of a husband himself.


He wants a lady who will go to the market, serve and cook good meals for him daily even though he doesn't know how to cook those kind of food himself.

He wants a woman who is neat and ensures the house is sparkling clean even though he is a p!g who wears one boxers for 3 days..

He wants a lady who calls him Lord and head of their rented house even though he is not as intelligent or smart as she is.

He wants a lady with nice skin, flat belly and pointed boobs even though he is an uglee musheshe with GP tank tummy and uglee skin himself.


He demands optimum respect even though he disrespects his wife daily.

ETC ETC ETC ETC


Yet, the only part that he is responsible for which is the finance, he is still wailing that the woman must have money be4 he marries her .

I don't even want to add the other d!sgusting things Nigerian men do and ACT LIKE IT IS NORMAL like demanding sex wether or not wife is tired and correcting their grown up wives with slaps and cheating on thier pregnant wives.

So I ask, Oga Odogwu afamail, if you can't be the financier in the home, then what exactly do you Nigerian men bring to the table in this marriage thing that you say doesn't benefit men but only women.

Truthsoldier:
An entitled kpekus spotted

GboyegaD:
There's more to relationship and marriage than beauty and money. What you need is someone who has prospect and isn't greedy. She may not have money however, the peace and organization she brings to your life will make your way lot more prosperous .

Goodlady:

Do I know u

A broke man is worst than the poverty ravaging Nigeria. He's a curse to his generations!

DaddyCoool:


Nothing GUARANTEES anything. The race will not necessarily go to the fastest. But that's not the way to bet. A girl who likes leisure and depending on guys may turn out a better wife financially than a hard-working self-financing girl, but that's not the way to bet

Dada4me:
Some of those ladies may not have money now but have what will make you richer and wealthier.

smokinloud:

A hard-working girl could be broke and needs you to subsist. See calculation can never get you true love!.

Abba114:
oga get a girl and enjoy ur life. forget about that broke days it has gone, but apply sense when dealing with them.

Dada4me:
Some of those ladies may not have money now but have what will make you richer and wealthier.

Nursepepeye:
you are a gold digger. That's just what you are, I can bet you got nothing only who you want to decieve. You can not even take a simple responsibility? Not all broke girls demand your money but you all out for rich ladies money. Gold digger thief you are

Phimzy:
I'm following in your footsteps bruh. I'm not getting into any serious relationship till I clock 30, just fvck and flenjo.

visaclick:
Good thinking bro. You ve worked to hard to settle for one lazy self entitled female.