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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 12:38pm On Mar 15, 2023

iHateFraudsters:

What do you think the worst thing is in marriage?

You think it's by showing off your wedding ring on Instagram?

My fathers house is just a stone throw for me no matter the distance, so let no man deliberately stress my life. You mean the worse there is for a man to be deliberating doing things to hurt his wife and causing her pains? Smh

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by oliverwrites: 12:38pm On Mar 15, 2023

Goodlady:

You mean a wife that's depending on her husband abi?
My advise, dear females, empower yourself.
Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man. They all v tendencies to cheat. It's just that some are hiding cos of their financial ability. The first thing that enter a hustling man's head after getting rich is how to sleep with all.the girls that do him yanga before. That's the begining of badluck!
Men are scum!

Your father is the scum.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by guass(m): 12:39pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Truth is bitter
You are the very reason why your husband is looking for a side chick

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by BloomingDale(f): 12:39pm On Mar 15, 2023

franchasofficia:
Hahahahahaha

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Sleekfingers: 12:39pm On Mar 15, 2023

1. Talk to him ...and show him the evidence. Because if you don't he will definitely deny
2. Ask him , if he is tired of the marriage. If he said , No.....go further by asking , why he is having an extramarital affair ....
3. You can take it a step further by telling his parents or any of his family members .
4. If he doesn't change. You leave him. Except you are ready to live with that......marriage is not a do or die affair.....

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by iHateFraudsters: 12:40pm On Mar 15, 2023

IyaebeTheGreat:
My fathers house is just a stone throw for me no matter the distance, so let no man deliberately stress my life. You mean the worse there is for a man to be deliberating doing things to hurt his wife and causing her pains? Smh

Then stay in your father's house and marry your father na.

Haba

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Senator777: 12:40pm On Mar 15, 2023

Husband police

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by gfelo(m): 12:40pm On Mar 15, 2023

Kobojunkie:
1. Well, all you can do is decide for yourself whether you want to be part of a polygamous union that he has already forced on you — he already has at least one concubine, according to you — or whether you would rather divorce him and move on. I'm sorry but there isn't much else you can do.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Karlifate: 12:40pm On Mar 15, 2023

KarinaSlim:
But why do men love having a Sick Chick?

Are they not satisfied with their wives?

I have not been able to understand this.

@ bolded: Fallacy of Hasty Generalization.

Not all men have/has side chicks.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by HOSTCOM(m): 12:41pm On Mar 15, 2023

Just visit the nearest white garment church and the remaining will be history.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Geovanni412(m): 12:41pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Your man wants polygamy

Try and rekindle your relationship with him

Do you guys still talk?

Does he still find you sexually appealing?

If all the above is in the positive...

There is nothing more you can do.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by gfelo(m): 12:41pm On Mar 15, 2023

i dont think you are married, if you are married ur own is coming soon

IyaebeTheGreat:
No husband will stress me in this life, that’s all I can say.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by tianshie(m): 12:42pm On Mar 15, 2023

IyaebeTheGreat:
No husband will stress me in this life, that’s all I can say.

As a Tinubu supporter, may husband stress you in this life, multiplied by one billion. Alarinka.

Meanwhile, if any of you urchins comes out on Saturday intending to foment trouble, swinging bottles, planks, and pestles, tuah, tuah, shall be your case. If YOU sef follow dem inside the car, you sef go collect.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by house10studios: 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Sorry, fact u already caught him n u still thinking of marriage either shows u only have pussy to offer n he wants a fresh pussy or u b stay at home wife n u loosing shape n growing third boobs (fst belly).

Either way sha prepare for wats coming

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by TOPCRUISE(m): 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Your fear should be if she had already have babies for him. For him to be seeing her mum that could be a possibility.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by sheldonbbt: 12:43pm On Mar 15, 2023

Mindlog:

No one is triggered by their partner/spouse to cheat because infidelity is a decided action.

The cheating spouse has rationalized and keeps rationalizing reason for being unfaithful.

If the husband in focus ends the marriage with the OP and marries the present side chick, he will cheat on her.

"Finding peace when a married person is with a side chick or side guy" is a mirage, an escapist construct of the mind because when they are no longer the side attraction but becomes spouse......the "peace" tends to evaporate and the cheating spouse will be more likely to tolerate more than what he/she tolerated in their previous marriage.

No one is your reason to cheat, you convince yourself it is okay to cheat.....take responsibility.

You are wrong. If I have the chance, I will cheat on my wife without looking back.

Marriage is less than 2 years, I do everything possible to make her and our soon to be 2 year old child comfortable, I work my ass off and understand she is trying, but how can a wife deny sex for almost a month when I am not impotent or have medical issues.

You sit her down and talk, you threaten, your plead and she promises, I will change then you have sex that day and that's it for the next 2 weeks. When me I am there with wild imagination of what I will do to my wife when I get home but gets disappointed with someone who will ask me, is it only sex you are always thinking of? Errrrm, I am not a sex person, intimacy is not only sex bullshit and you want me to live the that type of wife till my dying days where she is able to control me with what she has.

Please stop the nonsense.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 12:44pm On Mar 15, 2023

iHateFraudsters:

Then stay in your father's house and marry your father na.

Haba

I’m in my father’s house and any man who wants to come take me from my father’s house to his own should not go stress my life, I don’t understand why a man who claims to love you and marry you will be so less concerned about hurting and causing you pains. I’ll japa back to my father’s house, I hate unnecessary stress in this life. He can go be with the sidechick and her mom in peace.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by gfelo(m): 12:44pm On Mar 15, 2023

i laf in yoruba voice

Merch:
nonsense post wetin be husband wey you no fit share with side chick

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Mboi: 12:44pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

Some women will push their husbands into all these, then turn around and start claiming victim. A man who tries to take care of his family, you women will take him for granted, call him useless man, showing him you can do whatever you like and he can't control you or do anything. Some men, instead of raising voices or raise hands or get angry and make mistake, they will quietly seek for peace somewhere else.
The side chick gives your husband that thing you failed to give him and as you can see, it's not just sex.

