koladata:
well all i know is that men don't usually leave good women ... until i hear his side of the story. , my ex painted me so bad to the whole world and to my close friend. everybody hated me, but i stood my ground that i was leaving.

There's no way you won't believe her story, she told every single soul including my clients. i lost friends and even money, until one fateful day i hacked her phone and accessed all her whatsap messages, videos and pictures , it was gross , she was a porn star i the making. sharing the honey pot like birthday cake. now everybody believed me when i said i was done with her. She was an angel in the eyes of my family and friends but i was the only one who saw the devil in her before the phone revelation. God saved me , i didn't just dodged a bullet, i dodged an entire military weapon.

Going forward in my life , if anybody complains of heat break , my first question is usually "what did you do?"

Donkogbe:
I've never shared my story publicly.
I started dating my ex when I was 20 and he was my 2nd, my first mol£ Sted me. So I always see my ex as my first cos my first consensual sez was with him. I had just gotten into uni then.
Fast Forward to 5yrs later, I graduated and we were still dating o. Mind you, I never had a school bf because he lived in Benin while my school was in ekpoma (AAU). All my years in school I never experienced what it felt like to have a bf In school. My whole life was just him.
So after graduation, he asked me to move in with him.
Though he was out of the country at the time. So I was staying at his place, I had a shop he opened for me while I was waiting for NYSC. Fast forward to a yr later, we started building his house. I was in charge of his finances because he didn't trust any of his family members then, so we finished the house in 8mths.
furnished and bought everything in the house but he was the one sending the money. So after Abt 2mths he came back to Nigeria and we moved into the house and rented out the back flat.

A lady and her family moved in, guess what my ex started dating the lady without me knowing & everybody in the whole area knew but I didn't g Well to cut long story short they're both married with a kid now and guess what??
I'm just now beginning to heal from the heart break
know y'all might wanna know what his reason for breaking up with me was Well according to him he said he didn't love me anymore that meeting this said lady was what opened his eyes to realize that he has never loved me g
That day I collap§ £d and was taking to the hospital by the girl's mother.
Ispent 3days in the hospital and a week after I was discharged he came to my sister's house to collect his shop keys. (I called it his shop cos he sponsored everything) and he gave the keys to the said girl's mother g ) I was depreSSed for over a year. Living on antidepressants.
It took me 18 good months to even give my number to a man. I saw men like bEaSts) . Now I'm 31, still single and somebody comes to bash me for being unmarried at this age? Y'all think anybody ever planned to be over 30 and unmarried Walk in people's shoes first before bashing them. Apologies for the long history

Medianna:

Let's ask you the same question
What did you do?
Some of us just go waaaaaa!!!
If there is a lady somewhere who can do that to you, then there are men somewhere who can do more than that ok!

koladata:
well all i know is that men don't usually leave good women ... until i hear his side of the story. , my ex painted me so bad to the whole world and to my close friend. everybody hated me, but i stood my ground that i was leaving.

There's no way you won't believe her story, she told every single soul including my clients. i lost friends and even money, until one fateful day i hacked her phone and accessed all her whatsap messages, videos and pictures , it was gross , she was a porn star in the making. sharing the honey pot like birthday cake. now everybody believed me when i said i was done with her. She was an angel in the eyes of my family and friends but i was the only one who saw the devil in her before the phone revelation. God saved me[b] , i didn't just dodged a bullet, i dodged an entire military weapon. [/b]

Going forward in my life , if anybody complains of heat break , my first question is usually "what did you do?"

koladata:
see you don't have to do anything when it comes to infidelity, and that was in my case with my ex in-which i still kept all the evidences till today. meanwhile, Its not every guy that is into tech to be able to access what i was able to access and even though i don't pry into people's privacy but i just have to do that one to save my mental health.

So you don't have to do anything when it comes to infidelity and that doesn't mean she was a bad lady , she cooks, clean , support and other good stuffs, but she's a honey pot distributor, infact major dealer. To some people its in the brain and its a nature call, their hormone is still doing the thinking for them and i can't blame anybody because you can't cheat nature has sex drives varies but owning up to the truth when matter arises is the big deal. saying unprecedented things when relationship ends, cooking up stories just to paint someone black is a NO NO

Men will usually say it when they fuckup . but for wemen !!! i've never heard a lady that admitted that she messed up before in my life.

when ever breakup stories sounds to horrible to be truth like this , i'm not buying it.... NO i'm not

Medianna:

This bolded part have answered my question.
And that was exactly what I wanted to here from you.
So no need of saying guys hardly leave good woman. That's not true

koladata:
well all i know is that men don't usually leave good women ... until i hear his side of the story. , my ex painted me so bad to the whole world and to my close friend. everybody hated me, but i stood my ground that i was leaving.

There's no way you won't believe her story, she told every single soul including my clients. i lost friends and even money, until one fateful day i hacked her phone and accessed all her whatsap messages, videos and pictures , it was gross , she was a porn star in the making. sharing the honey pot like birthday cake. now everybody believed me when i said i was done with her. She was an angel in the eyes of my family and friends but i was the only one who saw the devil in her before the phone revelation. God saved me , i didn't just dodged a bullet, i dodged an entire military weapon.

Going forward in my life , if anybody complains of heat break , my first question is usually "what did you do?"

Donkogbe:
I've never shared my story publicly.
I started dating my ex when I was 20 and he was my 2nd, my first mol£ Sted me. So I always see my ex as my first cos my first consensual sez was with him. I had just gotten into uni then.
Fast Forward to 5yrs later, I graduated and we were still dating o. Mind you, I never had a school bf because he lived in Benin while my school was in ekpoma (AAU). All my years in school I never experienced what it felt like to have a bf In school. My whole life was just him.
So after graduation, he asked me to move in with him.
Though he was out of the country at the time. So I was staying at his place, I had a shop he opened for me while I was waiting for NYSC. Fast forward to a yr later, we started building his house. I was in charge of his finances because he didn't trust any of his family members then, so we finished the house in 8mths.
furnished and bought everything in the house but he was the one sending the money. So after Abt 2mths he came back to Nigeria and we moved into the house and rented out the back flat.

A lady and her family moved in, guess what my ex started dating the lady without me knowing & everybody in the whole area knew but I didn't g Well to cut long story short they're both married with a kid now and guess what??
I'm just now beginning to heal from the heart break
know y'all might wanna know what his reason for breaking up with me was Well according to him he said he didn't love me anymore that meeting this said lady was what opened his eyes to realize that he has never loved me g
That day I collap§ £d and was taking to the hospital by the girl's mother.
Ispent 3days in the hospital and a week after I was discharged he came to my sister's house to collect his shop keys. (I called it his shop cos he sponsored everything) and he gave the keys to the said girl's mother g ) I was depreSSed for over a year. Living on antidepressants.
It took me 18 good months to even give my number to a man. I saw men like bEaSts) . Now I'm 31, still single and somebody comes to bash me for being unmarried at this age? Y'all think anybody ever planned to be over 30 and unmarried Walk in people's shoes first before bashing them. Apologies for the long history

seanwilliam:
Hmm sorry ehn, God will bring person wey go stay .

But it’s EXTREMELY rare for a man to dump a supportive and valuable woman . Even if he does that , he’ll do something you’ll always remember him for.

Number of years you spend with a man doesn’t matter to him , your impact does. You dey calculate the years, him dey calculate your contribution and usefulness to his future.

There is more to this story , it’s very hard for a woman to agree she’s wrong after breakup but let’s pretend you’re saying the truth .