HaneefahRN:


No matter what he went through with the wife. He was the one that knew what he saw in her that made him marry her. The children must never suffer for it. The parents can divorce but they must not use their stupidity to affect the wellbeing of the children. Children are not stupid, they know

kilimanjaro:

You are rich kid

thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

LuvsBeautifl:


😊

jhydebaba:
Mum 0k
Dad 0k
Me 100k





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Before you say I'm callous, both parent are late so I'm keeping my money, all of it

faceLAGOS:


Well,

Both of them actually lost the battle & I’m the winning one here.

Hence, none of them is getting shishi as I’ll keep “everything” for myself.

As for my dad reaching out, I believe he’s expecting “returns” from me, which I’m very sure he’s not going to get ANY.

That doesn’t mean I wasn’t giving him gifts during Christmas, back then. It’s just that I hadn’t made up my mind yet because I was yet to get my facts right.

My mom is the greater loser here!

That’s a story for another day.

Now, this experience has really changed my orientation about marriage & having children.

I’m a family oriented guy & I’d love to have a really nice family in the future, but it’s like I’m having a second thought about this.

Actually, some people don’t have business getting married or having children because they are not built for it.

That’s why we have lots of dysfunctional family & children that are menace to the society in Nigeria.

I wish parents could be punished (or at least share in the punishment) for the atrocities of their children/ward, like they are proposing to do in China.

I could have being a “bad” boy due to the stress & lack of proper parenting I experienced as a kid growing up, but I decided to do other wise because I knew I was destined for GREATNESS.

Had it not been so, my irresponsible parents almost ruined my life due to selfishness from both of their sides.

Therefore, I have learnt to avoid a woman like my mom and to know when I see one from far off.

And not be like my dad that married a woman like my mom because she’s beautiful.

PDJT:


-Do you not think you're bearing a trauma which is still very fresh and raw? A mental trauma that needs urgent healing?

noble2faith:
As for me,
Father ₦60k
Mother ₦40k

What of you?

remsonik:
I will give my dad 70k if he was alive and 30k to my mum cos my dad is a responsible father, he will spend the whole money on maintenance, repairs, taking care of the house and giving us the best care. I am just praying I meet a man like that.

Justiceleague1:

Guy seriously!!?
You can't do that to your mother

kilimanjaro:

Your own better na we are confirmed pako

HaneefahRN:


Stop justifying nonsense. Unless the mother locked the children a way in Mars a good father who wants to be involved in his children's life will be. Even if the woman get shoko for head the children will see this man made efforts. Not living large forgetting they have children somewhere waiting for them to grow and come and start seeking him out like gold. It is not their fault it is the system that allows irresponsible parents to go scot free.

thesicilian:

Probably because he has spent everything he has on house rent, school fees, transportation and given the rest to mom for housekeeping, until the next salary cycle.
Some of you will not understand the dynamics of being a father, especially the salary earners, in the typical African society.

daboy18:
Good question me dad 99k mum 1k whether she like it or not that 's final

toxtimmy:
Assuming mama is the real mama...give her the whole cash, papa will be eating well for a long time... Both will be happy.

silibaba:
my mom was over-hyped compared to my Dad.

Am not saying my mom didn't do her best, but you see my dad, how i wish he's alive.

He will go the extra miles to put food on the table.

He have received slap just to put food on the table(from his employer in a textile company)

He will convert his car (504 Peugeot)into taxi after work just to make both end meet.

Every December he sew new clothes for us.

He will take from my mum to the lastborn(family of nine) to tailor.

Buy Christmas shoes. Drive us to village, come back to his work. After the holiday he will come to the village and pick us again back to Lagos from east.

He will go to work and sign in, come back and drive us to school.

When we fall sick, he will take us to hospital himself.

He buys food stuffs including beverages, meat, fish himself.

He likes doing everything himself, thereby making my mom look insignificant in the family.

Just to mention bit few.

But among all mothers mine is the BEST

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell

Jesslove:
Mum 100k, dad can go to hell