Continue playing strong woman and taking rubbish advice from people who claim to love you but hate you with passion. Those same people are the ones who will laugh at you, gossip with your name by the time your husbands takes a second wife. By then you will know that much you've destroyed yourself.
Las las, you will end up with one old man as a second or third wife. Is your life not scattered yet? Sorry.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by seborrhic: 12:44pm On Mar 15, 2023

marlow1962:
Hmm, I don’t want to give the impression that I supports he’s sidechick lifestyle, but on a serious note there’s something you’re lacking that the so called side chick has. Check within yourself, married man no dy carry get side chick to the extent em dy buy provisions go see em side chick mama, cun even get pet names ontop.

There is nothing wrong with her or nothing she ain't doing right.
Let the sidechick now come to live with the man fully and the wife gets to start living somewhere else,he would also start getting bored with the chick he had been dying for when she wasn't living with him and start chasing or sleeping with another one outside.
It's just the flaw with some men that get bored with one they see everyday and need to sleep with one outside to have a sense of fulfillment.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by KarinaSlim(f): 12:45pm On Mar 15, 2023

Karlifate:

@ bolded: Fallacy of Hasty Generalization.

Not all men have/has side chicks.

Hmmm....okay

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by RulerIAm(m): 12:45pm On Mar 15, 2023

IyaebeTheGreat:
No husband will stress me in this life, that’s all I can say.

Dem de stress okpo?! Move on to the next d as u have been doing. Shikena!

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Thegoodone13(m): 12:45pm On Mar 15, 2023

Confront him but in polite way. Don't fight him but let him know that you love him, do what ever he ask you to do and let him know disadvantage of married two wives. Satisfy him sexually , always prepare good food and never nag.

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 12:46pm On Mar 15, 2023

tianshie:

As a Tinubu supporter, may husband stress you in this life, multiplied by one billion. Alarinka.

Meanwhile, if any of you urchins comes out on Saturday intending to foment trouble, swinging bottles, planks, and pestles, tuah, tuah, shall be your case. If YOU sef follow dem inside the car, you sef go collect.

That’s if I allow myself to be stressed abi? Before you return from work, I’ve ran back to my father’s house where I’ll have undiluted love and peace

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by saysoo: 12:46pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

That means you are the side chic. What have you been doing to him that will make him consider you as a side chic?

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Karlifate: 12:46pm On Mar 15, 2023

sheldonbbt:

You are wrong. If I have the chance, I will cheat on my wife without looking back.

Marriage is less than 2 years, I do everything possible to make her and our soon to be 2 year old child comfortable, I work my ass off and understand she is trying, but how can a wife deny sex for almost a month when I am not impotent or have medical issues.

You sit her down and talk, you threaten, your plead and she promises, I will change then you have sex that day and that's it for the next 2 weeks. When me I am there with wild imagination of what I will do to my wife when I get home but gets disappointed with someone who will ask me, is it only sex you are always thinking of? Errrrm, I am not a sex person, intimacy is not only sex bullshit and you want me to live the that type of wife till my dying days where she is able to control me with what she has.

Please stop the nonsense.

Don't mind all these kids.

They're quick to form panel of judges & low-budget defense counsels on a one-sided story, especially if it's coming from a woman.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by RevolverOcelot(m): 12:47pm On Mar 15, 2023

There's nothing much you can do.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by 77up(m): 12:47pm On Mar 15, 2023

Tenrack:
cheat on him.

This seems to be the biggest wrong advice ever on this platform, like seriously? Haba no now. You don't cure headache by cutting the head. If she get caught, her husband will have a good soft landing for his concubinage.

Accept the second wife, take care of your children or move out if you can't.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 12:47pm On Mar 15, 2023

gfelo:
i dont think you are married, if you are married ur own is coming soon

Leave that thing. I don’t expect a man that claims to be my husband to deliberately hurt and cause me pains, I’ll run back to my father’s house to enjoy my peace and undiluted love. Na my own bdat

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Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by IyaTola: 12:48pm On Mar 15, 2023

lummy247:
Please, I need advice. I went through my husband's phone and I saw a message he shared with his side chick.

In the text message, the side chick was telling him to get something for her mother. He responded that he doesn't have an idea on what to buy. The lady later suggested that He should buy Provisions for her.

They talk everyday and they exchange romantic texts everyday. They even have a pet name for each other.
My husband is a Civil Engineer and some weekends he travels for 'work', I know he has gone to see her.

This relationship with the side chick is gradually affecting my marriage. I have the fear of what will happen if she gets pregnant. For him to see her mother, it shows that they are already very close. He also sends her money. I see the transactions on his Bank App.

Please I need advice, what can I do.

See Side chick have come to stay, learn from her.

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Nobody: 12:48pm On Mar 15, 2023

RulerIAm:
Dem de stress okpo?! Move on to the next d as u have been doing. Shikena!

Onyioshi anumanu

Re: My Husband Has Gone To See His Side Chick's Mother by Srallens(m): 12:48pm On Mar 15, 2023

Goodlady:

You mean a wife that's depending on her husband abi?
My advise, dear females, empower yourself.
Don't be a second class citizen in the house of any man. They all v tendencies to cheat. It's just that some are hiding cos of their financial ability. The first thing that enter a hustling man's head after getting rich is how to sleep with all.the girls that do him yanga before. That's the begining of badluck!
Men are scum!

... How you can come up with such insane generalization probably because of your own bad experience is baffling..

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