Let’s discuss

Decency (first and most important priority for me), charisma and money.

Fear of God
Decency
Honesty
Ability to forgive and tolerant.

It varies. For me, a wife material
(Nigeria standard) must have nyash and bress first.

Zonefree:
It varies. For me, a wife material (Nigeria standard) must have nyash and bress first.

Just imagine,later you'll be complaining up and down as if marriage is a prison and a dangerous zone.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Just imagine,later you'll be complaining up and down as if marriage is a prison and a dangerous zone.

The truth dey always pain you...why?

* Ability to manage money: Men love good managers. I m talking from experience.

* Cooking skills: Before sex, it's food. When a lover eat well from your kitchen, his brain ll be fixed on you.

* Bedmatics skills: Of cos, the man must be handled well in the other room. It's one of their top wishes.

* Empathy: Cos one must be considerate and put others in their own shoes.

* Home Management: Cos one must be able to put the home in order, control the kids, teach them morals.

* Business Management: Cos I must have my biz, manage it well and assist my husband in managing his own

* Neatness: Cos I hate dirtiness

* Tolerance: Cos men always act like goats. Never adhering to instructions easily and be forming boss.

* Wife Madness: Be ready to change it for men once a while when they misbehave. Don't be a puppet. Let them know their life and happiness is in your hands.

Wordsfrombimpe:
Let’s discuss

IyaebeTheGreat:
Decency (first and most important priority for me), charisma and money.

virginprincess:
Fear of God
Decency
Honesty
Ability to forgive and tolerant.

Non manipulative feminist.

Submissive because someone must lead the other.
Two kings do not seat on a throne and two husbands can not be in a family.

A good wife must first understand that she should accept the man's mother and not use her woman skills to cause a rift between her husband and his family.

Also, must be ready to accept a second wife if she is a Muslim because that religion accepts that so she should not act woke when her religion accepts it

A good wife must respects her husband friends at all times. And never try to cause a rift between them. Many of his friends love him unconditionally.

A good wife must spent time to pray for the family. Be more spiritually inclined. Men have no time.

A good wife must not join the coven of women to talk down on her husband for whatever reason.

A good wife must be patient and understanding especially during financial crisis or instability in the family.

A good wife needs to be intelligent and always put the business and family growth before her personal and materialistic demands.

A good wife must never compare her husband to other people husband. That is the beginning of disrespect and sometimes path to adultery.

Don't stop your husband from drinking alcohol if you married him and knew he takes alcohol. This alone don cause problem for marriage.

A good wife must understand that the man's siblings love him unconditionally and must respect them.

She must be ready to follow her husband religion and teach the children her husband religion except the husband gives an exception. Don't form woke for things that are supposed to be. Many families don break because of church or religious belief. Don't suddenly become believer or change religion. You must convince your husband first. As a mother and a wife this is essential.

You must always try to make your husband happy to come home. Don't turn his children against him. Don't weaponize them to achieve your aim. That is witchcraft. Fight your fight with him and leave his children out of it.

A good wife should always try to praise her husband good efforts to her mother. This is important. So the mother would also respect him. Men value respect from their mother inaw alot. Infact it will motivate him to do things for your family.

Zonefree:

The truth dey always pain you...why?

Is there truth that has ever escaped you? So those are what you look out for and nothing more

IyaebeTheGreat:
Is there truth that has ever escaped you? So those are what you look out for and nothing more

What do you expected me to look out for from a Nigerian wife? Long life

Zonefree:

What do you expected me to look out for from a Nigerian wife? Long life

Then stop complaining about Nigerian women because you obviously make bad choices. Na WA for all of una in general

Decency very key I agree

IyaebeTheGreat:
Decency (first and most important priority for me), charisma and money.

IyaebeTheGreat:
Then stop complaining about Nigerian women because you obviously make bad choices. Na WA for all of una in general

Who said I'm complaining? OP asked a question, I responded. Am I not permitted to state qualities of my preferred wife material ?

Nothing but the truth

But the Muslim part if I was Muslim I will not accept such but am a Christian and I believe marriage is a union between two people

Yugoslavia247:





Non manipulative feminist.

Submissive because someone must lead the other.
Two kings do not seat on a throne and two husbands can not be in a family.

A good wife must first understand that she should accept the man's mother and not use her woman skills to cause a rift between her husband and his family.

