Smartguyboy:
Las las you will forgive her and she will use this opportunity to harm you badly.

muhammadhan19:
Be right back...

Lungdick:
Bro i use God and everything you have to beg you. Do it asap. Don't let her manipulate you with her yeye tears. Don't fight or assault her, be a man.





Don't let her know when you're about to sell it.

NewestNigerian:
You're right man but she can't manipulative me that easily. My mind is made of steel.

I know my strength and weaknesses. I am that guy who can love freely but can't be manipulated into the act.

NewestNigerian:
Below is the Part 1 thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7611818/over-us-updated

UPDATED

I told her I want out of our relationship, she started laughing, thinking it's a joke.

She didn't take me serious until I started listing number of times she leeched on me. She couldn't believe I knew all her tricks. The smile on her face faded away when I demanded her return my phone, she began to realise am serious.


Then, she responded by saying "fine, what about the Aluminium Kiosk?".
I told her am selling the Kiosk, and she became furious. She started yelling, saying "what's her gain if I sell the Kiosk". She was actually expecting me to dash her the Kiosk. She threatened not to allow me sell the Kiosk and other items, even though I dint plan to sell them but put them to usage.

I told her my mind is madeup and the business isn't holding anymore. She broke down in tears and started labeling me Wicked and said she won't return my phone to me, she was ready to fight (I won't assault her, so I left the phone with her). She claimed am wicked for me to have pulled out of a relationship that doesn't favor me, I laughed.

I left the scene telling her not to call me ever again. She kept calling time to time, telling me I can't leave her just like that, claiming am everything to her and all that😄. Since then till this moment, she have been calling and begging me not to leave and misunderstand her. She called 2 of my friends telling them the ruckus happening between us, dudes called me and like I should rethink it and pardon the girl. Her elder Sister called me and pleading on her behalf. She's presently in my place pleading and crying profusely. I left her in the house with my friends cos am not having the whole drama and my decision is final.

NewestNigerian:
Below is the Part 1 thread
https://www.nairaland.com/7611818/over-us-updated

UPDATED

I told her I want out of our relationship, she started laughing, thinking it's a joke.

She didn't take me serious until I started listing number of times she leeched on me. She couldn't believe I knew all her tricks. The smile on her face faded away when I demanded her return my phone, she began to realise am serious.


Then, she responded by saying "fine, what about the Aluminium Kiosk?".
I told her am selling the Kiosk, and she became furious. She started yelling, saying "what's her gain if I sell the Kiosk". She was actually expecting me to dash her the Kiosk. She threatened not to allow me sell the Kiosk and other items, even though I dint plan to sell them but put them to usage.

I told her my mind is madeup and the business isn't holding anymore. She broke down in tears and started labeling me Wicked and said she won't return my phone to me, she was ready to fight (I won't assault her, so I left the phone with her). She claimed am wicked for me to have pulled out of a relationship that doesn't favor me, I laughed.

I left the scene telling her not to call me ever again. She kept calling time to time, telling me I can't leave her just like that, claiming am everything to her and all that😄. Since then till this moment, she have been calling and begging me not to leave and misunderstand her. She called 2 of my friends telling them the ruckus happening between us, dudes called me and like I should rethink it and pardon the girl. Her elder Sister called me and pleading on her behalf. She's presently in my place pleading and crying profusely. I left her in the house with my friends cos am not having the whole drama and my decision is final.

Smartguyboy:
Las las you will forgive her and she will use this opportunity to harm you badly.

Lungdick:
Bro i use God and everything you have to beg you. Do it asap. Don't let her manipulate you with her yeye tears. Don't fight or assault her, be a man.





Don't let her know when you're about to sell it.

luminouz:


Have you collected your phone back?

Na that one dey do me bayi😄😄😄😄

Antyxx:

don't forgive her, and please look for someone that would love you and ready to grow with you. if she has no pity for you, you don't deserve to be with that kind of person please

Halogenabdul:
Collect your phone back using intelligence means as possible and close her chapter.

But the rate in which they're begging you, you sure say you no fall for dem.
Premium tears and regrets go follow oo.

kelspinall:
i loved the way you ended ya last sentence....

some mf's would ask"what should I do, should I give her another chance"

i must say you are in peace now,bro you did the right thing..if she can't help you to grow,then of what use is she to you? block her number...

i monitored closely to see ya next update and i must say your decision is the best..stay tf away from thaa bicch....word of advice...

#flee and never look back,i believe thats a biblical verse

Enny2013:
That phone is my major concern. Bro, use trick to retrieve ur phone...even if it involves pretending to take her back.

I just hate selfish pple!!!

NewestNigerian:
I let her have it, it doesn't make me less a man

Moreso, I don't fancy Android phones other than Samsung.

luminouz:


Jesus Christ!!!

Ok. God bless you

Gaspardd:
Women have 2 strengths..... Nagging and tears. No man has ever escaped it. No man.

Uptheante:
Oga try collect back your phone.
Since the receipt is written in your name, e no go hard like that.
Even if you no wan use the phone, you can dash it to your mum or sisters or brothers & gain their blessings. You can even sell the phone & use the money for charity.
Don't allow her use your property to attract other guys or benefit illegitimately from your property since she no like you & you no benefit from her.
Collect back your phone & stop speaking long grammar

NewestNigerian:
😃Them say I they speak long grammar.

I'm done, she can keep the phone. In fact, letting her keep the phone makes me feel sufficient😄

Uptheante:

She go dey use that phone which is a product of your hard work & sweat to connect to guys wey go dey Bleep her silly. And those are bad guys that have never made any effort on her not to talk of doing even a quarter of what you have done for her. She & her friends fit dey laugh you behind your back while they flex your phone.
Collecting back your property doesn't mean you are petty or you lack or you are immature as she manipulate you to think.
It rather means that you don't enable or reward betrayal, selfishness, greed & deceit. It means that you are ready, willing & capable of dealing with any bad behaviour at least by retrieving whatever benefit the offender derives from you.
I'm not trying to convince you to go against your will, I'm just telling you the facts from my own point of view.

Your point is valid bruv, very valid, but I already let that go. The said lady is already in my past. Going back to retrieve the phone means am revisiting my past. Its gone and I feel good about it😇

If pple get to know you as someone who can easily forgo his property especially to girls wey no deserve am, I swear more girls will prey on this your weakness & deal with you ruthlessly under the guise of relationship. Next one fit be car or house or land or shop.

🤣
We learn to grow bruv, not to become more gullible😁

Lastly bro try buy good phones, clothes, food, gadgets, etc for your parents. At least let them enjoy you while they are still around. Their prayers & blessings will open doors for you & save you from dangers.
No matter how small you give them, they'll appreciate it so much as if you've given them the world & your blessings will be a thousand fold. They're the only pple together with your siblings, who love you unconditionally.
Can you compare that with spending on a bitch? 🤔

Wow! You're right on this bruv, very right.
I run shows for my family, but not enough. I gotta do more. Thanks a million times ❤