From DM "Please I Need Advice From People In Abuja. Am Depressed!

Please 🥺 I need advice. Since I graduated from University of Benin in 2011, I have not had a good job. I also have a Masters degree from same Uni. I reside in Warri in Delta State. I also own a diploma in theology, that means have been to bible school. Have been teaching in different private schools since 2011.

I am 34 now will be 35 in few months time. Lots of people are putting pressure on me to get married but I am scared I can't sustain a family with my meagre private school teacher's salary. I am considering relocating to Abuja to see if I could get a better life with my credentials. I don't know how life really is over there? If I could get a better job? even if it's a good private school that pays well.
What's the cost of accommodation? just trying to take a leap of faith. Though it seems late, but better late than never. I just feel a change in environment would be better because help is not forth coming from anywhere. I could also work as a pastor in a church if I can get accommodation.

Someone please help me I need counsel. Thank you in anticipation 🙏. I have been thinking 🤔 too much lately. Seems like am running out of time cos most of my mates are already married and settled. Help a brother, Esan by tribe but born and brought up in Warri. I am currently like a burden to my aged parents right now because I still live with them and feed from them. I have savings of up to 150k.

Keep the advice coming please. Should I just rent a small house in Warri and be managing things or I should relocate to Abuja ? Or even Lagos? I know I am brilliant because I graduated with a second class upper grade with a 4. Point CGPA in biochemistry. I can speak fluently and can defend my certificate but have not been really lucky with jobs. Have spent t fare attending different interviews in Lagos in the past I had to give up and stop coupled with he fact that the age factor isn't on my side anymore".

Danielomisco:
I feel ur pain,Abj is mad expensive n u cnt settle wit 150 k....choose a northern state n strt

nappy760:
If you fit try to Japa. Forgot the pressure from your mates that are married, y'all did not come to the world together. Everyone is destined for different paths.

If you can try to learn a skill especially in one of this tech fields while you teach so can have an extra source of income or secure a better paying job.

IyaTola:
Mpape is a good place to settle na

Danielomisco:
with 150k?

IyaTola:
One room for start

Danielomisco:
Abuja is wild n saturated bro, Sis, go to the north if u can speak Hausa...get 50k crib n start life

Flora2Sweet:
Microbiology is the worse course ever....

At least u fit Mix insecticide sale for Market with that course..

JOACHINpedro:
You see that course called Biochemistry, make them commot am for higher institution. It's useless here.



Op should try apply for PhD abroad. He will succeed

Danielomisco:
Abuja is wild n saturated bro,go to the north if u can speak Hausa...get 50k crib n start life

Rubyjade:
Would you rather waste time writing jamb or go for any course, given to you by the varsity?With which money?

nappy760:
If you fit try to Japa. Forgot the pressure from your mates that are married, y'all did not come to the world together. Everyone is destined for different paths.

If you can try to learn a skill especially in one of this tech fields while you teach so can have an extra source of income or secure a better paying job.

JOACHINpedro:

Go for vocational course. At least, if labour market fails him, the skill your acquired won't fail him

Rubyjade:
Where in the north would you see a house of 50k? Do you know the level of insecurity in the north? All the report if technically defeated terrorist or whatever they call are all nit true, ask those in the north. Why do you think we have more northern people in the south?

Rubyjade:
Where in the north would you see a house of 50k? Do you know the level of insecurity in the north? All the report if technically defeated terrorist or whatever they call are all nit true, ask those in the north. Why do you think we have more northern people in the south?

IyaTola:
Gwagalada is not expensive, Bwari is not expensive, Gbesa is not expensive

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