Also, must be ready to accept a second wife if she is a Muslim because that religion accepts that so she should not act woke when her religion accepts it

A good wife must respects her husband friends at all times. And never try to cause a rift between them. Many of his friends love him unconditionally.

A good wife must spent time to pray for the family. Be more spiritually inclined. Men have no time.

A good wife must not join the coven of women to talk down on her husband for whatever reason.

A good wife must be patient and understanding especially during financial crisis or instability in the family.

A good wife needs to be intelligent and always put the business and family growth before her personal and materialistic demands.

A good wife must never compare her husband to other people husband. That is the beginning of disrespect and sometimes path to adultery.

Don't stop your husband from drinking alcohol if you married him and knew he takes alcohol. This alone don cause problem for marriage.

A good wife must understand that the man's siblings love him unconditionally and must respect them.

She must be ready to follow her husband religion and teach the children her husband religion except the husband gives an exception. Don't form woke for things that are supposed to be. Many families don break because of church or religious belief. Don't suddenly become believer or change religion. You must convince your husband first. As a mother and a wife this is essential.

You must always try to make your husband happy to come home. Don't turn his children against him. Don't weaponize them to achieve your aim. That is witchcraft. Fight your fight with him and leave his children out of it.

A good wife should always try to praise her husband good efforts to her mother. This is important. So the mother would also respect him. Men value respect from their mother inaw alot. Infact it will motivate him to do things for your family.

Good view

All of the above no argument

I will manage my partner business even carry the matter on my head sef

Goodlady:
* Ability to manage money: Men love good managers. I m talking from experience.

* Cooking skills: Before sex, it's food. When a lover eat well from your kitchen, his brain ll be fixed on you.

* Bedmatics skills: Of cos, the man must be handled well in the other room. It's one of their top wishes.

* Empathy: Cos one must be considerate and put others in their own shoes.

* Home Management: Cos one must be able to put the home in order, control the kids, teach them morals.

* Business Management: Cos I must have my biz, manage it well and assist my husband in managing his own

* Neatness: Cos I hate dirtiness

* Tolerance: Cos men always act like goats. Never adhering to instructions easily and be forming boss.

* Wife Madness: Be ready to change it for men once a while when they misbehave. Don't be a puppet. Let them know their life and happiness is in your hands.

Never can tell, cus ppl can hide some to pretend good outside. Untill you've put that small iron around their fan, then all hell let loose.

Most women don’t manage their husband business is wrong

They don’t know if your husband is making sales is a plus

Wordsfrombimpe:
Nothing but the truth

But the Muslim part if I was Muslim I will not accept such but am a Christian and I believe marriage is a union between two people

If you were a Muslim. You would have no choice in the first instance.

I hope we are learning

Because this discussion is very important

I will have a choice

Yugoslavia247:


If you were a Muslim. You would have no choice in the first instance.

Lols. Not all but I get your point

marlow1962:
Never can tell, cus ppl can hide some to pretend good outside. Untill you've put that small iron around their fan, then all hell let loose.

Nice

Zonefree:
It varies. For me, a wife material
(Nigeria standard) must have nyash and bress first.

Interesting

virginprincess:
Fear of God
Decency
Honesty
Ability to forgive and tolerant.

Wordsfrombimpe:
I will have a choice

Lol. This question has left many Muslim girls dumbfounded. The religion clearly states it.

I asked one devout Muslim and she said she will live in peace with the co wives. Because the holy book approves it. Others always assure themselves that the man will not. If your husband is a devout Muslim he will marry another wife except he has no wealth. Gladly, a Muslim gal will marry him. She has done right as the holy book says.

Many woke Muslims will want to act woke but the holy book has spoken already.

F

That’s why am not Muslim because I won’t accept this

Yugoslavia247:


Lol. This question has left many Muslim girls dumbfounded. The religion clearly states it.

I asked one devout Muslim and she said she will live in peace with the co wives. Because the holy book approves it. Others always assure themselves that the man will not. If your husband is a devout Muslim he will marry another wife except he has no wealth. Gladly, a Muslim gal will marry him. She has done right as the holy book says.

Many woke Muslims will want to act woke but the holy book has spoken already.

F

Wordsfrombimpe:
Let’s discuss

Honestly there is nothing like wife material or husband material

Every one should behave well to avoid disappointments and insults in a relationship