Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage

You go old!

CodeTemplar:
if everyone becomes polygamous who becomes GO and Bishop?

The impotent men, celibates and many others who wants to be monogamous can be GOs and Bishops.

baralatie:

Marital infidelity is one of the reasons for divorce and under marital infidelity .
Sexual incompatibility is a @subset of which others under infidelity are not mentioned

The concept of sexual compatibility and sexual satisfaction are even not mutual

Therefore the notion of making sexual incompatibility as a big issue is not justifiable

Read what you wrote again, this time slowly.

Infidelity is a major reason for divorce, sexual incompatibility is a major reason for infidelity. Doesn’t that make sexual incompatibility a major reason for divorce. Its very simple logic.

I wish i can draw sets for you write now. Beside thats just one source (from a Legal firm), google is your friend do your own research.

Sexual incompatibility is so prevalent yet most people give it very little thought. So I don’t blame people when they attempt to argue its not a issue, meanwhile it is increasing in mass.

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Talking Causation and Correlation. This is a big positive correlation between Sexual incompatibility and Divorce. There is also direct Causation between Sexual incompatibility and divorce.

https://www.academia.edu/67220641/Sexual_Incompatibility_among_Couples_in_Gombe_Metropolis_Rates_Perceived_Causes_and_Effects

Experience is the best teacher. If you failed to sample the girl you intend marrying and it happened that she's been subjected to FGM (female genital mutilation), your sexual pleasure is for life screwed up. You'll either regret having an awful sexual life or become a serial cheat. Marriage within the Judeo-Christian traditions has a chequered history, implying that over time and space, when couple were expected to have sex isn't absolute.

The said pastor just shared the raw truth which other pastors will pretend or fail to tell their members, some will even wait for sexual crises to occur in your family so that they can use it to make sermon...why won't I smooch and Bleep the hell of my wife to be before marrying her...apart from love, compatibility, I must also know her sexual desire level(SDL)her skills in bed is a turn on not those once that will jus sleep like log of wood and allow only you to do all the work...the pastor is spot on jare...

Harddiskng:


Read what you wrote again, this time slowly.

Infidelity is a major reason for divorce, sexual incompatibility is a major reason for infidelity. Doesn’t that make sexual incompatibility a major reason for divorce. Its very simple logic.

I wish i can draw sets for you write now. Beside thats just one source (from a Legal firm), google is your friend do your own research.

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Talking Causation and Correlation. This is a big positive correlation between Sexual incompatibility and Divorce. There is also direct Causation between Sexual incompatibility and divorce.

Let me put in proper perspective
Causes of divorce
Amarital infidelity
2.financil hardship
3.marital abuse/trauma
4.divergence
5external pressure of the workplace/family
6 peer pressure

Now these above are some of the major causes of divorce and research can give us a ranking of which of the above is prevalent at a certain point in time.

Now let us take marital infidelity
Causes of infidelity
1.lack of sex drive
2 sexual divergence
3.sexual.incompatibilty
4.sexual.dissatisfaction




You get it now

ayenale1:
The said pastor just shared the raw truth which other pastors will pretend or fail to tell their members, some will even wait for sexual crises to occur in your family so that they can use it to make sermon...why won't I smooch and Bleep the hell of my wife to be before marrying her...apart from love, compatibility, I must also know her sexual desire level(SDL)her skills in bed is a turn on not those once that will jus sleep like log of wood and allow only you to do all the work...the pastor is spot on jare...

D girl you smooched what is the reason you will say for not marrying her

OLULAW:
Experience is the best teacher. If you failed to sample the girl you intend marrying and it happened that she's been subjected to FGM (female genital mutilation), your sexual pleasure is for life screwed up. You'll either regret having an awful sexual life or become a serial cheat. Marriage within the Judeo-Christian traditions has a chequered history, implying that over time and space, when couple were expected to have sex isn't absolute.

