imagrg:
My dear, some men are still responsible. Let her report the matter to the elders.

Mindlog:


The nonsense is you not yet seeing the need for both of you go visit a marriage therapist who has been professionally trained not to be biased and have no vested interest since one on one talks with her is not yielding the desired sustained change.

Such therapy sessions would help your wife to unlearn some notions about intimacy with a spouse, that it is not be rationed nor give the impression you do your spouse a favour by allowing them access to your body and personal space......your wife needs "rewiring" that should result to meeting your fantasies
to an extent. 😆😆😆😆

KarinaSlim:
But why do men love having a Sick Chick?

Are they not satisfied with their wives?

I have not been able to understand this.


Because you're not a man. Men have high sexual needs, which if the wife cannot satisfy pushes him outside. Married men are literally hotcakes these days. Also, there's this belief that a married man - having toiled to be financially stable - has the right to indulge in extramarital affairs as it's his prime years.

gfelo:
you think leaving your husband because he is cheating is the best option?

aestake:

It doesn't go well. Maybe you build your own house. However if your brothers develop theirs, you are safe in there then.

pendragonbladgo:
Go and get a job. If you are busy and taking salary, upu won't have such time.
My mother never had my Dad's time, as a Lecturer she wasn't concerned about his womanising. When he get aged he got tired and stop.

You young ladies of today just think marriage is a bank job. You better forget all these love talk and cheat say or cheat no say and focus on career and business to give your children a great support the day the man die or even if God keep him alive.

kunle75:



If you listen to too much advice from Nairaland you're on your own.

Sit him down and let him know about what you saw,discuss with him.
Remember you are not new in the market again, the struggle is real oooo,many men don't want to marry again oooo,you might end up as a side chick with someone if you opt out as long as he's not maltreating you or abuse you in any way.
There's too much women in the street nowadays oooo,my cent

Gboom:

So, if you are in her shoes, you will quickly divorce your husband?
It is very easy to advise others when you have not experienced the kind of heat before.

Judging by your no 2 point, I can tell you many homes would scatter if women were divorcing their husband based on adultery.

MightySparrow:
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If you are a christian I would recommend you watch Wat Room on YouTube. Take a decision in prayers.
God answers prayers.



If you do any stupid thing, you and your children would suffer it alone. The man will start another family.

You can stop the nonsense on your knees.
Polygamy is evil as well as being a single mother.

It affects children's psychology and emotional well being.

Anyway, why can't you brace up and use the right weapon to get your msn back? Why won't you sit together and be happy with your children and husband?

Learn how to pray and get your man back.
I look forward to hearing your testimony soon.

Karlifate:


Scroll along, if it's NOT meant for you.

Stop looking for trouble where there's none!

Kobojunkie:
It isn't meant for any sane individual. Would you also take to praying if your wife was blatantly cheating on you? Why would you suggest that to anyone, even your own sister? No be the definition of craze be that?

Jesus Christ wey una dey pretend una dey believe said in case of adultery, feel free to get a divorce and remarry even. But here you dey advice another human being to sit and pray and turn herself into a porn star for the one who destroyed the marriage. NOnsense!

Slic1:


Provided you haven't been side chick. If you have then expect it.

zakkxx:
My Sister, pray every 12 mid night cry to God to rescue your husband! Live a righteous life so that God go answer your prayer! Before u serve your husband food make a powerful declaration “U will love me like never before; I destroy any relationship u are in with any side chick! U will love God soo much! As u eat this food I destroy any juju they have use to tire u in Jesus name! Show love to your husband like never before respect and adore him, be very neat, keep the house sparkling clean. U will see the magic in Christ Jesus.

Kobojunkie:
1. A thought just occurred to me just now. So, after the husband dies during a sex marathon with a side-chick or prostitute, na so dem dutiful Mrs for house go come carry the dead body go bury am?

Kai!

MightySparrow:


Possibly kobojunkie is a single mother or a spinster that doesn't have any stake. When the chips are down, you will face the reality alone.


Your home is your home. Your children are your children, your husband is your husband.
Myself in a similar profession know what temptations we can face on site while meeting people. Don't crucify your husband yet. Don't make your home inhabitable for him. See your as something worthy of getting back.

Kobojunkie and others telling you to lose your home are either not sincere or wicked.


You have your life to live and personal challenges to face.

Check her posts you will discover the girl is a little crazy.


In summary: do all you can to get your husband back.

alphaNomega:


When you were chatting and frolicking with married men in your youth, you did not know it will happen to you abi?

cococandy:


And you have 182 likes possibly more on the way.
This is why I have ZERO empathy for the lot of you when you come whining on this Beyoncé’s internet. I hope whatever woman decides to break your heart does it in a way that the pain will be maximized. 😌

YoshihideSuga:
■ The man who was allegedly killed by Chidinma was buried by his wife and immediate family. Na so e dey be.

YoshihideSuga:
Oga,
Kobojunkie is correct. Praying has never stopped a man from cheating. It's hypocritical to advice her to pray when the same Bible permits divorce on the basis of infidelity.

Abrahamweb:

Before a man decide to have side chick,it all boils down to the wife.
A wife can decide to frustrate a man's life because she feels like the man no fit leave her again.
What did you do madam?

Khallicopyro:
You got what you wanted. What were you looking for going through his phone without his permission? Now that you found what you were looking for you want advice... If I be that your husband the day you dare ask me about it that is the day you lose your matrimony. Nonsense

Jephyard:
At op, fight for your marriage, how? Get a trusted male to also befriend the side chick of your husband. And post their pic on your WhatsApp, as congratulating them being for such beautiful lovebird. If he ask if you know the lady in the picture, say no! After that befriend the side chick and his mom. Don't let you husband know about this. Then invite all of them to your house and spread the news to everyone there that you know all along. Wait for the outcome.

YoshihideSuga:


So a random kobojunkie is responsible for the marriage wahala not the randy husband?

Wow! Tomorrow, una go dey church like say una godly
Ta! A Chinese atheist will enter heaven before you lots.

YoshihideSuga:


Polygamy isn't evil nor is single motherhood. Stop throwing words around. The issue here is that he didn't inform his wife that he would cheat. The Bible you are quoting upandown actually permits divorce on the basis of infidelity. So, there is no need for her to pray sef since the Bible permits divorce because of infidelity.

MightySparrow:


I can see you are kobojunkie church also. A randy husband can get over his stupidity. A random kobojunkie may not because it is momentary stupidity.

If you know the pains of a broken home in the children, you will have to encourage every woman to stay in her marriage (if not married by violence and the man is doing his responsibility) to take care of her children.

MightySparrow:


Okay o. Divorce your own spouse! The Bible you yọu are reading does not permit prayers to solve problems.

YoshihideSuga:


There's nothing wrong in divorcing such a man. The Bible permits it.

YoshihideSuga:


That should be told to the randy husband whose chances of contracting STI/STD are high. It's the man who should do the work to ensure his family doesn't scatter not the woman.

Can't you people be responsible for once?!

YoshihideSuga:


But adultery is a sin 🤷🏿‍♂️ No be so?

Honestly, you people are disgusting hypocrites!