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| My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 9:46am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Seriously I don’t know how they found me but I have refused to Confirm them and now they are disturbing me at work about me not confirming their request. I don’t want to we only work together I don’t want to be friends with you people. But I don’t also want to be a bi..tch either like how do I go about this? I am even carrying a different surname but these people still found me with their nosey selves. 8 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by FORWARDEVERLY: 10:09am On Apr 05, 2023 |
LoL... We are on the same boat... I do have some Friend request that I kept pending for over 7yrs... I ain't capping... I no need pokenoser and unnecessary familiarity abegg.. 18 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by mymadam(m): 10:11am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat:I have the same dilemma. Simply ignore the requests. It won't be the end of the world. Just carry on being your true self. Remember, it's a 'positively selfish' world. Hope this helps 🤗 13 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Yampotatocarrot(m): 10:13am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat: Add them, then block them from viewing anything about you (I'm sure Facebook should have something similar to WhatsApp where some people cannot see your posts) 6 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by TimFisher2: 10:14am On Apr 05, 2023 |
 This was the same dilemma I am faced. I mistakenly accepted my close colleague.. .I know I cant decline because it will be obvious Before you said jack robinson...it seems as if he came with community...Ayam tired  You might have accepted one person that came with family and friends for them to spot you or you opened your Facebook with your mobile number...which is mistakes people always make 5 Likes |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 10:26am On Apr 05, 2023 |
TimFisher2: It is as if one person found me and let everyone know, smh. mymadam: I think this is what imma do thanks. 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Smartguyboy(m): 10:30am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Just let them know you don’t use your Facebook often or you have more than 1000 requests and you can’t find them . 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Septagon: 10:48am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Same here.the worse is anything I post (cos I like posting),they will bring it to the office and discuss nonsense. 5 Likes |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 11:48am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Septagon: Same and I just don’t want them in my personal space. @Everyone thanks for the advice all great suggestions. |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 11:49am On Apr 05, 2023 |
Smartguyboy:You genius. 4 Likes |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Generalwoodz(m): 1:39pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Septagon: While the discussion goes on in the office, do somebody on top of his lungs shout ' I like this post?' and another ' I comment on this post? And yet another by turning his face into something like: 😞☹️😟😢😭😥 |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Nobody: 2:30pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
I can relate, I guess it's one of the reasons I left the app .I'm a very private person and I love to define relations and set boundaries. Let work be work, school be school , home be home, church be church. You must be a special being to cut across all. Right now, my boss is blocked from seeing my WhatsApp status. Only one of my colleagues have access to that. People just don't understand. 15 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Ihedinuwa69(m): 2:50pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
I can remember telling my close colleagues then at work that they should not bother requesting that I should be their friend on Facebook Our workplace is so complex that everyone had almost all the frickin person in it as friends in almost all social media. Due to the "suggested for you" shit FB does I told them not to bother because it might end the way I wouldn't wanted it to Instead they should chat me up using fB messenger Till I left that working space even now I have non of them as Facebook friend 5 Likes |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Oluromantic: 3:29pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
It's your right to confirm or not. You can confirm the ones who are in line with your lifestyle and you're in good terms. The other ones you leave the request there. If you know how many female request I left on my timeline, you will wow. Some naturally are mannerless and disrespectful gossips and they're expecting me to be friends with them. My fb account matters privately to me biko! 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by stormborn28(m): 3:43pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat: Your Ikebe is enough for them to add you. 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Ballzproblem2: 3:47pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
your ikebe is too big to ignore |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 3:53pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Ballzproblem2: stormborn28: You people are damn funny, I work with them Naw they see it live. It ain’t the Ikebe they just curious and wanna know more about my life. 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 3:58pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat:one of the reason i want my future wife to be staying at home. |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:02pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat:but wait ooo I want to ask u a question ma! that baka wey u carry no dey heavy you? 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 4:04pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Warl0ck: She could stay home and still fu..ck another man’s in your matrimonial bed. Boils down to character not restriction. 3 Likes |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 4:10pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Warl0ck: It ain’t that big there are women with bigger. |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:15pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat: I will be fine if she fucks_and i dont find out(although she cant try it) than imagining things like: they might be playfully touching her ass. They might be touching her boobs right now, A guy might have lapped her by now. As in, i wont have rest of mind. (Thats me) |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:16pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat: |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:17pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 4:20pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Warl0ck: Will the answer to This question bring any significance to your life? 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:22pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat:yeah Its gonna help calm my nerves at the moment... (just curious) 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Rokiat(f): 4:26pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Warl0ck: Curiosity kill you there.  I ain’t answering.1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Warl0ck: 4:31pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat:oya forgive my ignorance... Not suprised, u aint the first.... And definitely wont be the last Dunno why girls with big azz find it difficult to answer this simple question. 1 Like |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Kingnelson9: 4:46pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Rokiat: Lol, just accept them, there is nothing there . I did it to my colleagues back then and it was fun , I later accepted the request and it's still through Facebook that we reconnect after losing contact |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by folake4u(f): 6:03pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
Persephone1: People don't just understand privacy really. Nobody at my workplace sees my Whatsapp status, same with church folks. Heck, It's just two contact from church sef that I have.  Privacy is very KEY. |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Nobody: 6:58pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
folake4u:LoL I told a friend about this, he said it's because I have something to hide. LoL okay nah. |
| Re: My Colleagues From Work Adding Me On Facebook And I Don’t Want To Confirm Them by Vinnie2000(m): 7:03pm On Apr 05, 2023 |
OP, I understand ur Feelings about ur Colleagues viewing ur Activities on Facebook. BUT It is RUDE for you to keep them on Pending.  ACCEPT their Friend Request!. 1 Like |
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