Does a women with circumcision scars mean she is docile?

baralatie:

Let me put in proper perspective
Causes of divorce
Amarital infidelity
2.financil hardship
3.marital abuse/trauma
4.divergence
5external pressure of the workplace/family
6 peer pressure

Now these above are some of the major causes of divorce and research can give us a ranking of which of the above is prevalent at a certain point in time.

Now let us take marital infidelity
Causes of infidelity
1.lack of sex drive
2 sexual divergence
3.sexual.incompatibilty
4.sexual.dissatisfaction

You get it now

You don’t understand logic sir.

If infidelity is a major cause of divorce, doesn’t that make the top factor contributing to infidelity the major causes of divorce?

if you read the research i posted, sexual incompatibility has significant impact on divorce but the issue is not widely know due to the shush shush nature of matter.

Because most married man and woman and not willing to disclose sexual inadequacies in their marriage.

baralatie:

Does a women with circumcision scars mean she is docile?

According to the WHO, long term complications can include: "urinary problems (painful urination, urinary tract infections); vaginal problems (discharge, itching, bacterial vaginosis and other infections); menstrual problems (painful menstruations, difficulty in passing menstrual blood, etc.); scar tissue and keloid; sexual problems (pain during intercourse, decreased satisfaction, etc.); increased risk of childbirth complications (difficult delivery, excessive bleeding, caesarean section, need to resuscitate the baby, etc.) and newborn deaths; need for later surgeries: for example, the sealing or narrowing of the vaginal opening (type 3) may lead to the practice of cutting open the sealed vagina later to allow for sexual intercourse and childbirth (deinfibulation). Sometimes genital tissue is stitched again several times, including after childbirth, hence the woman goes through repeated opening and closing procedures, further increasing both immediate and long-term risks; and psychological problems (depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, low self-esteem, etc.)." If you're unlucky to marry one, you're screwed! I won't say anything more.

Harddiskng:


You don’t understand logic sir.

If infidelity is a major cause of divorce, doesn’t that make the top factor contributing to infidelity the major causes of divorce?

if you read the research i posted, sexual incompatibility has significant impact on divorce but the issue is not widely know due to the shush shush nature of matter.

Because most married man and woman and not willing to disclose sexual inadequacies in their marriage.

No it does not
Unless you will cancel out the first group and rank all.atributes into a global ranking which the source did not do

baralatie:

No it does not
Unless you will cancel out the first group and rank all.atributes into a global ranking which the source did not do

You are obviously bad at research. Let chatGPT help you.

Did you see the part where I told you why it is not a widely known issue. Why is it just gaining prevalence? Or just just choose to ignore it and keep arguing against all facts presented.

There are many causes of divorce and sexual incompatibility is one of them brother.

OLULAW:

According to the WHO, long term complications can include: "urinary problems (painful urination, urinary tract infections); vaginal problems (discharge, itching, bacterial vaginosis and other infections); menstrual problems (painful menstruations, difficulty in passing menstrual blood, etc.); scar tissue and keloid; sexual problems (pain during intercourse, decreased satisfaction, etc.); increased risk of childbirth complications (difficult delivery, excessive bleeding, caesarean section, need to resuscitate the baby, etc.) and newborn deaths; need for later surgeries: for example, the sealing or narrowing of the vaginal opening (type 3) may lead to the practice of cutting open the sealed vagina later to allow for sexual intercourse and childbirth (deinfibulation). Sometimes genital tissue is stitched again several times, including after childbirth, hence the woman goes through repeated opening and closing procedures, further increasing both immediate and long-term risks; and psychological problems (depression, anxiety, post-traumatic stress disorder, low self-esteem, etc.)." If you're unlucky to marry one, you're screwed! I won't say anything more.

Does is it not make the women you will be stand out without even going near her?

Harddiskng:


You are obviously bad at research. Let chatGPT help you

I am trying to help you but you refuse
What you brought is that a research/study telling you the results or you are quoting a paper write up

baralatie:

Does is it not the women you will be stand out without even going near her?

Your English grammar is so bad, you're not communicating. Go and get an English teacher.

baralatie:

I am trying to help you but you refuse
What you brought is that a research/study telling you the results or you are quoting a paper write up

I see the problem you are more intelligent than various academic research and chatGPT lol.

I hear you.

OLULAW:


Your English grammar is so bad, you're not communicating. Go and get an English teacher.

Please go easy on the man abeg lol

OLULAW:


Your English grammar is so bad, you're not communicating. Go and get an English teacher.

The type of bombs no be hear
Because all these boys/men want to be tasting the mic

Harddiskng:


I see the problem you are more intelligent than various academic research and chatGPT lol.

I hear you.

No
I did not say so o

baralatie:

No
I did not say so o

That’s what are you saying, research said it is a cause, ChatGPT said it is a cause.

With your limited knowledge of logic, maths and martial law you insist it is not and keep “trying to help me”

Ask yourself, your wife keeps refusing you sex cause she genuinely has low libido while you are high on testosterone. How long is this marriage going to last sir?

Harddiskng:


That’s what are you saying research said it is a cause, ChatGPT said it is a cause.

With your limited knowledge of logic, maths and martial law you insist it is not and keep “trying to help me”

I did not argue about marital infidelity as been listed in their write up

baralatie:

I did not argue about marital infidelity as been listed in their write up

You have argued so much you have even forgotten the basis of the argument.

Is sexual incompatibility a ground/cause/contributing factor of/to divorce? Yes is it!

If a woman is denying the husband sex how are you sure it is low libido.how are you sure the woman is not weaponing sex to overpower the husband in the house

Harddiskng:


You have argued so much you have even forgotten the basis of the argument.

Is sexual incompatibility a ground/cause/contributing factor of/to divorce? Yes is it!

I said the research place it asa subst under marital infidelity amongst other groupings

baralatie:
If a woman is denying the husband sex how are you sure it is low libido.how are you sure the woman is not weaponing sex to overpower the husband in the house

Now you are just purposely going off the road to defend yourself.

There are women and men with low libido, it is as real as the day. They don’t just enjoy sex, nor do they have the urge to engage in it.

I think this is the junction I would leave you to educate yourself more before arguing blindly on the internet. I pray you don’t fall into the pit of sexual incompatibility.

Harddiskng:


Now you are just purposely going off the road to defend yourself.

There are women and men with low libido, it is as real as the day. They don’t just enjoy sex, nor do they have the urge to engage in it.

I think this is the junction I would leave you to educate yourself more before arguing blindly on the internet. I pray you to fall into the pit of sexual incompatibility.

It is an interesting thread with different views,beliefs and very revealing concepts.
We will always learn everyday on this matter of sexual compatibility,satisfaction ,sexual cravings and infidelity in marital phase
Well until another interesting thread
I want to watch arsenal loss today

baralatie:

D girl you smooched what is the reason you will say for not marrying her

A lady can move on on her own but don't argue with me...read 1Cor 7 vs 36...

Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage

What d9 you have to offer too??

ayenale1:

A lady can move on on her own but don't argue with me...read 1Cor 7 vs 36...

If anyone is worried that he might not be acting honorably toward the virgin he is engaged to, and if his passions are too strong and he feels he ought to marry, he should do as he wants. He is not sinning. They should get married.



So if you smooch am lady you must to marry am

😂

Sonnobax15:
Ok,now we know why all your previous relationship didn't exceed lintel level

Sex should not be the only reason to marry a lady. That's why we have call girls and escort, because no one person can satisfy.

Jennyclay:
Money
Sex
Love

Personally, if a man can not satisfy me with these 3 things I listed, I will just leave the relationship/marriage

I wonder what you would have to satisfy the Man with, Miss satisfaction